Get ready for a wild ride of family drama! Meet our 17-year-old protagonist, her deaf little sis, and their not-so-attentive parents. With a cochlear implant that causes sensory overload and parents who just don’t seem to get it, tensions are running high in this household! Big Sis tries to stand up for her little sis, but Mom and Dad are having none of it. Buckle up, because this story is about to get real!
Family Drama Unfolds: Meet the Cast!

Little Sis Struggles with Sensory Overload

Surprise! Baby Sister Joins the Fam

Big Bro to the Rescue: Deaf Daycare Dilemma

Off to Deaf School, 2 Hours Away!

Big Sis Knows Some Signs, But Parents Say No to ASL

Mom Tries to Force CI, Little Sis Says No Way!

️ Mom Yells, Big Sis Steps In ️

♀️ “Stop Yelling, She Can’t Understand!” ♀️

“How About You Learn Sign Language?”

Mom Takes Offense, Dad Sends Big Sis to Her Room

♀️ Big Sis Doesn’t See the Problem ♀️

Mom’s Insecurities Showing?

Big Sis Suggests Moving Closer to Deaf School

Family Feud Erupts Over Deaf Sister’s Care!
The drama reaches a boiling point when Mom tries to force the CI on Little Sis, who throws it on the ground in protest. Big Sis steps in, telling Mom to stop yelling since Little Sis can’t understand. ♀️ When Big Sis suggests learning sign language, Mom takes major offense! Dad sends Big Sis to her room, and the yelling continues downstairs. ️ Big Sis doesn’t see how her suggestion was bad, but wonders if she’s accidentally accusing her parents of being bad at parenting. Is Big Sis the a-hole for standing up for her deaf sister, or are Mom and Dad letting their own insecurities get in the way of proper care? ♀️ The internet weighs in with their thoughts on this family feud!
Only 10% of parents to Deaf children learn sign language
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Learning ASL online is a great way to connect with your sister and her culture!

Parents neglect deaf daughter’s needs despite being called out NTA.

Deaf sister deserves better, seek advice from advocacy group

Deaf child’s parents don’t know sign language? NTA, practice on YouTube!

Advocate for your sister, show parents ‘For A Deaf Son’ documentary

Heartbreaking story of neglect, but grateful for the deaf school ❤️

Deaf daughter’s parents in denial, need therapy. Weekend visits only?

Deaf parent encourages signing and respecting bodily autonomy.

Heartbreaking situation, NTA. Your sister deserves better

Supportive comment: Communicate in ASL to support your sister

NTA. Parents refuse to learn ASL for their Deaf daughter
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Sibling does more for deaf sister; commenter says NTA.

Deaf sister’s parents refuse to learn ASL, brother drives her instead

Deaf commenter praises sibling for advocating for deaf sister ❤️

NTA, parents should learn sign language for their daughter

Sibling of a Deaf brother shares their experience and praises learning sign language.

NTA commenter calls out awful parents, edits typo.

Advocating for deaf sister. Residential schools important for Deaf culture.

Siblings advise deaf OP to learn ASL, join support group & therapy.
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Sibling support for deaf sister, NTA judgement, heartwarming

Deaf individual suggests learning sign language or improving implant comfort.
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Deaf person advises sibling to learn sign language for niece

Sibling support for deaf sister, condemns parents for not learning ASL

Deaf child’s parents refuse to learn sign language, comment calls them evil
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Parents refuse to learn sign language for deaf daughter. NTA.

Suggest free sign language classes or deaf culture movies

NTA for supporting sister. Parents TA for refusing sign language.
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Parents’ refusal to learn ASL makes them bad parents. NTA OP!

Grandmother sets an example for accommodating deaf relatives

Mom refuses to learn sign language for deaf child. YTA.

Parents refuse to learn sign language for their deaf daughter. NTA.

Deaf daughter’s siblings support her, but parents refuse sign language. NTA

Sibling calls out parents for neglecting deaf daughter’s needs. #LearnASL

Encouraging device usage isn’t enough. Consider sign language

Deaf child’s siblings suggest reaching out to school for help

Deaf daughter’s parent afraid of being seen as bad parent

Heartwarming support for a deaf child and their standing up sibling ❤️

Deaf daughter’s friend empathizes with her struggles with unsupportive parents.

Siblings plan secret convos in sign language to exclude parents
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Forcing cochlear implants on a 7-year-old? NTA, you’re angels

Sibling defends deaf sister against parents’ laziness and projection

Supportive comment acknowledges parents’ unfair treatment of deaf daughter.

NTA. You and your brother are amazing siblings . Your parents need to put in more effort for your sister’s sake.
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Sibling offers support and advice for Deaf sister’s wellbeing

NTA. Learning sign language is crucial for effective communication

Defending a parent who refuses to learn sign language

Helpful siblings receive validation for efforts to communicate with deaf sister

Deaf child’s parents refuse sign language, commenter finds it amusing.

A supportive dad shares his experience learning sign language ❤️

NTA. Learn sign language and improve your relationship with your sister

Deaf child’s parents refuse to learn sign language. NTA seeks guidance.

Learning sign language can positively impact a deaf child’s self-esteem ❤️

American Sign Language should be taught in all schools

Mom refuses to learn sign language and blames others. NTA.

Neglectful parents refuse to learn sign language for deaf daughter . Commenter suggests calling CPS.

NTA, OP. Commenter compares neglecting deaf daughter to medical neglect.

NTA. Encouraging parents to communicate with their deaf daughter

Deaf sister ostracized by parents for wanting sign language. NTA.

Standing up for deaf sister against family who refuse to learn sign language

Deaf child’s sibling offers advice on sign language and inclusion

Learning ASL to communicate with a deaf relative is essential

Supportive comment encourages learning ASL and standing up against ableism.

Heartbreaking story of a deaf girl whose parents refuse to learn sign language.

Cochlear implants require work and cooperation from everyone involved.

NTA suggests seeking advice from school for deaf daughter’s situation

Advocate for your sister, and hang in there

Redditors agree: Parents refusing to learn sign language for deaf daughter are cruel entitlements. OP is NTA

NTA parent offers helpful advice on ASL for deaf daughter

Heartbreaking situation. NTA. Amazing sister standing up for her sibling.

Calling out bad parenting, this NTA comment hits hard

Learn ASL for your sister, she needs *someone* in her corner

Deaf commenter shares heartbreaking experience with unsupportive parents.

Deaf daughter’s parents refuse to learn sign language. Family conflict.
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Deaf daughter’s needs should be respected, parents need to try

Deaf children suffer when parents refuse to learn sign language

NTA, good on you and your brother for caring

NTA commenter calls out parents for sending deaf daughter to boarding school.
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Former signer shares experience communicating with non-verbal sibling
