Breastfeeding can be a challenging and personal choice for many parents. One parent took to AITA to ask if they were in the wrong for asking their spouse ‘what the f*ck do you want me to do?’ after their spouse refused to feed their son because he is exclusively breastfed. The parent suggested pumping so they could also feed their child, but their spouse declined. After a small argument, the parent’s spouse got up to feed their son but was cold to the parent the following day. A friend sided with the parent’s spouse, but was the parent really in the wrong? Read on to find out.
Navigating breastfeeding disputes as a new parent.

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Father frustrated with unequal parenting responsibilities.

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Misguided advice: “Just start lactating” won’t solve parenting dispute.

OP frustrated with unsolicited advice on inducing lactation. ♀️

Breastfeeding dispute escalates, even practical solutions are off-limits.

Concerned commenter suggests PPD for struggling mother’s well-being.

I won’t lactate just because I’m a mother!

Tensions rise in heated discussion over breastfeeding dispute.

Breastfeeding dispute escalates into a heated argument
Breastfeeding can be a sensitive topic for new parents and can lead to disagreements. A couple with a 4-month-old baby boy is facing a dispute over breastfeeding. The wife exclusively breastfeeds their son, and the husband suggested pumping so he can also feed him, but his wife refused. When their son woke up hungry, the husband woke his wife up to feed him, which led to a small argument. The argument escalated when the husband asked his wife what she wanted him to do since their son is exclusively breastfed, and his wife accused him of shaming her for her choices. The husband turned to Reddit to ask if he was the asshole (AITA), and the post has since gone viral. The couple’s situation has sparked a heated debate among Redditors, with some supporting the husband and others siding with the wife. This is a tough situation for the couple, and it’s clear that they need to have a serious conversation to find a solution that works for both of them. In the next section, we will take a look at some of the comments and reactions to the post.
Breastfeeding debate sparks sympathy, frustration, and helpful tips. ❤️

Parenting dispute turns hilarious with fast food chain jokes

Breastfeeding dispute leads to conflict over feeding responsibilities.

Breastfeeding debate sparks strong opinions on alternative feeding options.

Breastfeeding conflict resolved? NTA suggests freezer solution

Breastfeeding dispute leaves mom with unreasonable expectations. NTA.

A breastfeeding dispute leads to a debate over formula feeding.

Breastfeeding dispute sparks debate over work accommodations.

Breastfeeding debate sparks conflict in parenting dispute

Supportive comment acknowledges difficulty in parenting dispute.

Feed the baby or let it starve? NTA wins.
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Father defends himself for not being able to breastfeed son
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Breastfeeding dispute resolved with clear NTA judgement.

Humorous technical advice exchange in breastfeeding argument thread

NTA wakes up wife to feed baby. Wife needs help.

Misconceptions about breastfeeding lead to formula shortage and ignorance.

Supporting partner struggles with uncooperative breastfeeding mother.

Offering a solution to a breastfeeding dispute.

Supportive advice for new parents navigating breastfeeding challenges.

Breastfeeding dispute causing conflict, NTA can’t help if unsupported.

Breastfeeding debate turns sour, but who’s in the wrong?

Gender assumptions lead to awful comments. NTA.

Breastfeeding mom receives support for feeding her child in need

Husband suggests alternatives to exclusively breastfeeding.

Parenting conflict over breastfeeding and pumping milk solutions.

Engage in a productive conversation with your wife about pumping

Breastfeeding disagreement handled maturely, NTA.

Breastfeeding dispute leaves baby hungry. NTA suggests alternatives.

Breastfeeding debate ends in NTA verdict with no other options

Navigating parenting disagreements over breastfeeding and formula

Humorous reply shuts down wife’s misconception about breastfeeding.

Breastfeeding dispute resolved with humor and honesty

Asking about breastfeeding is reasonable. #NormalizeBreastfeeding

Support for a breastfeeding dad in a parenting dispute. ❤

Gay man supports formula feeding during breastfeeding dispute.

Supportive suggestion for nighttime breastfeeding dispute

Insensitive comments on lactation lead to conflict

Supportive response from a father who understands the struggle

Husband frustrated with wife’s refusal to pump milk for baby

Support for father in breastfeeding dispute with wife.

Breastfeeding debate turns into name-calling.
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Supportive advice for a frustrated spouse dealing with breastfeeding issues.

Dad wants to bond with baby, but wife opposes formula feeding

Breastfeeding dispute resolved peacefully. NTA.

Breastfeeding conflict resolved with clever compromise

Navigating different parenting styles and understanding each other’s needs.

Lazy husband or supportive partner? BF tips in comments!

Breastfeeding dispute causing marital conflict: NTA vs. YTA.

New parents navigate breastfeeding dispute and sleep deprivation.

Dad is NTA for not knowing how to breastfeed, suggests formula

Navigating parenting disagreements with empathy and communication

Dad steps up to feed baby, earns NTA judgment

Sarcastic comment sparks a debate about breastfeeding expectations.
