Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama unfolding before our very eyes! A treasured prom dress passed down from mother to daughter has become the center of a heated conflict. Lauren, the middle daughter, has her heart set on wearing her mom’s cherished red dress to prom… but there’s a catch! The dress is a size 4, and Lauren is a size 14. Accusations of fatphobia and favoritism are flying, and tensions are running high! Will this family find a resolution, or will the prom dress drama tear them apart? Let’s dive in and see how this story unfolds!
A Treasured Prom Dress Dilemma!

A Cherished Gift from Mom

Lauren’s Prom Dress Dream

Suggesting Other Colors… No Luck!

♀️ Refusing to Alter the Prized Possession

Accusations of Fatphobia and Favoritism

Caught in the Act!

A Mother’s Promise

The Nonstop Badgering Begins

Accusations and Isolation

The Great Prom Dress Debacle: A Family Divided!
Well, well, well… this prom dress saga has taken quite a dramatic turn! Lauren’s fixation on wearing her mom’s cherished red dress has led to some serious family tension. Accusations of fatphobia, favoritism, and even bullying have been thrown around, leaving everyone feeling hurt and frustrated. Despite her mom’s efforts to find a solution, Lauren remains determined to wear the dress, even if it means losing weight. But at what cost? Her little sister Maddie is already feeling the sting of Lauren’s hurtful words. It’s clear that this prom dress drama has struck a deep emotional chord within the family. So, what does the internet think of this messy situation? Let’s see what pearls of wisdom the masses have to offer!
NTA for wanting to preserve sentimental dress. Bullying is wrong

Seamstress advice on resizing dress would have been helpful.
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Offered to commission a replica dress in her size, still called fatphobic. NTA.

NTA suggests custom gown for daughter due to size difference

Size 16 woman defends daughter’s dress size, no assholes here

Daughter doesn’t respect sentimental prom dress, NTA for enforcing boundaries

Expert seamstress explains why altering the dress is not feasible
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User requests to see dress, sympathizes with OP’s daughter

Size 2 commenter shares bias but thinks daughter is being unreasonable

Encouraging comment reminds OP to support daughter’s body positivity

Offering alternatives to wear sentimental prom dress, NTA wins.

Understanding the ADHD hyperfocus spiral and addressing self-hate with therapy

NTA’s comment suggests Lauren’s mom is being self-centered
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Body-shaming a 10-year-old is ridiculous. Check Lauren’s online activity.

NTA. Prom dress too sentimental to alter, sister is a bully

NTA- Commenter suggests reassessing Lauren’s mental health, recommends therapy.

NTA shuts down ‘fatphobic’ label, offers solutions for daughter’s dilemma

Sewing expert explains why resizing the dress is not feasible

Physics trumps sentimentality in this NTA comment.

NTA stands up against buzzwords and dishonesty about weight.

Encouraging comment suggests hiring a nutritionist and making a plan to help daughter lose weight and wear sentimental dress . NTA

“A little fatphobia is a good thing” – Controversial Comment
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Size-shaming a 10-year-old? Not cool, mom.

NTA commenter calls for a reality check on entitlement
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Offering a solution with empathy

Size 4 Dress Won’t Fit Size 14: NTA Isn’t Fatphobic
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Tailor confirms dress can’t be altered, OP is NTA

NTA. Daughter wants sentimental dress but doesn’t fit. Compassion vs. accountability.

Daughter wants mom’s prom dress but it won’t fit, NTA

NTA for sending the dress away. It was 8 sizes too small.

Realistic approach to dress size, NTA

Seamstress solution for sentimental prom dress

A concerned commenter suggests the real issue might not be the dress

Support for mom setting boundaries with daughter’s weight and dress.

Healthy over skinny. NTA suggests dress shouldn’t be worn at all.

NTA. Dress is too small, alterations won’t work.

Acknowledging reality or fatphobia? NTA sparks debate.
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Body-shaming a 14-year-old for her dress size? NTA.

Size 4 in 90s = 0 today. Losing weight needed. NTA.

Encouraging NTA comment suggests offering daughter a custom-made dress.

Son stands up against bullying and body-shaming

Tailoring a dress from 4 to 14? Doubtful and NTA.

Parent’s lashing out might set a bad parenting example. ESH

Mom receives support for not letting daughter wear sentimental dress

Encourage body positivity and discourage skinny girl hate. NTA

NTA stands up to dress bully for sentimental prom dress

Encouraging NTA comment teaches valuable life lesson to daughter
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NTA stands firm on not allowing entitled behavior for sentimental dress

Mom tries to retailor size 4 dress to size 14 ♀️

Overcoming obstacles with ADHD and promoting body positivity. NTA.

Be kind to your daughter, not a weight critic!

NTA. Dress has sentimental value and you tried to reason.

Tailor suggests middle ground solution for prom dress size issue

NTA suggests not letting prom-going daughter attend due to behavior.

Daughter not the a**hole, can’t alter dress, mom’s bullying behavior.

Size doesn’t matter, it’s about the dress not fitting her. NTA

Daughter demands altered dress, but NTA parent stands firm

Defending against fatphobia accusations in prom dress controversy

NTA. Embrace yourself, wear your own dress and feel stunning.

Don’t give up your sentimental dress for her fatphobia

Judgmental comment promotes body shaming

Mother not TA, but daughter’s feelings should be acknowledged

ADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria may be causing daughter’s reaction

Defending a mother’s decision to ask daughter to lose weight
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Stand your ground! Don’t let anyone body-shame you or guilt-trip you.

Sibling rivalry and sentimental dresses lead to family conflict.

Body-shaming comment receives no support in prom dress debate

Size shouldn’t stop anyone from wearing their dream dress

NTA for setting realistic expectations. Therapy was a good call.

NTA. Daughter refused replica dress, bullied younger sibling, and attempted theft

NTA calls out body shaming and immaturity in family feud ♀️
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Offered alternatives, but bigger issue here – therapy recommended.

NTA defends sister against body shaming for prom dress

Supportive comment from someone who understands, great job mom!

Suggests practical solution and empathy for daughter’s situation.

Mother refuses to alter dress, advises daughter to lose weight

NTA situation, but calling your daughter a bully is problematic

Daughter’s dress obsession is a symptom of insecurity. Comfort needed. ❤️

Sentimental dress becomes a scapegoat for bigger issues.

Mom’s demand for daughter to lose weight for dress is manipulative. NTA.

Encouraging weight loss for sentimental prom dress

Daughter has an unhealthy obsession with a prom dress

Standing up against bullying and manipulation

NTA gives daughter options, condemns bodyshaming behavior
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Suggestion for a replica dress, NTA comment wins
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