When a neighbor with seven kids demanded that I take the next elevator so she could fit in with her double stroller, I refused. She called me an a**hole, but was I in the wrong? I don’t think people should have to make constant accommodations for those with kids, especially when they are rude and demanding. Many people have thanked me for standing up to her, but others have called me unsympathetic. What do you think? Read on to find out more about this encounter and decide for yourself if I am the a**hole.
Entitled mom demands preferential treatment in elevators for her kids.

Refusing to give up my elevator for a mom’s 7 kids

Kid hits head on pole during elevator ride.

Refusing to take the next elevator for a mom with 7 kids.

Refusing to give up the elevator for a mom and her kids

Refusing to give in to entitled mom’s demands.

Standing up to entitled parents with 7 kids. AITA?

Woman yells at hearing-impaired man to get off elevator

Refusing to make accommodations for a demanding mother of 7.
A neighbor demands people take the next elevator for her seven young children. She shoved people out and even forced an elderly man to leave. After a long day at work, the poster refused to accommodate her and made herself as small as possible in the elevator. The mother became irate and called the poster an a**hole. While some people thanked the poster for standing up to the mother, others called her unsympathetic. The poster questions whether accommodations should always be made for parents with young children. Read on for the reactions to the poster’s actions.
#NTA for refusing to take elevator with 7 kids.

Refusing to give up elevator for mom and 7 kids, NTA.

Child-free commenter sympathizes with OP’s frustration with entitled parents.

Refusing to take the elevator for 7 kids. NTA ♂️

Savage response to a ridiculous request

Mom with 7 kids kicks people out of elevator. NTA for refusing.

NTA for not giving up elevator. Commenter and replyee share disdain.

Standing up to entitled mom for elderly safety

Commenter gets called an a**hole but others don’t stand up for them

Comment mocks mom’s situation; no empathy for her 7 kids.

User defends OP for refusing to cater to entitled mother’s demands.

Parenting is a choice. NTA for refusing to accommodate others.

Harry Potter references fly in NTA comment section.

Standing your ground and holding the door open.

Teaching kids patience and sharing is important. NTA

Commenter receives sarcastic comment, defends NTA judgment

Polite or not, NTA for not letting her cut lines.

Polite request > Demanding entitlement

Polite but firm response to entitled mother demanding special treatment. ♂️

Standing up to entitled mom in elevator, called AH by stranger

Elevator etiquette: No HOV lanes. NTA for refusing.

Claim your spot! ♂️ NTA for not giving it up.

Standing up to entitled parents: NTA for refusing!

No monkey business here! You’re not the a**hole

Standing up to entitled behavior

Assertive response to entitled parent, NTA. ♀️

Refusing to accommodate entitled breeder. ♂️

No kids without planning and budgeting.

Don’t let entitled parents guilt trip you

Having 7 kids doesn’t give you the right to inconvenience others

Commenter refuses to accommodate 7 kids, serves karma.

Taking responsibility for your choices. NTA.

Refusing entitled mom’s elevator demand – NTA

Choosing to ride solo or wait for the next one ♀️ NTA

Petty revenge isn’t the answer ♀️

Don’t let the number of kids excuse rude behavior

Refusing to give up elevator for large family, NTA wins.

Mom demands special treatment for 7 kids, gets shut down. ♂️
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Mom demands priority in elevator for 7 kids. Commenter disagrees

Savage reply to mom’s entitled request.

Not the elevator queen. NTA wins the ride.

Commenter can’t believe the entitlement of the mom with 7 kids

Refusing to cater to entitled behavior of a mom with 7 kids ♂️

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in elevator situation. NTA

Set boundaries with pushy parents.

Standing up to entitled parent on elevator. NTA

Neighbor with 7 kids tries to bully, gets a reality check ♂️

Standing up for yourself and others is always the right choice

Standing up for yourself: #NTA

“Do you see what *I’m* dealing with here?!” NTA

Fairness wins! NTA for not accommodating her 7 kids ♂️

Refusing mom’s elevator demand for 7 kids. NTA wins.

Being considerate goes both ways NTA

Standing your ground against entitled parents

Setting boundaries: NTA for refusing to prioritize someone else’s kids

Commenter is NTA and someone else is TA

Mother demands special treatment for 7 kids, gets reality check. ♀️

Polite OP holds elevator for mom and seven kids, but she demands more. NTA.

Commenter calls out bad parenting, declares NTA. ♀️

Standing up for yourself on the elevator

Setting a good example matters, NTA

Don’t let entitled parents burden you. You’re NTA

Commenter defends OP’s decision, questions mother’s behavior
