Planning a family vacation can be stressful, but what happens when a pregnant DIL’s demands clash with the rest of the family’s plans? One mother-in-law found herself in a difficult situation when her DIL expected special treatment simply because she is pregnant. Despite offering accommodations and compromises, tensions rose as the DIL continued to make demands. Who is in the wrong here? Click to read the full story and weigh in on the debate.
MIL shares experience with pregnant DIL and family dynamics

Step-MIL struggles to accept DIL’s pregnancy

Pregnancy doesn’t give her the right to be demanding

MIL criticizes DIL’s food choices and parenting decisions

Family’s dream vacation plans for new 3-floored house this summer

Fun-filled trip sparks tension between MIL and pregnant DIL ♀️

Pregnant DIL not allowed to ruin MIL’s vacation plans ️

MIL brushes off DIL’s pregnancy concerns about partying

MIL throws fit over bedroom, accuses of favoritism

MIL accuses pregnant DIL of being entitled. Rental suggestion backfires.

Pregnant DIL wants the world to revolve around her
A mother-in-law seeks advice after her pregnant daughter-in-law has become increasingly difficult in the lead-up to the birth of her grandchild. The MIL is struggling to navigate the expectations of her DIL, who seems to believe that everyone should cater to her needs because she is pregnant. The MIL is finding it difficult to know how to respond to her DIL’s demands, especially when it comes to planning a family vacation. Read on to find out what advice the internet has for this frustrated MIL.
NTA comment and replies discuss entitlement of pregnant women and need for handicapped parking spaces.

DIL accused of entitlement for being barely pregnant. ♀️
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Being pregnant doesn’t make you the center of the universe

Pregnancy doesn’t equal royalty. MIL gives reality check

Commenters criticize pregnant woman for being demanding and unappreciative.

Pregnant DIL’s entitlement to dictate others is BS.

Pregnant DIL can’t participate in planned activities; MIL complains anyway.

Pregnancy can be tough – empathy is key.

Is there more to the story? Family pressure and drinking concerns.

Pregnant DIL not the a**hole for wanting freedom on family vacation

Lack of support from husband turning into everyone’s issue.

MIL demands pregnant DIL accommodate her, commenters speculate passive-aggressive behavior.

Pregnant DIL’s dietary requirements not met, MIL’s drinking habits questioned

Pregnant DIL may be struggling with alcohol or trust issues

ESH, but MIL should have talked to her son instead

DIL’s pregnancy concerns dismissed by MIL, causing unnecessary tension

Supportive comment reminds dad-to-be to step up and share parenting.

Pregnancy hormones don’t justify policing others’ activities. NTA

DIL may be worried about the rowdiness and drinking around baby

Pregnant DIL’s in-law trip expectations vs COVID-19 concerns

Commenter calls out bad behavior during pandemic with swearing.

Pregnant DIL jealous of stepmom, but NTA for setting boundaries.

Pregnant DIL’s concern about husband’s drinking around siblings

Support for DIL’s MIL frustration with pregnancy restrictions.

Confusion reigns as commenter’s post history is questioned

Seeking information on Kurt’s drinking problem

Good relationship between MIL and DIL despite current disagreement

Pregnancy doesn’t justify self-absorption.

Pregnant DIL faces NTA judgement amidst MIL’s entitlement and bitterness

Suggest creating a list of pregnancy-friendly activities to enjoy together

Consider hiring a babysitter for DIL to join activities ❤️

Pregnancy ≠ Sun ☀️ MIL needs to chill

Dealing with a difficult MIL while pregnant. NTA for setting boundaries.

Pregnant DIL feels excluded from family activities planned around drinking

Grandma not obligated to save money for grandchild or plan vacation

A bit of ESH, but son should support wife’s pregnancy requests

Acknowledging the NTA, but pregnant DIL isn’t being unreasonable

ESH MIL expects DIL to conform, but parties every night is unreasonable

Setting boundaries with MIL
