Man’s Wife Suddenly ‘Disabled’ by Back Pain: Is She Faking It?

Imagine marrying the love of your life, only to have them suddenly become ‘disabled’ by back pain just three months later. That’s the reality for one man, who now spends his days caring for his wife and working to support them both. But could there be more to the story? A friend with 13 years of experience in the medical field thinks so, and suspects that the wife’s pain may not be as debilitating as she claims.

Medical Expert’s Suspicion

A Sudden Change

A Closer Look

Life Turned Upside Down

No Time for Himself ⏰

Excuses, Excuses

Leading Questions ❓

The Mysterious Pain

Unprecedented Suffering

A Psychological Issue?

No Friends, No Family

To Tell or Not to Tell?

Willful Ignorance?

Edit: Accepting the Verdict ️

Is the Wife’s Pain Real or Imagined? ‍♀️

In a shocking turn of events, a man’s wife becomes ‘disabled’ by back pain just three months into their marriage. With no clear physical cause, a friend with medical expertise suspects her pain may be psychological. The husband, now burdened with caring for his wife and working to support them both, seems to be in denial about the situation. Should the friend intervene and reveal the truth, or is it better to let sleeping dogs lie? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this delicate situation…

YTA for playing doctor and lacking empathy for invisible disabilities

Physical disability caused by psychological issue is still a disability.

Mind your own business, OP. YTA for diagnosing without qualification

Don’t dismiss invisible disabilities, YWBTA. FND doesn’t show on imaging tests

Don’t dismiss invisible disabilities just because you can’t see them. YTA.

OP’s past resentment towards friend casts doubt on motives. YTA

Disabled person calls out ableism in comment, YTA gets roasted

Friend’s concern dismissed, but commenter offers support.

Respect patient confidentiality or risk losing your job.

Commenter shuts down judgmental behavior with a personal story.

Redditors call out commenter for being a possible A-hole

Commenter explains FND/PPS and suggests resources for friend’s wife.

Commenter calls out OP for being a nosy, meddling prick

Commenter calls out OP’s incompetence in determining disability.

Commenter calls out OP’s lack of medical qualifications. YWBTA.

Chronic pain is real. Don’t doubt someone’s pain experience.

Supportive comment defends against ableist assumptions, encourages empathy.

Commenter ensures HIPAA compliance before accessing medical records

Commenter defends wife’s back pain, calls out judgmental behavior.

Commenter claims medical expertise, receives YTA judgement.

Mind your own business, YWBTA

Medical professional shuts down back pain doubter with research

Don’t dismiss pain just because medical imaging doesn’t show anything.

Don’t dismiss someone’s pain just because you can’t see it

Woman shares her experience of being dismissed by doctors. ‍⚕️

Medically unqualified husband accused of faking wife’s back pain

Don’t play doctor, mind your own business

Don’t be a concern troll. Stay out of it.

Mind your own business, YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for doubting wife’s pain.

Commenter shuts down diagnosing and name-calling. YTA

Commenter shuts down busybody with a dose of common sense

Disability insurance company made my dad’s life a nightmare. YTA.

Beware of those who refuse treatment but demand financial subsidies.

Friend’s wife’s disability is not for you to judge.

Commenter calls out someone for being insensitive.

Don’t play doctor. YTA if you dismiss her pain.

Enabling behavior? Friend keeps picking damsels in distress

OP’s advice on seeking a psychologist for wife’s pain questioned.

Commenter calls out OP for playing doctor. ‍⚕️

Commenter with EDS calls out YTA for bias and lack of empathy.

Navigating the delicate situation of a potentially faking spouse.

Supportive comment suggests revealing truth about friend’s ‘disabled’ wife.

Woman shares her own experience with unexplained pain and advises caution.

Nursing professional defends invisible disabilities and patient’s pain reports. ‍

Mind your own business, YTA.

Giving advice to a close friend: NTA, but tread lightly

Commenter offers helpful advice for seeking medical help ‍⚕️

Defending the OP’s approach to help a suffering friend.

Dismissing a woman’s health issues is a major a-hole move.

Friend questions if man’s wife is faking disability for attention.

Don’t judge those in chronic pain, encourage medical help instead.

Man accused of doubting wife’s disability, called out for ignorance. YTA.

Don’t dismiss invisible illnesses. YTA gets called out.

Don’t play doctor, mind your own business. YWBTA

Friend’s wife may be faking disability. Stay out of it.

Don’t doubt her pain. Chronic pain is real and disabling. YTA.

Mind your own business and stop downplaying a woman’s pain.

Supportive advice to not push the narrative, let him figure out

Don’t question someone’s disability. Medical science doesn’t have all answers.

Expert opinion: NAH, commenter shares helpful insight