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Man With Autism Moves Out After Roommate Repeatedly Steals His Food

by Chifundo
2 years ago
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Living with a roommate can be a challenge, especially when you have specific needs or habits. For one 22-year-old man with autism, his roommate’s repeated food theft had become too much to handle. After a particularly stressful day when he discovered his strawberries had been taken, he had a meltdown and decided to move out without telling his roommate.

This left his roommate panicked and potentially facing homelessness. But was the man with autism in the wrong? As he struggles with human interactions and accurately judging situations, he turned to Reddit’s AITA community for advice.

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Read on to find out what they had to say about the situation and whether or not the man with autism was the a**hole.

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Roommate steals food from autistic man, causing distress and meltdown

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Roommate steals food, autistic man moves out without notice

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Man with autism moves out after roommate repeatedly steals his food

Living with a roommate can be challenging, especially when there are different personalities and habits involved. But for one man on the autism spectrum, it was a matter of respecting his boundaries and needs. He had a tick of counting everything, including bites of food, to cope with the stimulation of the world.

His roommate agreed to not touch his food, but after a couple of months, he started stealing bites. This caused the man immense stress, and when he discovered that his container of strawberries was three short, it was the last straw. He had a meltdown, something that hadn’t happened in over four years.

He decided to move out without informing his roommate, who didn’t even realize until later. The roommate called him and called him an AH, but the man stood by his decision for the sake of his mental health.

Was he in the wrong in this situation ? Find out in the comments and reactions section.

Moving out due to food theft and disrespect is justified. NTA

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Unknown_Roo | Unknown_Roo

OP leaves abusive situation after roommate repeatedly steals his food.

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jsodano | jsodano

Leaving without notice was AH move but roommate’s theft was worse

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miiyou | miiyou

Moving out after food theft: ESH but understandable

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hnandezk05 | hnandezk05

Overcoming challenges: An inspiring story of personal growth

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linzzzzi | linzzzzi

Moving out was the right choice. NTA

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate steals food, both at fault. Moving out necessary

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kajamae | kajamae

Roommate steals food, justified move out, ESH.

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BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23

Investing in a fridge locker or keeping a small fridge?

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amarschderwelt | amarschderwelt

Clear boundaries were set and crossed. NTA

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Sleepy_felines | Sleepy_felines

Setting boundaries is tough, but NTA stood up for himself

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Intelligent_Stop5564 | Intelligent_Stop5564

Roommate stealing food leads to mutual lack of manners and respect. ESH.

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Frajnir-9 | Frajnir-9

Setting boundaries is essential for good mental health ‍♀️

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RandomStranger94 | RandomStranger94

Roommate steals food, commenter struggles to communicate and move out

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chonkosaurusrexx | chonkosaurusrexx

Boundaries were crossed repeatedly. YTA for not giving notice.

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princesscarolyn98 | princesscarolyn98

Respecting boundaries is key. NTA for moving out

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MersWhaawhaa | MersWhaawhaa

Food thief gets a taste of their own medicine

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grog189 | grog189

Autistic man moves out after roommate repeatedly steals his food

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curiousbarbosa | curiousbarbosa

Standing up for yourself and paying rent without tolerating disrespect

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Ok-Trade8013 | Ok-Trade8013

Respect your roommate’s boundaries or face the consequences

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Zagriel55 | Zagriel55

Moving out is a tough decision. ESH but food stealing sucks

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introsetsam | introsetsam

Communication is key: Both parties could have handled better ️

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MidniteProph | MidniteProph

Roommate steals food, OP moves out, both act like a**holes

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cobbster77 | cobbster77

Setting boundaries is important. Moving out was the right choice.

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Kleines_ | Kleines_

Respecting boundaries is crucial for those on the spectrum.

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Southern_Giraffe1372 | Southern_Giraffe1372

Respect your roommate’s property or face the consequences

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Sweet-Salt-1630 | Sweet-Salt-1630

Man with autism moves out after food theft. Roommate at fault. NTA

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ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Respect and boundaries matter, even in roommate situations.

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Akaroku | Akaroku

OP moves out without telling roommate, ESH for lack of communication

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Wandering_TokiMemo | Wandering_TokiMemo

Standing up to a disrespectful thief, you’re great!

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Thrwwy747 | Thrwwy747

Roommate steals food, man with autism moves out. Not cool.

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mangonlime | mangonlime

Leaving without notice is wrong, but self-protection is important

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TheEmpressIsIn | TheEmpressIsIn

Moving out was necessary, communication could’ve been better

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paxxx17 | paxxx17

Respecting boundaries is crucial, he deserved consequences. ‍♂️

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sabukunohades | sabukunohades

Roommate causes meltdown, steals food – justified move out?

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OkapiEli | OkapiEli

Commenter empathizes with OP’s situation and offers constructive criticism

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Vertigote | Vertigote

Respect boundaries or face the consequences ‍♂️

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Sentient-Fleshlight | Sentient-Fleshlight

Setting boundaries is important, but communication is key. ️

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Independent-Act3560 | Independent-Act3560

Both parties lacked respect for each other and their agreement

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CheeseyconnorYT | CheeseyconnorYT

Respectful honesty wins. Roommate’s actions have consequences. #NotTheA**hole

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GlassSandwich9315 | GlassSandwich9315

Protect your food and your rights, NTA!

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Em4Tango | Em4Tango

Stealing food? Not cool! NTA for moving out without notice.

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Health_Returns | Health_Returns

Communication breakdown leads to food theft and ESH behavior

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Skitty_McKitty | Skitty_McKitty

Roommate’s theft leads to just consequences for NTA individual.

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ConsistentCash5646 | ConsistentCash5646

Food thief roommate gets what he deserves.

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Glad-Cook-9897 | Glad-Cook-9897

Standing up for yourself and your needs is important ️

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