Man Refuses to Pay for Ex’s Funeral Expenses, Sparks Family Feud

A man’s refusal to pay for his ex-wife’s funeral expenses has sparked a family feud. Despite purchasing life insurance policies for both of them, his ex-wife removed him as the beneficiary and named her parents instead. Now her parents are claiming he should pay for the funeral. But he argues that he shouldn’t be the one to pay, especially since they will significantly benefit financially from her death. He has offered to pay a small portion of the funeral to ensure it can proceed, but will not cover the religious service or other expenses. The situation has caused him to decline to attend the funeral altogether. As the family feud continues, Reddit users weigh in, asking if he’s the a**hole for refusing to pay.

Man faces family backlash for not paying for ex’s funeral

Heartbreaking story of a man’s failed attempt to save ex-partner.

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Ex-wife’s revenge: removes ex-husband as life insurance beneficiary.

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Man sparks family feud after refusing to pay ex’s funeral expenses

Man refuses to pay ex’s funeral expenses, sparks family feud

Man sparks family feud by refusing to pay ex’s funeral expenses.

Ex’s funeral expenses: man’s refusal and family feud

Man refuses to pay for ex’s funeral, sparks family feud

A man’s decision not to pay for his ex-wife’s funeral has sparked a feud with her parents. The couple had been legally separated for two years before the woman died from liver failure. The man had reportedly begged his ex-wife to seek help for her alcoholism, but she had refused. The couple had purchased life insurance policies during their marriage, but the woman had removed her ex-husband as the beneficiary and named her parents instead. Her parents, who are now planning the funeral, had assumed that the man would pay for everything and had told vendors as much. When the man received an emailed invoice for several thousand dollars, he called his ex-wife’s mother to discuss the matter. Despite offering to pay for a small portion of the funeral, the man will not be paying for the religious service, flowers, or the luncheon afterwards. He has also decided not to attend the funeral, feeling that he is being taken advantage of. But is he in the wrong? Read on for reactions and comments.

Funeral expenses should be paid from her life insurance policy

Insurance payment covers funeral expenses. NTA for not paying.

Who should pay for the funeral? NTA suggests beneficiary, legally it’s unclear

Lawyer advises OP not to pay for ex’s funeral expenses

NTA. Ex’s parents billing you is wrong. Vendors should confirm first.

Don’t pay for the funeral, life insurance is for that

Don’t pay a penny! NTA already paid with life insurance

Funeral expenses and family feuds. ‍ ‍ ‍

Skip the drama, let the insurance pay. NTA

Ex’s death doesn’t obligate you to pay for the funeral . Move on.

Legally married but not liable for ex’s funeral expenses. NTA

Legally separated, kept ex on insurance, no obligation to pay.

Refusing to pay for ex’s funeral expenses – justified or not?

Responsibility of managing finances given to beneficiaries. NTA.

Don’t pay for ex’s funeral expenses, consult a lawyer first! ⚖️

Insurance money makes refusing to pay NTA

Funeral expenses feud: commenter thinks ex’s family was entitled. NTA

Life insurance is for a reason. NTA, don’t pay.

Unanswered questions about the funeral expenses and vendors’ actions.

Ex’s family tries to guilt you into paying? NTA, stand your ground

No responsibility for ex’s funeral expenses. Legal separation. #NTA ‍♂️

Protect your assets: change beneficiaries to avoid family disputes

Don’t be fooled, funeral debt collectors are sharks. NTA

Funeral expenses: who should pay? NTA says comment.

Stand up for your business, NTA comment gets support.

Don’t get stuck with a bigger bill NTA

Stand your ground!

Funerals don’t have to be expensive. NTA for not paying.

Condolences offered for NTA’s refusal to pay ex’s funeral expenses.

Choosing between paying for funeral or cremation causes conflict ⚰️

Funeral expenses feud: Life insurance covers costs, NTA stands firm

Avoiding ex’s funeral expenses: practical or heartless?

Life insurance for funeral expenses ≠ vacation fund ️

No obligation to pay for ex’s funeral.

Funeral expenses drama: NTA refuses to pay

Divorce drama: Man refuses to pay ex’s funeral expenses. NTA.

Fair assessment needed: Divided assets? Estate ownership? NAH/NTA situation.

Legal and financial complexities arise in ex’s funeral expenses dispute

Generous gesture or not? NTA pays for ex’s funeral expenses

Fight over funeral expenses, NTA suggests legal action ⚖️

Life insurance for funeral expenses? NTA takes a stand.

Funeral home profit dispute causes family feud

Not the a**hole, but family drama ensues

Insurance payment settles debt, NTA.

User defends man’s decision to not pay ex’s funeral expenses

Unfair funeral expenses? Vendor AHs?

Ex’s funeral expenses causing family feud, commenter says NTA

Life insurance can cover funeral expenses. Good advice

Life insurance covers funeral, NTA.

Legally not responsible. Family should handle funeral expenses.

Take a stand and cut ties. You’re not responsible. NTA.

Commenter suggests legal action for funeral expenses dispute ⚖️

Refusing to pay for ex’s funeral expenses – NTA or fraud?

Protect your assets: Community property state and life insurance

Take no responsibility ‍♂️ Avoid family feud

Man refuses to pay ex’s funeral expenses, sparks family feud. NTA.

Divorce assets for funeral costs? A messy family feud begins.

Stand your ground: NTA for refusing to pay ex’s funeral.

Funeral home agreement = responsibility. NTA for refusing payment.

Legal advice for not paying ex’s funeral expenses. NTA

Stand your ground! NTA for not paying funeral expenses.

Legal troubles loom for spouse who won’t pay funeral expenses

Insurance policies should cover funeral expenses. NTA in this situation.

Life insurance covers funeral expenses, NTA made the right call

Stand your ground and let the life insurance cover it

Life insurance should cover final expenses, not ex-partners. #NTA

Insurance beneficiary should pay . NTA wins this round.

Life insurance for funeral expenses. NTA wins this round!

Life insurance policy should have helped with funeral costs. NTA

Responsibility for ex’s funeral expenses: NTA or a-hole?

Insurance beneficiaries should pay for funeral expenses. NTA

Life insurance plan not for ex’s funeral expenses. NTA.

Stand your ground, don’t pay & call vendors!

Take control of the situation with clear communication

Ex’s family demands funeral expenses, commenter says NTA ✔

Take control and stand up for yourself. #NTA

Insurance policy should cover funeral expenses. Send flowers instead

Clear explanation why ex’s funeral expenses shouldn’t be his responsibility

Life insurance policies exist for this purpose

Be careful of funeral home bills, pay for what you owe

Funeral home mishap leads to family feud. NTA advice given.

Legal action advised for messy family feud

Dealing with funeral expenses can take months, even with insurance

Life insurance money misused causing family feud

Funeral home may use life insurance money to cover expenses

Divorced man refuses to pay ex’s funeral expenses, sparks family feud

Stand your ground and protect yourself.

Splitting up doesn’t equal financial responsibility

Taking a stand or selfish?