A man and his girlfriend go out to dinner with his family, but his sister repeatedly insults him by calling him gay, making his girlfriend uncomfortable. Despite multiple requests to stop, the sister continues and even goes as far as to suggest he’s having a secret relationship with one of his friends. The man decides to leave the dinner, leaving enough money to cover his and his girlfriend’s portion of the bill. His family calls him an a**hole for leaving them to pay for the rest. Was he in the wrong to take action and leave the dinner? Read on to find out.
Struggle of a private man with noisy family and girlfriend.

Sister won’t stop calling him gay, he leaves dinner upset

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, making girlfriend uncomfortable.

Man stands up to homophobic sister at dinner with girlfriend ️

Leaving family dinner over homophobic jokes? No joke! ️

Is it wrong to leave family dinner over hurtful comments?

Man leaves family dinner after sister repeatedly insults his sexuality
A man who had been in a happy relationship with his girlfriend for over four years was insulted by his sister who kept calling him gay at a family dinner. The sister even went as far as to accuse him of using his girlfriend as a cover for his supposed homosexuality. The man asked his sister to stop but she wouldn’t, and eventually he decided to leave with his girlfriend in tow. The family was left to pay for their own food and drinks, but they later bombarded the man with messages and calls, calling him an a**hole who can’t take a joke. Who’s in the wrong here? Is it ever okay to make fun of someone’s sexuality, even if you’re family? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA. Standing up to bullies is never a joke.

Sister repeatedly calls him gay in front of girlfriend. NTA, disinvite them.

Sister’s ‘joke’ crossed the line, time for no contact

Calling someone gay as a joke isn’t funny. NTA.

Standing up to family’s toxic behavior. Good for you!

Leaving an abusive conversation is always the right choice. NTA

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, family supports her. He leaves.

Standing up for yourself with grace and class.

NTA for leaving dinner after sister’s homophobic insults.

Standing up to emotional abuse from family.

Family’s homophobic behavior leads to dinner disaster, NTA.

Standing up to family disrespect, NTA

Standing up against homophobic behavior is always the right choice

NTA for leaving dinner with family after sister’s homophobic behavior ♂️ Propose to GF, tell family they’re not invited unless they apologize

Setting boundaries with family. NTA

Setting boundaries with family: NTA, go no contact if necessary

Stand up for yourself and cut toxic people from your life

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important

Standing up to family’s homophobia is important, good for you!

Sister’s homophobic behavior rightly called out as psycho

When is a joke not just a joke? NTA stands up to abuse.

NTA stands up to homophobic sister, wedding drama ensues

Family disrespects OP’s girlfriend and calls him gay, NTA for leaving.

Family’s reaction to homophobic comments was mixed

Standing up to homophobic comments and uninviting family to wedding

Bisexual commenter shares experience with annoying comments on sexuality.

Standing up for yourself is not a joke. NTA

Sibling rivalry leads to dinner disaster

Sister’s immature behavior called out with a NTA judgment

Set boundaries with family and cut off toxic relationships. NTA.

NTA. Commenter shares similar experience with homophobic family friends.

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, NTA goes no contact

Sick of being the butt of the joke? Cut toxic family.

Taking a stand against family bullying is important for mental health
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Sister’s immaturity exposed in comments on brother’s sexuality

Standing up to homophobic bullying. NTA for leaving dinner.

Sister’s homophobic behavior leads to family dinner disaster

14-year ‘joke’ about sexuality crosses the line. NTA.

Standing up against hurtful jokes. NTA for leaving dinner.

Sibling boundaries crossed: Sister’s obsession with brother’s sexuality questioned.

When jokes go too far: respecting boundaries in relationships

NTA! Your toxic family did you a huge favor

NTA! Stand up against casual homophobia ❤️

Sister’s comments may be projection. NTA. Good luck OP!

Speculation about sister’s sexuality causes tension at family dinner

Leaving dinner after being repeatedly called gay by sister

Malicious sister’s comments risk ruining the relationship, NTA.

Stand up to bullies, even if they’re family. NTA.

Standing up against harassment, NTA comment wins hearts ❤️

Sometimes love means keeping your distance ❤️

Standing up against harmful ‘jokes’ – NTA

Setting boundaries with family.

Cutting toxic family ties. ♂️
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Calling someone gay as a joke is not funny. NTA.

Standing up to family bullying. NTA

Man stands up to homophobic sister at family dinner. NTA ️

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. NTA strikes back.

Protect your relationship and cut toxic family out

Standing up to family bullies

Sister’s homophobic behavior justified man leaving family dinner.

Standing up against homophobic sister and family. NTA ❤️

Sibling jokes gone too far? NTA for setting boundaries

Standing up for yourself against family is tough, but necessary

Calling someone gay as an insult is unacceptable. NTA.

Sibling rivalry? Ask if she’s projecting her own sexuality NTA

“Haha you’re gay!” Not funny at 34. #NTA

Cutting off toxic family members.
