A groom-to-be is facing a dilemma after his fiancee objected to him inviting his old group of friends to their wedding. The bride claims that these friends heavily bullied and harassed her in high school, causing her mental health to suffer permanently.
However, the groom argues that these friends were part of his childhood-teenage years and he wanted them to be invited. Who’s in the right? Is the bride being unreasonable, or is the groom being insensitive to his fiancee’s feelings?
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Should old high school friends be invited to weddings?
Weddings are a special day for both the bride and the groom. But what happens when the groom wants to invite some old high school friends that the bride despises? This is the dilemma facing one couple as they prepare for their big day.
The groom wants to invite his old group of friends with whom he shared some of his fondest childhood memories. However, the bride is vehemently against the idea as she claims that they bullied and harassed her in high school, causing her permanent mental damage.
The groom argues that this was many years ago and that everyone has matured since then. He feels that he should be allowed to invite his old friends to his wedding. The bride, on the other hand, feels that the groom is prioritizing his old friends over her feelings.
What do you think? Should old high school friends be invited to weddings despite the bride’s disapproval? Join the conversation and share your thoughts on this contentious issue .
YTA for wanting to invite old bullies to your fiancee’s wedding
Fiancee expresses trauma, groom dismissive. Solid YTA.
Groom invites old bullies to wedding, sparking concern about relationship.
Prioritizing old friends over fiancee’s mental health? YTA ♂️
Wedding invite drama – Commenter calls out groom’s disrespectful behavior.
Bride’s trauma minimized and old bullies invited to wedding. YTA
Bullying scars can last a lifetime. YTA for disregarding her feelings
Wedding invite drama – YTA doesn’t care about fiancee’s wishes
Don’t invite your fiancée’s tormenters to your wedding
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Bride-to-be unhappy about groom’s high school friends attending wedding
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OP’s decision to invite old friends despite fiancee’s trauma – YTA
Crying fiancee begs him not to invite old friends. YTA.
Fiancée’s mental health > High school friends. YTA
Bringing bullies to the wedding? YTA indeed
Bride-to-be disapproves of old friends at wedding. YTA.
Bullying is not petty drama. YTA and causing trauma.
Ignoring your fiancée’s wishes? YTA and not a good start
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Ignoring trauma for old friends? YTA and not ready.
A plea to reconsider: YTA for inviting old friends?
Ignoring your fiancee’s past trauma? YTA for sure
Commenter shares personal story about bullying and the lasting impact. Replies lack empathy.
Respect your fiancee’s feelings and let go of the past
Commenter calls out OP for being a potential a**hole
Commenter suggests asking for apology from old bullies, reply shuts down idea.
Ignoring fiancee’s wishes for old friends at wedding – YTA
Bride-to-be uncomfortable with bullies at wedding, groom insists. YTA.
Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and self-centered
Commenter calls out groom’s immaturity and hypocrisy.
Bullied by boyfriend’s friends, relates to fiancée’s trauma. YTA for not taking her seriously.
Bullying lasts a lifetime. OP, YTA.
Wedding invite drama: Commenter calls out groom’s priorities.
Commenter judges harshly: You’re the a**hole, plain and simple ♀️
Bullying scars last forever, listen to your fiancee’s wishes
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Bride-to-be bullied by groom’s old friends, YTA for inviting them.
Bride-to-be’s happiness should be top priority
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Consider your partner’s feelings before inviting old friends.
Choosing bullies over his fiancée? YTA indeed
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Choosing between friends and fiancee.
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