Imagine being locked in a room by your in-laws and interrogated about your salary! That’s exactly what happened to a 28-year-old Canadian man when his fiancée’s Latin American family demanded to know how much he earns. The man stood his ground, refusing to disclose his salary, and even called his in-laws gold-diggers! But now, his fiancée wants him to apologize. Should he? Let’s dive into this dramatic story.
The In-Laws’ Interrogation ️♂️

The Phone and Keys Confiscation

The Salary Demand

Father-in-Law Strikes Back ⚡

Love and Respect vs. Money

Refusing to Back Down

Locked In!

Gold-Digger Accusation

Escorted Out

Fiancée Gets Involved

Apology Demanded

Fiancée’s Stance ❤️

The Babysitter’s Love

Apology for ‘Us’

To Apologize or Not? ♂️

Should He Apologize to His Gold-Digging In-Laws?
After being locked in a room and interrogated about his salary, this man called his in-laws gold-diggers. But now, his fiancée wants him to apologize for hurting their feelings. She insists that she loves him regardless of his wealth and that her parents were just worried about their future. So, should he swallow his pride and apologize, or stand his ground? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA but reconsider relationship due to in-laws and fiancée’s reaction

Locking in fiancé crosses the line, consider leaving this family

Commenter advises setting boundaries with controlling in-laws.

Fiancée’s family kidnapped him for salary info . Red flag

NTA, but reconsider marrying someone with unhealthy family entanglements

Commenter explains unlawful detainment and Canadian law.

Curiosity kills the cat, but not the in-laws ♀️

Agreeing with commenter’s insight on fiancée’s family dynamics.

Locked in a room for salary info? NTA, reconsider relationship.

Commenters agree: NTA, run!

NTA. Locked in a room for personal questions? Red flag

Red flag alert! Don’t ignore the warning signs.
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Stand firm . Your salary is not their business. #NTA

Cultural differences aside, locking someone up is not okay

Commenter agrees with NTA and adds a strong opinion

Get a prenup and protect yourself from gold-diggers

Commenter defends OP and points out dad’s illegal actions NTA

Red flags raised as fiancee sides with gold-digging in-laws

NTA but red flags raised by intimidating in-laws

Navigating cultural differences in relationships

Reconsider marrying into a family that condones gold-digging

Fiancée’s parents demanded salary info, NTA for not reporting crime

Setting boundaries with in-laws

Respect cultural norms around salary privacy. NTA wins.

Fiancé’s lack of support raises questions about the relationship

Fiance’s parents overstepped boundaries and need to back off

In-laws crossed the line, NTA for cutting communication

Red flags in partner’s behavior, seek advice on in-law subreddits

In-laws crossed the line, commenter not the a**hole

Heartbreaking warning about marrying into controlling families

Red flags raised by commenters on fiancee’s intentions and in-laws’ motives TLC knows best?

Commenter advises filing prenup and seeking therapy for toxic situation

NTA’s in-laws tried to forcibly imprison him, red flags everywhere

Setting boundaries with in-laws, NTA locked in bathroom

Navigating cultural differences in salary disclosure with pushy in-laws

Latin American friends complain about relatives assuming millionaire status. NTA

Commenter warns of potential financial disaster in upcoming marriage

Commenter agrees with OP and predicts future financial demands

In-laws demand salary info, commenter says NTA for OP’s response

Cultural expectations and prenups. NTA for setting boundaries

Privacy concerns arise in a bizarre in-law confrontation

Kidnapped by in-laws, OP warned of alimony. NTA

Cultural expectations clash with modern values

Standing up for oneself and not apologizing for the truth
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Fiance’s parents locked him in a room. He left. NTA.

NTA calls girlfriend’s family delusional, sees red flag

User advises premarital counseling and questions fiancée’s loyalty.

User advises to get a prenup and questions fiancée’s financial independence
