Every couple has their own vision for their wedding day, and for one university student, this includes having her many little cousins and niblings in the wedding. However, her future mother-in-law has other plans and insists on a child-free wedding reception. After hearing yet another comment on the matter, the student finally lost her temper and threatened to convince her son to elope.
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Bride-to-be asking if it’s wrong to tell future mother-in-law to back off about having a child-free wedding

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Dreaming of a child-filled wedding day!

Future mother-in-law pushing for a child-free reception, creating tension

The couple is fed up with the mother-in-law’s constant questioning about a child-free wedding. ♀️

Setting some boundaries with the future mother-in-law – eloping might be the only option!

A couple planning their wedding must decide between their future mother-in-law’s wishes and their own.

Couple has to set boundaries with a future mother-in-law who wants to dictate a child-free wedding

Bride-to-be faces pressure to have a child-filled wedding – how should she respond?

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When your future mother-in-law won’t back off about your child-free wedding
My fiance and I met at university, where he was a “legacy”. His family is fancy and wants us to have a huge fancy wedding, but his mother is insisting it be child-free. This didn’t sit well with me, since I have so many little relatives I want at my wedding. I finally reached my breaking point and threatened to elope if I heard one more word about it. My fiance’s dad is on our side, but his mom and other daughters-in-law think I’m being cruel. Is it wrong to tell the future mother-in-law to back off? We take a closer look in the comments and reactions to the Reddit post.
NTA – No a-hole here!

Setting boundaries

NTA: It’s the bride and groom’s day!

✨19 flower girls✨ NTA

NTA: FMIL is an

Couples put to mother-in-law ♀️

NTA: It’s your wedding, your choice!

Setting boundaries with FMIL

NTA: Your wedding, your

❤️ NTA: Family events shouldn’t exclude kids

NTA: ☠️ Royal weddings prove ‘fancy’ isn’t always child-free

NTA: Who’s MIL to decide who attends your wedding?

NTA!! A wedding twist

NTA: When doesn’t help

NTA! The couple’s special day should be respected

NTA setting the precedent!

❔️ NTA for the wedding but did OP come off as an AH?

NTA: It’s your wedding !

Should the couple focus on their own wedding vision?

It’s their wedding!

Find out what happens when OP and her FMIL talk!

NTA ♀️ Grandparents only

It’s your wedding

NTA – why discuss?

No drama queen here ♀️

NTA: The wedding is yours!

Setting boundaries ️

Bride-to-be says to the in-laws!

NTA: Royal weddings needn’t be child-filled!

NTA: Stand Your Ground

NTA at all

A friend’s kid-friendly wedding

Families , ESH ♂️

NTA but ♀️

Family traditions & dancing!

NTA: Two opinions matter

Bride and groom’s say: NTA!

NTA: your wedding to decide!

FMIL needs to

NTA: Do what you both want!

NTA: It’s your wedding

Celebrate your dreams! NTA

NTA: It’s your , not hers!

NTA! Fiancé and deserve the wedding of their dreams.

NTA: Fair warning

NTA, your MIL’s interference is

NTA: It’s ❤️ your wedding!

NTA! Hold your ground!

NTA: Future MIL overstepping ♀️

NTA: It’s your wedding!

NTA: Don’t let MIL take over ♀️

NTA: Time to & ?

NTA: Lovely wedding idea!

NTA: It’s your wedding!

NTA: Don’t take from MIL

Starting your marriage on the right foot

NTA: McDonald’s Play Place!

The couple agrees

NTA: Bride’s wedding

NTA: You deserve the wedding of your dreams!

A refreshing inlaw
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NTA: Setting boundaries

NTA: *Your* wedding, *your* decision

NTA: ♂️

No a**holes allowed

Bride-to-be: ♀️

NTA: It’s *your* wedding day!

NTA: MIL has no say ♂️

NTA for your dream wedding!

No A-hole Here!

NTA: Do what brings you joy!

♀️NTA: Not the a**hole?

NTA

NTA: it’s *their* wedding!

NTA: Elope and celebrate!

NTA! Setting boundaries is key
