Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got a juicy family drama brewing! I’m pregnant (yay! ), but my relationship with my childfree sister is getting a bit… complicated. She’s never been a fan of kids, but now that I’m expecting, she’s feeling left out. Buckle up, folks, because this story is a wild ride! Let’s dive in and see if I’m the a-hole for not involving her more in my pregnancy journey.
Pregnancy News: Sister Drama Brewing!
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❤️ Trying for a Baby with My Wife
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Tale of Two Sisters: One Loves Kids, One… Not So Much ♀️
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Awkward Pregnancy Announcement: “I’m Not Babysitting!”
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♀️ Indifferent Sister, Despite Pregnancy Updates
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No “Aunt” Title, Just Nicknames: Brats, Rugrats, Anklebiters
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Excited Aunt-to-Be: Name Ideas & Due Date Inquiries
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Didn’t Bother Telling Childfree Sister About Pregnancy
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Lackluster Reaction: Due Date & Back to Work Talk
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Sonogram Reveal: Neglected to Tell Extended Family
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Facebook Announcement: Mum’s Family Kept in Touch
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❤️ Positive Response & Support from Mum’s Family
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Upset Sister: Feeling Excluded & Hurt
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♀️ My Response: No Interest, No Effort
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Sister Wants Involvement Now, But I’m Hesitant
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❤️ Love My Sister, But… ♀️
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AITA for Not Involving My Childfree Sister? ♀️
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Sister Showdown: Pregnancy Edition!
Whew, talk about a family feud! My childfree sister is feeling left out of my pregnancy journey, but given her history of indifference towards kids and babies, I’m not sure I want to include her more. ♀️ I mean, she’s called my other sister’s kids “brats” and “rugrats” – not exactly the most maternal vibe, right? But now that I’m posting sonograms and sharing the news with extended family, she’s suddenly interested. Is it unfair of me to keep her at arm’s length, or should I give her a chance to be more involved? ♀️ The internet has some thoughts…
Calling your sister to announce your pregnancy isn’t that hard

Set boundaries but give sister a chance to be supportive

Sibling bond trumps pregnancy excitement, YTA needs perspective.

Setting boundaries with family is important. You’re not obligated to share.

Treating sister like extended family, fair response. #NTA

Sister’s lack of interest in pregnancy makes her not the AH

Navigating family dynamics can be tricky, but judging relationships unfairly? YTA.

Include your sister in the loop despite her disinterest

Assuming disinterest without communication can lead to misunderstandings. Have a talk.

Sister’s childfree stance doesn’t mean she hates you. YTA.

NTA. Commenter shares a relatable story about exclusion and hypocrisy.

Engage in empathy, don’t judge based on a relationship.
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Sister’s sudden interest in your pregnancy – NTA

Respect your feelings, not everyone needs to be involved

Sister’s lack of excitement about pregnancy sparks NTA response

NTA! Your pregnancy, your choice on who to involve

Before making assumptions, try talking to your sister first

Middle sister’s overbearing behavior makes eldest sister uncomfortable
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Setting boundaries with family during pregnancy

NTA. Sister’s child-free identity is a problem, not yours.

Why would you want a toxic person around your baby?

NTA. Maybe she felt left out and awkward. Don’t go out of your way to update her.

Supportive comment congratulating OP on her pregnancy and advising her to reassess the situation if her sister can respect her decision to have kids.

NTA comment: Sister’s lack of enthusiasm doesn’t excuse rude behavior

Don’t shut out your sister. Keep her in the loop

Being child-free doesn’t mean being disinterested. NAH, talk it out

Being direct with your sister about her attitude towards children

Respecting personal choices is important. YTA for not understanding.

Not obligated to tell family, sister dislikes kids interaction.

Sibling reaction to pregnancy news: NAH, but not supportive

Set boundaries with family, not obligated to entertain unsupportive sister.

Sibling rivalry or childfree choice?

NTA. OP has the right to decide when to share.

OP may be emotionally abusive towards sister. YTA.

Sister accuses OP of playing favorites, YTA according to her.

Have an open conversation with your CF sister about boundaries. YTA.

Sister upset about not being a top priority for involvement

Don’t be an a**hole, let your sister be there for you

Sister had three chances to be an involved aunt. NTA

Stay connected with your sister during this major life event ❤️

Supportive comment defending OP’s decision not to babysit. ❤️

NTA comment calls out subreddit hypocrisy on childfree family members.

INFO: Should you share pregnancy news with less-excited sibling?

Family drama unfolds as sister refuses to babysit. NTA.

Having a baby? Don’t force family to be involved. NTA.
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Suggests clearing the air and moving on after sister’s reaction

Mild YTA, but communication could have been better

Not a kid person but supportive friend. Sister’s being selfish.

Empathy and self-awareness are key in any relationship

Respect her wishes, NTA.

Respect privacy rights: NTA decides when to share pregnancy news

It’s OP’s pregnancy news, not sister’s entitlement. #NTA

Including her in the future might be futile

Expecting her to react the way you want her to? YTA

Don’t assume childfree means siblingfree. YTA.

Don’t let your sister’s behavior control your relationship. YTA

Navigating family dynamics is tough, but setting boundaries is important. ❤️

Respectful NTA comment defends childfree lifestyle against entitled sister.

Pregnancy can be hard enough without unnecessary drama and comments.

Respecting boundaries: NTA for not babysitting

Sibling jealousy during pregnancy? NTA, focus on positivity

Respectful boundaries are important. Pregnancy news is personal

Respectful NTA comment advises to communicate with sister about involvement

Sibling drama over pregnancy news. NTA.

Supportive comment, sharing personal experience with unsupportive family member.
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Sister wants in on pregnancy news but is NTA.

Sister’s lack of interest in pregnancy news. NTA.

Don’t feel obligated to share if she doesn’t show interest. ♀️

Expecting support from CF sister who didn’t react well?

You have the right to choose who to tell about pregnancy

Encouraging empathy towards childfree individuals can improve family relationships. ✨

Setting boundaries and protecting yourself. NTA for not giving in.

Sister’s lack of interest and behavior are problematic, but you could involve her more.

Why include someone who doesn’t care? NTA
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Supporting childfree choice but sister’s behavior is insufferable. NTA.

Respectful NTA parent-to-be offers olive branch to disinterested sister.

Sister jealous of OP’s success, NTA for not including her.

Setting boundaries with family during pregnancy

Encouraging comment on growth & understanding in family dynamics.

Protecting your child comes first, even from family members.

Sister upset for not being first to know, not for pregnancy ♀️
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NTA. While some people may not be interested in kids, it’s not an excuse to lash out and demand involvement. Sister brought it on herself. ♀️

Don’t exclude your childfree sister from major life events. YTA.

Being childfree doesn’t excuse hateful comments. Respect is key.
