In the heat of the moment, when you’re angry, you can say things you don’t mean. You can do things you don’t really want to do. And, in some cases, you might say a toast you don’t really mean, thinking that it’s all a bit of fun. But what if your partner doesn’t get the joke? What if they take your words too seriously? One Reddit user shared a story about how she was publicly humiliated by her husband at a gender reveal party after he made a “toast”. She turned to the subreddit ‘Am I the A**hole?‘ to see if what happened was indeed her fault.
A woman shares her shock after her husband made a “joke toast” at a gender reveal party

A woman was left in shock after her husband made a ‘joke toast’ at their gender reveal party, surrounded by many relatives

A toast went too far, leaving one woman in shock after her husband’s ‘joke’ at a gender reveal party.

A joke gone wrong, leaving the wife in shock and rage

The husband’s “joke toast” left the woman feeling shock and rage. She left the gender reveal party in distress.

The “joke” toast caused her to feel immense rage and humiliated in front of her family.

Woman felt shock and rage after husband made insensitive ‘joke toast’

Leaving dinner may not have been the best solution, but the emotions were too strong to stay.

A woman left a gender reveal dinner in shock after her husband’s “joke toast”.
At a gender reveal dinner to celebrate the couple’s upcoming baby, the husband made a joke toast that left the woman in shock. His toast wished that the baby would not look like her, leaving her feeling rage and anxiety. Even though the husband insisted it was a joke, it was clear that the woman felt humiliated and disrespected. Adding to her feelings, the husband told her to get her “insecurities” in check and get therapy. This story sparked a lot of reactions from readers. Let’s take a look.
NTA: Husband’s “joke” is anything but funny!

Abusive husband NTA!

NTA: Standing up to emotional abuse

Husband’s cruel ‘joke’ at gender reveal party

A husband’s ‘joke’ toast

Belittling partner? No laughing matter!

NTA: Divorce is an option

Dump the whole man

“Leave the husband”

Husband’s ‘joke toast’✋

NTA but WOW he is ♀️

NTA: Humiliating joke.

Man’s ‘joke toast’ shocks wife
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NTA: Get therapy & realize you deserve better!

NTA: Husband’s inappropriate “joke toast”

NTA: Husband’s ‘joke’ was an insult!

NTA: ♀️

NTA: Leave the man!

Be careful⁉️ Get out now!

NTA: Couple hopes looks like partner

NTA: Is it time to leave?
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Protecting loved ones

A shocking story

No one deserves to be disrespected

NTA: Joke Toast Not Funny

NTA: A shocking ‘joke toast’!

Interracial couple faces racism at gender reveal party

NTA: ♀️ Why stay with him?

NTA: Starting a family with an abusive partner
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A confusing toast

Bad joke?

NTA: Marriage irretrievably broken

Divorce advice for a shocking situation

NTA: Pregnancy brings insecurities and abuse

Mild self-deprecation or NTA?

Man’s “joke toast” shocks woman

Husband’s “Joke Toast” Sparks Shock

NTA: Divorce him!

NTA:

Disgusting husband & jokes

Woman calls out husband’s NTA

NTA: Return the favor!

NTA and rethink

Taking a stand

⁉️ Husband humiliated wife in front of family?

NTA: Not a joke anymore
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