Living with roommates can be tricky, especially when it comes to language preferences. One person recently shared their experience with a new housemate, Siobhan, who is trying to impose an English-only rule in their shared home. The person, who speaks English as a second language, is baffled by Siobhan’s insistence on this rule, even when they’re having private conversations in their own room! Let’s dive into the story and see if you think they’re in the wrong.
The Housemate Situation

Enter Siobhan

Language Barrier? ️

Siobhan’s Growing Frustration

Common Courtesy?

Proposing a Rule

Upcoming Vote ️

Kitchen Confrontation ️

The Big Question ❓

English-Only Rule: Fair or Unfair?
So, our storyteller is faced with a dilemma: Siobhan, their new housemate, wants to impose an English-only rule in their shared home. This person speaks English as a second language and has friends and family abroad who don’t speak English. They’ve been respectful, speaking English around their housemates, but Siobhan is still frustrated. She wants to vote on this rule when the other housemates return from holiday. Is our storyteller in the wrong for not wanting to speak English in their private conversations, even in their own room? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Housemate demands English-only rule; commenter calls it racist and ridiculous

Language diversity shouldn’t be a problem. NTA

Housemate demands English-only rule, commenter calls her insecure and racist.

Language barrier causing roommate drama? NTA has solution

Defending the right to speak any language at home ️

Defending the right to speak native language at home. NTA!

Defend your right to speak any language. NTA

Breaking the language barrier: NTA for enforcing English-only rule

NTA commenter calls out Siobhan’s xenophobic request

Speaking your mother tongue doesn’t make you TA, roomie is racist
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Suggest language inclusivity rule to counter English-only demand

Irish-named housemate demands English-only rule, called out hilariously.

Language policing? Not cool. NTA for speaking any language.

English-only rule is controlling, NTA for speaking to family/friends privately.

Speaking a foreign language at home: NTA, as long as you’re considerate
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Defending the right to speak native language, with a playful jab

Previous article determined Siobhan was TA in this situation. NTA.

Debate over English-only rule and Irish name pronunciation

English-only rule dispute: commenter defends private conversations and criticizes meddlesome housemate.

Language choice not subject to majority rule

Speak your language of choice, ignore the insecure bigot

Language hypocrisy pointed out in English-only rule debate

NTA claps back at housemate’s English-only demand

Learn Irish and clap back #NTA

Defending the Irish name and language, NTA shuts down roommate’s demand.

Language rules in shared spaces debated. NTA says it’s ‘bullshit’.

Speak any language you want in the common area. NTA.
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English-only rule absurd, commenter NTA.

Housemate demands English-only rule. Commenter calls out racism and paranoia. NTA

Speak any language, but watch out for nosy housemates ♂️

Pushing an English-only rule? NTA calls it out as racist

Embrace diversity, not xenophobia. NTA for speaking multiple languages

ESL roommate causes tension with English-only rule

Speak any language you want in your own home! ️ NTA

NTA for speaking your language in private. Roommate needs cultural education

Sassy suggestion for dealing with demanding housemate

Roommate considers being petty over English-only rule

Standing up against racism and hate speech in shared living spaces.

Housemate demands English-only rule, commenter says NTA, suggests bigotry.

Language barrier not a big deal, English-only rule unnecessary ♀️
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Speak whatever language you want, housemate can’t dictate.

Standing up against racism in shared living spaces

Roommate’s English-only rule reveals her paranoia

Speak any language you want at home. Don’t be controlled
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Multilingual housemate is NTA, Siobahn is awful

Defending language rights against racist housemate. NTA

Defending language freedom and calling out racism

Speak whatever language you’d like

Speak any language , roommate can leave if uncomfortable

Defending language rights and calling out close-mindedness.

Multilingual housemate demands English-only rule, gets called out for racism.

English-only rule? How about a no a**holes allowed rule? NTA

English-only rule? Siobhan needs to get over herself!

Defending the right to speak your own language at home

NTA- Multilingual housemates are not obligated to speak English

Roommate’s English-only rule called out as racist and controlling

Speak any language anywhere, don’t let them silence you! ️

Defending the right to speak your native language in private

Embrace diversity! Commenter enjoyed hearing different languages in college dorm.

Standing up against racism in shared living spaces. NTA.

English-only rule raises suspicion, commenter calls out roommate’s insecurity.

Speaking your native language is not a**hole behavior
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