When 28F decided to make healthier choices, she wasn’t expecting the reaction she got from her family. After successfully losing almost 100 lbs., she went to visit her family before her sister’s wedding. But, her sister, 26F, had gained some weight and accused her of trying to upstage her. Now, the family is taking her sister’s side. Is the 28F in the wrong for losing weight before her sister’s wedding?
A family member’s journey of successfully losing 100lbs, without close family and social media support

Making healthier choices can lead to conflict in families, even when it’s not mentioned.

Catching up with family before the wedding and discovering a source of conflict!

Sister’s reaction to family seeing her weight gain sparks tension in the family

Family feud! Will losing weight lead to a happy ending or will it cause more conflict?

Has losing weight caused family conflict?
Weight loss is often seen as a positive thing, but can it cause conflict in a family? 28F has recently lost almost 100lbs and has come to her sister’s wedding two weeks early to help out and catch up. However, her sister 26F was shocked to see her and accused her of trying to upstage her, since she had also gained some weight. Her family is now taking her sister’s side. How can this family navigate this situation? Let’s explore the comments and reactions to find out.
OP worked hard to lose weight, but her family accused her of being petty and delusional

NTA. You didn’t lose weight to upstage her

♀️ Toxic family? Cut ’em off!

Healthy lifestyle choices can create tension

OP stands tall and proud!

Is the family TA or NAH?
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NTA: Take care of yourself!

Negative comments & unhealthy food?

Congrats on weight loss!

NTA: support, not criticism

NTA: Your health > her wedding!

You’re not the a-hole ♀️

NTA! A family member achieved lb weight loss for her health

NTA: Family drama!

NTA: Taking care of yourself

NTA: ♀️

NTA when your sis ♀️ tries to bring you down!

NTA: Can’t believe family’s mad!

Family conflict

NTA: Sister’s accusation is

YTA for reposting?

NTA for committing to major weight loss!

Sister sounds like a ♀️

NTA: You did it for you

NTA: Sis’ self-worth issue ♀️

Drop the diet ♀️

NTA: Losing weight an amazing achievement!

NTA: Celebrating Weight Loss!

An uplifting opinion

You’re not an a-hole⭐

NTA! ♀️
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NTA: Parents lack of support is

NTA and congrats on healthy choices

YTA or NTA?

Living life and losing weight ✌️

NTA: Congrats on weight loss!

NTA: Bride’s self-centeredness ≠ life choices

Congratulations on your weight loss!

NTA!

NTA: ♂️Stay unhealthy? No way ♀️

NTA – Support from family

Healthy Change ✔️, Unhealthy Conflict

NTA: You’re in the clear

Healthy lifestyle choices

Congrats on the healthy lifestyle!

NTA! Family is out of line

Losing weight: source of conflict?

NTA: sister’s response is inexcusable

NTA ♀️ ♂️

Not the a-hole ✔️ Celebrating health!

Supporting healthy choices!
