Goldie Hawn, known for her timeless charm and long-lasting Hollywood career, didn’t shy away from giving some candid advice on what has kept her relationship with Kurt Russell strong for over four decades.
While speaking at a recent charity event, the 78-year-old actress gave an NSFW explanation that had everyone talking.
Hawn has been with Kurt Russell since 1983, and their love story has always fascinated fans.

At the Love-In Gala for her MindUP charity, Goldie let it be known that their relationship secret isn’t just emotional compatibility but also something a bit more intimate. “You have to have good sex,” she openly stated.
While her comment might have shocked some, Goldie was quick to explain.
Embed from Getty ImagesIt’s not just about the act itself but about the closeness and warmth it brings. She emphasized that physical connection is essential in building a lasting bond. “Sex is something that connects you and creates more belonging,” she said.
However, it’s not all about physical intimacy.
Embed from Getty ImagesGoldie also stressed the importance of kindness and humor in a relationship. “You have to be nice to each other upon occasion,” she quipped, adding that laughter and shared joy are vital for a couple to thrive over the long haul.
Goldie’s advice is simple but profound.
Embed from Getty ImagesShe acknowledged that while sex is important, maintaining individuality in a relationship is equally crucial. “You don’t have to share everything,” she explained. “We have a lot of expectations around relationships … but you have to like the person. That’s very important.”
For Goldie and Kurt, staying unmarried has also been a significant part of their relationship’s success.
Embed from Getty ImagesDespite societal pressure, they’ve chosen not to walk down the aisle. “Relationships are hard,” Goldie said in a past interview. Instead, the couple wakes up and “make decisions” daily to continue their partnership.
Kurt, who was also present at the event, chimed in, saying:
Embed from Getty Images“… after that many years together, you will have experienced just about everything there is to experience together and understand all the ups and downs and what it means.” He made it clear that despite all of that, the couple still enjoys each other’s company.
Goldie and Kurt’s partnership has symbolized enduring love in Hollywood for many.

The two continue to thrive as individuals and as a couple, proving that a lasting relationship is more than longevity; it’s about enjoying the ride together.
As Goldie said:

“There’s all kind of hurdles that we go through. There’s things that we believe and things that we don’t believe in that we agree on.” Her advice may not be groundbreaking, but it’s a reminder that sometimes the simplest truths are the most powerful.
Goldie’s candid insights into her relationship with Kurt offer a refreshing take.

It’s all about love, commitment, and the importance of being emotionally and physically connected. They may not have followed the traditional path, but their love story is still going strong.