Girlfriend EXPLODES After Learning BF’s “Girl” Bestie Used To Be A MAN

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of friendship, secrets, and a whole lot of drama! Meet our main man, who’s been besties with L since high school. L dropped a bombshell back then, revealing she’s transgender (MtF). Fast forward to now, and our guy’s got a girlfriend who’s not too thrilled about his close friendship with L. But here’s the kicker: he never told his girlfriend about L’s transition! Strap in, because this story’s about to get wild!

Roomies for Life!

L’s Transition Journey

Gal Pals Getting Along… Until Now

Keeping L’s Secret Safe

L’s Painful Past Experiences

‍♂️ Defending My Friendship

Girlfriend’s Suspicions Grow ️‍♀️

Dinner Date Drama

Offended by Accusations

L’s Change of Heart ️

Girlfriend’s Fury Unleashed

Secrets and Regrets

Did He Mess Up Big Time?

Our guy’s in a real pickle now! His girlfriend’s fuming that he kept L’s transition a secret for so long, even though she’s totally cool with it. She spent months feeling uneasy about their friendship, thinking there might be some sparks flying. ✨ But if she’d known from the start, she wouldn’t have batted an eye! Now, our dude’s wondering if he royally screwed up by not spilling the beans sooner. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild ride! Grab your popcorn, because the responses are bound to be juicy!

NTA. GF’s insecurities are ***her*** problem. L is a woman.

Respecting someone’s identity is important, NTA for not outing them

Confused commenter questions motive behind outing trans friend to girlfriend

NTA. Having female friends isn’t a threat to the relationship

Respect and privacy are crucial for trans people’s safety.

NTA for not outing friend, but GF’s reasoning is strange

Girlfriend’s controlling behavior causes tension in relationship with trans friend. ESH.

Respectful OP is NTA for respecting friend’s privacy. GF needs trust.

Having female friends is not an issue, GF needs therapy

Respectful OP defends friend’s privacy and boundaries. NTA

Respecting boundaries and privacy is key. NTA

Respectful boundaries and trust are key in any relationship ♥️

Respecting boundaries and being NTA, but trust issues arise.

NTA. Honored friend’s privacy. GF insecure, needs to trust you both.

NTA and good on you for getting permission to tell truth.

NTA, girlfriend being transphobic and lacking trust in relationship ‍♀️

Girlfriend’s trust issues, not friend’s gender, is the problem ✨

Engaging comment on supporting a friend’s transition despite girlfriend’s insecurity.

Exploring the complexities of attraction to trans people ‍ and the importance of trust in relationships

You’re NTA for not disclosing friend’s trans identity. GF overreacted ‍♀️

Gender should not affect friendship. Girlfriend needs to grow up.

Respect your partner’s identity and beliefs. NTA in this case.

Being respectful of someone’s privacy shouldn’t make you the a**hole

Supporting a friend’s identity, even if it costs you. ❤

Respecting your friend’s secret doesn’t make you an a**hole

Don’t need to disclose friend’s trans identity to make gf happy ‍♀️

Supportive comment defends friend’s privacy, calls out girlfriend’s behavior.

Respect boundaries, not your place to tell. NTA.

Respectful response defending trans friend’s privacy and educating girlfriend.

Respecting privacy: NTA for asking L to disclose on own terms

Respect privacy, girlfriend needs to understand. NTA, have chat.

Respect privacy. Trust is key in a relationship. NTA

Respect L’s privacy, GF overreacting, NTA.

Gender doesn’t matter, girlfriend’s insecurity is a red flag

Girlfriend is insecure and both suck for different reasons. ‍♂️

NAH, GF has understandable concerns, but miscommunication is to blame

Girlfriend’s trust issues with BF’s trans friend are her own problem ‍♀️

Supportive comment defends boundaries and gender identity, promotes trust and acceptance.

Respectful boundaries: NTA for not disclosing friend’s gender identity.

Respectful response to girlfriend’s explosive reaction to trans friend.

Respect boundaries and choices. NTA for keeping friend’s secret.

Respect for a friend shouldn’t make GF explode

NTA defended for respecting friend’s privacy despite GF’s jealousy

NTA commenter defends the friend and calls out GF’s behavior

Being a good friend doesn’t always mean sharing their secrets

Trust is key in relationships, NTA for having opposite-gender friends ❤

Respectful OP stands up for friend’s privacy, shuts down GF’s jealousy

NTA defends friendship, calls out insecure girlfriend

Having friends of the opposite sex is okay, girlfriend needs therapy

GF’s insecurity turns L’s sexuality into reason to blame BF.

Dump her. She’s insecure, untrusting, homophobic or transphobic

NTA. Respect L’s privacy and don’t subject them to girlfriend’s ignorance.

Defending trans friend’s privacy, NTA, GF has no argument

Communication matters: discussing sensitive topics with friends and partners

Respectful NTA asked for permission to share and handled well

Protecting your best friend’s privacy is NTA. GF needs therapy

Guy defends having a female best friend to controlling girlfriend

Supportive comment defends keeping friend’s secret, suggests communication with gf.

Protecting a friend’s identity is important. NTA. ️‍⚧️

Protecting a friend’s identity is always the right choice

Don’t let your girlfriend’s insecurities control your relationship.

Respecting boundaries is key. NTA for not sharing information.

Controlling girlfriend can’t handle boyfriend having female friends. ‍♂️

NTA. Good friend, but GF’s red flags show controlling and transphobia

NTA, girlfriend’s jealousy & insecurity cast onto innocent parties ‍♂️

Medical history is private. Trust issues? Get professional help

Trust is key in a relationship. Accusing without basis is toxic.

GF explodes over BF’s platonic friend, but commenter defends him

Gender should not be a barrier to friendship. NTA

Respectful handling of a sensitive situation. Humorous comparison to follow.

Respectful comment defends trans friend and calls out potential transphobia.

Privacy matters. Jealousy won’t disappear. Keep quiet, move on.

Don’t out someone without their consent. NTA for respecting L’s privacy.

NTA for not sharing info. GF seems trans-phobic. Rejecting trans people is discriminatory.

NTA but girlfriend’s controlling behavior and transphobia are red flags.

Trans man defends privacy and condemns girlfriend’s transphobia. Supportive OP.