Growing up in a rough home can leave some deep scars, and the last thing you want is to relive those traumatic experiences in your own space. But what happens when your boyfriend’s gaming habits start to bring back those painful memories? One woman found herself in this exact situation, and her creative solution has the internet divided. Buckle up, because this story is a wild ride from start to finish!
Rough Childhood, Rough Home Life

‘It’s Just a Game’ He Says…

Nap Interrupted by Hollering!

♀️ No Bad Vibes Allowed!

Time for a Scream Sesh with the Girls! ️

Yelling in the Woods, Giggling Ensues

Laughter Takes Over the Scream Fest

BF Interrupts, Not Amused

♂️ ‘Don’t Pull That Sh*t Again!’ He Says

️ ‘Do You Finally Get It?’ I Ask

Gaming Yells vs. Crazy Girl Yells ♀️

♀️ No More Screaming… For Both of Us!

♂️ He Thinks I’m Being Ridiculous

Gamer BF vs. Screaming GF: Who’s the A-hole?
This story has it all – childhood trauma, intense gaming sessions, a scream fest in the woods, and a couple at odds over what’s acceptable in their shared home. Our protagonist, fed up with her boyfriend’s yelling during gaming, decides to give him a taste of his own medicine with a hilarious Skype call with her girls. But when the BF gets a earful of the screaming shenanigans, he’s less than amused. Now, the couple is left wondering – is it fair to expect peace and quiet when one person’s idea of socializing involves yelling at a screen? The internet is weighing in, and the opinions are as diverse as they are passionate. ️ Let’s dive into the comments and see what the verdict is!
GF stands up for herself when gamer BF won’t stop yelling

GF stands up for herself and those with sensory sensitivity

Playful teasing helps gamer son realize how he sounds

Screaming at games is immature and annoying. NTA.

NTA OP! BF wants yelling to stop but won’t stop himself?

NTA says gamer BF’s screaming caused PTSD panic attack

Both parties at fault for the noise disturbance
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GF hilariously teaches yelling BF a lesson. NTA.

Finding a livable compromise may be the key

GF uses gamer’s own medicine to make him stop yelling ️

NAH for not liking screaming, but fundamental incompatibility without compromise ♀️

NTA vs ESH debate on gamer BF’s loudness and GF’s response.

ESH, both should learn to coexist peacefully without deliberate screaming

NAH, just incompatible. Gaming isn’t abusive but causing issues.

Girlfriend gets creative revenge on yelling gamer boyfriend

NAH, couple needs to solve problem instead of proving POV.

GF not okay with BF’s yelling; suggests soundproofing or breakup

Debate on whether video game yelling is abusive or not.

NTA – Peaceful home is a right but gamer BF won’t listen ♀️

Growing up in a rough home too, excessive shouting is annoying. NTA

GF teaches yelling gamer BF a lesson. NTA wins.
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Partner’s gaming habit causes concern, but communication is key
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Agreeing with boyfriend’s point on female screaming during gaming.

Debate on yelling vs screaming and gender stereotypes.

GF won’t tolerate yelling due to PTSD, NTA.

GF’s petty retaliation towards BF’s gaming is unnecessary YTA.

Both were a bit wrong. Petty revenge or not, communication needed.

Setting boundaries is crucial for a healthy relationship

Compromise may work, but trauma is valid. Communication is key

NTA or YTA? The comment section is divided.

Playing video games loudly is ok in moderation, consider others.

GF is scared of BF’s yelling, he doesn’t care. NTA

Sarcastic comment about cops shooting first. No replies.

GF teaches loud gamer BF a lesson. NTA wins.

NTA- GF suggests leaving if BF won’t prioritize her over games

GF stands up to yelling BF, internet approves.

When your son is the one yelling profanities at a video game
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Girlfriend stands up for herself and gives screaming boyfriend a taste of his own medicine. NTA

Moved out due to yelling roommate, supports GF’s response. NTA

Gamers can game without yelling. NTA for setting boundaries.

Friend finds girlfriend’s prank on loud boyfriend hilarious. NTA.
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GF’s traumatic past makes BF’s yelling unacceptable. NTA.

Calling out bad behavior: YTA for yelling and disturbing others.

GF asks BF to stop yelling while gaming, gets hypocritical backlash. NTA

ESH but this relationship sounds exhausting

Compromise is key when dealing with a loud gamer partner

Yelling girlfriend’s NTA friend has PTSD, wake up call needed

Partner concerned for GF’s well-being, relationship may not survive.

When gaming causes relationship problems…

GF’s petty revenge on BF’s yelling while gaming backfires, called out for overreacting.

Dump the yelling dude and game on without him!

Incompatibility, childhood trauma and video games

ESH. Communication is key in any relationship.

OP and BF both need to acknowledge each other’s concerns. Splitting up may be the best solution. ♀️

Noise-cancelling foam pads: a decor statement that saves relationships!

Take control of the situation and scream back. NTA.

NTA! Cathartic scream night every week! Keep it up
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Supportive comment encourages OP to leave toxic relationship. NTA

GF teaches disruptive BF a lesson. NTA.

Soundproofing the room was a win-win solution

Empathetic comment sparks inspiration for frustrated gamers everywhere.

GF’s boyfriend not respecting her PTSD, NTA for standing up

ESH – Boyfriend should listen, but societal prejudices are also problematic. ♀️

Petty drama like this is for children.

NTA gamer explains reasons for shouting at video games

GF gives gamer BF taste of his own medicine. ESH.

A thoughtful reply encouraging therapy for PTSD and well-being

Is yelling in a game different from yelling on phone?

Gamer couple fighting over yelling, solution: noise-cancelling headphones
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NAH commenter shares experience and advises seeking counseling.

Passionate comment calls out everyone’s behavior as a**hole-ish

GF stands up to yelling gamer BF, defends herself.

Understanding NAH comment about yelling in gaming culture
