A woman’s friend, who has four children, claimed that the woman had more freedom and no responsibilities due to her lack of children. The woman retorted by stating that her friend should have thought before having kids if she wanted more freedom. The argument ended with the friend leaving in a huff and now the woman is wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to find out more about the situation and decide for yourself who was in the wrong.
Friend dropped out of college, now upset with me for travelling
Struggling friend’s life choices, a sensitive topic to navigate.
Exciting travel plans, but friend upset. AITA for leaving?
Defending my travel choices against judgement for not having kids ✈️
Standing up for my travel choices, dealing with friend’s negativity
Insensitive response to friend’s concern, causing friction in relationship.
Friend storms out after disagreement about travel, AITA?
When a friend bad-mouths you for travelling, what to do?
Did OP cross the line? AITA for snapping?
Friend with 4 kids shames me for travelling, AITA?
A woman is shamed for travelling by her friend who has 4 accidental pregnancies. She shares her side of the story and asks if she is the a**hole. Read on to find out what happened and whether her response was justified.
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Commenter suggests the friendship may have run its course, NTA
Engaging in reproductive shaming and blaming, NTA comment sparks heated debate.
NTA for not wanting to carry burden of friend’s 4 kids.
NTA for standing up to a friend’s unfounded accusations ♀️
NTA comment shuts down criticism of friend’s irresponsible behavior.
Birth control debate sparks reproductive coercion concern
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Don’t let anyone guilt-trip you for living your best life!
NTA shuts down friend’s entitled whining about her life choices
Traveling without kids? Friend can’t handle the truth. NTA
Mom approves of OP’s travel, encourages thoughtful decision-making
Friend shames OP’s success; cut toxic people out of life
Friend shames traveler for not having kids, NTA response
Repeated mistakes or intentional? NTA for travel decision.
NTA delivers truth bomb and questions possible unprotected sex
Friend accuses OP of slacking off while being jealous, NTA.
Questioning the unwise decision of having four accidental pregnancies.
Don’t feel guilty for your success , NTA
Unplanned pregnancies and blame game, NTA holds up.
No regrets, no apologies. You’re not the a**hole!
Mother’s resentment towards her kids, NTA for OP’s response
Travel regrets shared, encourage others to travel responsibly
Not the a-hole for calling out friend’s carelessness ♀️
Supportive comment reminds us to prioritize our own happiness
Commenter defends OP’s choice, implies friend is being unreasonable ♀️
NTA defends against friend’s jealousy with humor
Commenter calls out poor life choices, NTA confirmed
You’re not responsible for her choices. NTA
Support for NTA’s response to friend’s comment about having kids
Keep travelling and building your life Your friend is TA.
Jealous friend accuses, but OP’s NTA. Travel envy much? ✈️
Sharing travel plans with friend caused resentment, NTA.
Savage response to friend’s jealousy, NTA wins.
Friend jealous of travel, NTA’s truth hurts
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No kids, no opinion ♀️
Comment defends OP and criticizes friend’s parenting choices.
Making tough choices and dealing with consequences,
Responsibility for decisions. Friend’s unhappiness not your problem. NTA.
Don’t let others bring you down with their jealousy!
Using birth control is a choice, having 4 unplanned pregnancies isn’t #NTA
Commenter is NTA and questions how someone accidentally has 4 kids
Enjoy Europe without guilt!
No travel shaming! NTA for setting boundaries.
Taking responsibility for one’s actions, NTA comment section.
Education is important, but so is supporting a friend’s dreams
Encouraging friend to travel later in life, NTA.
Live your life without guilt, NTA. Birth control exists
Friend’s hypocrisy exposed, NTA wins the argument!
Respondent empathizes with OP and criticizes friend’s behavior
Travel shaming? NTA calmly responds to friend’s passive-aggressive comment.
Harsh comment on unplanned pregnancies, lacks empathy.
Embrace your lifestyle and find like-minded friends! ♀️
Embrace your freedom ️ and don’t feel guilty. NTA.
Live your own life, you’re not the a**hole here.
NTA for choosing to travel and standing up for yourself
Travel envy? NTA for living your life
Friendship over? NTA but sometimes people grow apart
Your friend’s choices are not your responsibility!
Speaking the truth can be tough
Don’t let her bring you down! Your choices, your life. #NTA
Travel drama with a friend? NTA, it’s not your fault
Travel guilt-free with this NTA comment
Friendship over? ♀️ NTA stands their ground
Jealousy detected! OP is NTA
Sometimes the truth hurts
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Travel freedom defended, NTA wins with confidence ✈️
Taking responsibility for your choices. NTA
Supportive comment sparks sarcastic clap back from OP.
Sometimes, honesty hurts ♀️
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No judgement here. Comment defends personal choice and responsibility
Empathizing with OP’s situation and calling out the friend’s behavior.
NTA comment calls out repetitive behavior with humorous analogy
NTA claps back at hypocritical friend, sparks debate.
Travel shaming shut down with witty response, NTA ✈️
Making friends as a parent: the struggle is real
Friend goaded OP out of jealousy, friendship at risk. ♀️
Mom defends OP’s travel decision, NTA confirmed
NTA claps back at friend’s criticism, wins with truth bomb
