Friend Disinvites Me From Her Wedding but Expects to Be Invited to Mine

Imagine being asked to make a wedding cake for a friend, only to be disinvited from their wedding months later. That’s exactly what happened to me. I was asked to make a cake for my friend’s small ceremony but was later disinvited from the larger ceremony due to supposed health restrictions. Now that I’m planning my own wedding, my friend expects to be invited despite the previous incident. Am I the a**hole for not inviting her to my wedding? Some say I sound bitter, but I don’t think it’s fair to invite someone who only wanted me around for my cake-making skills.

Bridezilla disinvites friend from her wedding after baking her cake.

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Wedding planning can be a sensitive topic for many and this story is no exception. A woman shares her experience of being disinvited to her friend’s wedding after offering to make the cake but then being unable to deliver it. Despite being paid for her service, the bride-to-be sent a letter disinviting her from the ceremony citing health restrictions. The friend is now engaged and has decided not to invite her former friend to her wedding. The two had a tense conversation where the bride-to-be accused the other of being petty and vindictive. Some friends have sided with the bride-to-be while others support the friend. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.