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Friend Disinvites Me From Her Wedding but Expects to Be Invited to Mine

by Azka
2 years ago
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Imagine being asked to make a wedding cake for a friend, only to be disinvited from their wedding months later. That’s exactly what happened to me. I was asked to make a cake for my friend’s small ceremony but was later disinvited from the larger ceremony due to supposed health restrictions. Now that I’m planning my own wedding, my friend expects to be invited despite the previous incident. Am I the a**hole for not inviting her to my wedding? Some say I sound bitter, but I don’t think it’s fair to invite someone who only wanted me around for my cake-making skills.

Bridezilla disinvites friend from her wedding after baking her cake.

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Bridezilla disinvites friend from wedding, but still wants her cake

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Delayed invite after payment? Something seems fishy here…

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Bride disinvited from friend’s wedding, now planning her own nuptials.

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Cake offer rescinded, friend disinvites from wedding for health reasons.

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Wedding drama: Friend disinvites me but still expects an invite

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Ex-friend uses pandemic to justify wedding ‘un-invitation’

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Wedding drama: disinvited friend expects invite. AITA for excluding her?

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A wedding disinvite with a guest count explanation

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Clearing up a minor detail in the disinvited from wedding drama

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Cake drama leads to wedding invite fallout

Wedding planning can be a sensitive topic for many and this story is no exception. A woman shares her experience of being disinvited to her friend’s wedding after offering to make the cake but then being unable to deliver it. Despite being paid for her service, the bride-to-be sent a letter disinviting her from the ceremony citing health restrictions. The friend is now engaged and has decided not to invite her former friend to her wedding. The two had a tense conversation where the bride-to-be accused the other of being petty and vindictive. Some friends have sided with the bride-to-be while others support the friend. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.

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Friend disinvites OP from wedding but expects invite to theirs, NTA.

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ADB_BWG | ADB_BWG

Friend disinvites over cake, but calls OP petty? NTA.

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cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Friend disinvites guest from wedding but expects invite to theirs. NTA.

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ADB_BWG | ADB_BWG

Friend disinvites OP from wedding, but expected invitation to OP’s wedding

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Mountain-Calendar102 | Mountain-Calendar102

It’s okay to feel hurt and a little bitter when treated poorly

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RestInPeaceLater | RestInPeaceLater

NTA. Friend disinvited OP from her wedding, got mad when not invited.

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bisexual_fool | bisexual_fool

PB fans unite in hilarious comment thread

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bothsidesofthemoon | bothsidesofthemoon

User points out the harsh reality of the friendship’s one-sidedness

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perhapsnew | perhapsnew

Wedding drama with petty friends, but NAH and communication needed

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Cake drama leads to uninviting game

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Redgeode | Redgeode

Not the a-hole and not a friend. Their loss, not yours. ‍♀️

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jverity | jverity

Wedding drama and COVID restrictions lead to friend disinviting commenter.

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wolfj2610 | wolfj2610

Bride was justified in uninviting OP, but asking for an invite is weird

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Fantastic-Might-3275 | Fantastic-Might-3275

Wedding guest drama? NTA, make your own guest list

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AstronomerPrevious71 | AstronomerPrevious71

Is making wedding cakes a favor or a job? NAH.

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tiethy | tiethy

First-world drama at its finest

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[deleted] | [deleted]

Wedding invite drama and misunderstandings

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crystalrabbit45 | crystalrabbit45

Petty drama unfolds as friend disinvites commenter from wedding.

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blewberyBOOM | blewberyBOOM

Toxic friendship alert! Pettiness wins, everyone loses. ESH.

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dawdreygore | dawdreygore

Confusion over payment for wedding cake leads to drama

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FinnRacc | FinnRacc

Friend disinvites commenter from wedding after no longer needing their help. NTA.

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mild_screaming | mild_screaming

Cake skills aren’t worth the drama Let her go.

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HolyCrappolla123 | HolyCrappolla123

Friend asks for wedding invite after disinviting me.

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DoreyCat | DoreyCat

Toxic friends? NTA for not inviting her to your wedding!

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grannyDiddler22 | grannyDiddler22

Being a mature adult, you’re NTA. Best wishes!

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snarkingintheusa | snarkingintheusa

Being disinvited from a wedding of 150 people is a**hole move

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MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon

Sounds like a business relationship with boundary issues

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FloweryHawthorne | FloweryHawthorne

NTA. Friend only sees you as a cake resource.

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RicottaPuffs | RicottaPuffs

Friend disinvites OP from wedding, expects invitation. Both sucky behaviors.

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maccrogenoff | maccrogenoff

You’re in the clear, let her go ‍♀️

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Val_notValerie | Val_notValerie

Commenter suggests alternative perspective on friend’s disinvitation from wedding.

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RebelScum427 | RebelScum427

Friend disinvites from wedding, ends friendship. No invite retaliation vindictive.

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Retlifon | Retlifon

Wedding invite drama: ESH being petty and passive aggressive

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150 ‘close & essential’ people but disinvites friend?

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First_Bumblebee_179 | First_Bumblebee_179

Cake drama at a wedding – NAH, but hold the cake

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Warriv9 | Warriv9

Conditional wedding invite leads to friend’s pettiness

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Wedding invite snub, but expects one to yours? NTA

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Strictly transactional friendship ends with wedding disinvitation. NTA wins.

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manicdoom | manicdoom

Wedding hypocrisy: friend uninvites but expects invite back.

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Wedding invites should not be reciprocal, YTA.

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