Fiancé Tells Me To Find A ‘Real Job’, But He Wants Expensive Gaming Laptop

A woman who runs an online business from home refused to buy her fiancé an expensive gaming laptop after he told her to find a ‘real job.’ The couple had moved in together six months prior, and the woman supported her fiancé’s dream of becoming a Twitch streamer. However, he had not progressed toward that goal and had not found a job. When the man asked for the expensive gaming laptop as a birthday present, the woman refused and was accused of being selfish. Read on to find out if she was in the wrong.

Fiancé quit job to stream on Twitch, wants expensive gaming laptop?

Supporting passion vs financial stability – a tricky balance ⚖️

Partner refuses to work, but wants a gaming laptop?

Fiancé wants bigger house and gaming laptop, but no job?

Ignoring fiancé’s entitlement to gaming laptop, should I buy it?

When the partner wants it all, but won’t support you ‍♀️

Fiancé insults partner’s job, expects expensive gift. AITA for refusing?

Fiancé quits job for Twitch career, demands expensive laptop

Living with your significant other can be challenging, especially regarding finances. One woman shares her experience supporting her fiancé’s Twitch career only to be told to find a ‘real job’ when she declines to buy him an expensive gaming laptop. Despite months of gaming without creating an account or attempting to make a career, the fiancé has been hinting at needing a few thousand-dollar laptop for his birthday. This has caused a massive argument between the couple. Read on to find out if she’s the a**hole for not buying him the laptop, and see what others say about this situation.

Dump the entitled gamer, keep the toys. NTA.

Fiancé quits job, expects partner to fund gaming hobby – NTA

Fiancé calls her selfish, but hasn’t started “career” after 7 months of gaming.

Dump him! You deserve better than a leech.

Stand up for yourself! You’re not the a**hole here.

Starting as a hobby and keeping a part-time job? Good advice!

Dump him! Gamers deserve love too, not just their laptops.

Fiancé’s hypocrisy exposed in one blunt comment.

Partner is a ‘needy child’ who games all day, NTA for kicking him out ‍♂️

Commenter questions the value of OP’s fiancé in relationship

Dump the jobless, entitled boyfriend who wants a gaming laptop

Don’t let him guilt-trip you. He feels entitled to your money.

Dump the leech You deserve better! #NTA

Don’t let anyone bring you down, especially not a mooch

Dump the fiancé, keep the laptop

Red flags abound! OP is not ruining his career by not buying him a laptop.

Stand up for yourself! You deserve better than him.

Curious commenter wonders what this man brings to the table

Partner wants expensive gaming laptop but won’t support your dreams? NTA.

Don’t be a sugar mama! Kick him out and seek counseling

Boyfriend wants free ride, expensive laptop? NTA, dump him.

Red flags alert! Is it time to abort mission?

Unemployed fiancé wants gaming laptop, tells partner to find job

A sarcastic reply to a supportive comment.

Is he a grown-up or a gamer boy?

Dump him with Whole Man Disposal and game on, queen NTA

Partner mooching off you? It’s time to put your foot down.

Fiancé quit job to stream but won’t start. Demands new PC. NTA.

Partner’s laziness causing financial strain, NTA for wanting change

Fiancé wants expensive laptop, but won’t get a job. NTA.

Choosing between a partner’s recovery and their inaction

Don’t be his sugar mama, let him buy his own laptop

Reddit users call out fake post and advise OP to move on

Call off the engagement, he’s living off you while demanding luxuries.

Fiancé taking advantage of OP’s kindness.

Is the fiancé bringing nothing to the table?

Fiancé wants expensive laptop but criticizes your job? NTA.

Beware! Is your fiancé using you for your money?

You deserve better! ‍♀️ Kick him to the curb

Fiancé wants expensive gaming laptop but can’t pay rent? NTA.

Stand up for yourself! Kick out the freeloader

Break up with the childish and selfish leech

Questioning the relationship after harsh criticism

You deserve better Consider moving on.

Fiancé unemployed, mocks job, wants gaming laptop. Who’s the A-hole? #NTA

Dump him and find someone who values you and your efforts

Dump the lazy gamer fiancé and save your .

Red flag alert! Is it time to reconsider the relationship?

NTA, but kick this bum out. He’s not contributing and now demanding you fund a lavish lifestyle for him, what’s he doing for you?

Dump him! You deserve better NTA.

Red flag alert: Is he using her for money?

OP deserves a supportive partner, not a leech ‍♀️

Don’t be played! He’s 37 and wants you to take care of him

Dump him You deserve better than a man who takes advantage of you financially.

Don’t let him leech off you, serve him eviction papers

Stand your ground ! Fiancé can’t criticize your finances.

Fiancé wants expensive laptop but tells partner to find ‘real job’