Betrayal can be a devastating experience, especially when it comes from someone you least expect, like a family member. This is what happened to a 33-year-old man who cut ties with his brother after he betrayed him at work. Five years have passed, and his family is pressuring him to make amends, but he refuses. He feels that his brother’s actions were unforgivable, and he doesn’t want to be around him.
The situation has caused a rift with his family, and they are struggling to understand his decision. But, is he in the wrong for holding a grudge or is it understandable to cut someone out of your life for such a breach of trust?
This story raises the question of what it takes to repair a broken bond and whether it’s worth it in the end. Let’s explore the complexities of family dynamics and betrayal.
Resuming contact with a betraying brother – family pressure vs. self-care.

Supportive sibling loses job to brother but forgives him

Betrayed at work by own brother, family wants reconciliation

Betrayed by brother who thinks I’m not cut for management

Cutting out family is hard, but can be necessary for growth

Family prioritizes brother’s financial gain over my emotional trauma

Ignoring my brother’s attempts to reconcile after his betrayal ♂️

Family pressures OP to reconcile with brother during holidays. AITA?

Betrayed by my brother: Can I forgive and forget?
When a management position opened up at the company where both the poster and his brother worked, they both applied for it. The brother got the job, and the poster was happy for him. However, a few months later, the poster found out that his brother had betrayed him by forwarding an email to the hiring manager that explained why the poster wasn’t the right fit for the position.
The poster was devastated and cut his brother out of his life completely. Despite massive pressure from his family to reconcile, the poster has refused and wonders if he’s holding onto a grudge.
In this post , we explore the complexities of family dynamics and betrayal. Read on for reactions and advice.
NTA, forgiveness is reserved for those who ask for it.

NTA, shocked they’d offer backstabby brother a management position

Betrayed by brother, NTA for setting boundaries against family pressure.

Family wants reconciliation but no apology from brother. Complicated feelings

Sibling betrayal and insincere apologies. NTA for cutting ties.

Sibling’s betrayal in the past, not a childhood phase

Betrayal is a tough pill to swallow. NTA

NTA. Family support should not come at the cost of betrayal.

Draw a hard line. NTA for cutting out toxic family.

Don’t let anyone pressure you into reconciliation. Stand your ground

Family betrayal is frustrating. Don’t let ‘blood’ guilt you.

Refusing toxic behavior is not a grudge. Protect yourself from harm.

Betrayed by brother, family pressures reconciliation? NTA, trust issues.

Curiosity about the aunt who sold the house sparks conversation

Betrayed by brother, NTA for cutting off unsupportive family members ❤️
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Stand your ground! NTA

Cutting ties with toxic family, thriving without them.

Career sabotage by brother, justified grudge held against him. (NTA) ♀️

Hold grudges forever? NTA says yes

Family betrayal? Wife’s family to the rescue! NTA

Betrayal at work, NTA for not reconciling with brother

Is the brother really the only one to blame?

Your family needs to acknowledge your valid feelings and perspective

Sibling betrayed me at work, parents excusing bad behavior ♂️

Don’t let having kids excuse bad behavior. NTA.

Sibling betrayal and family pressure: a career ruined
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NTA. Family pressuring to reconcile but it’s your boundary. Consider peace.

Don’t let others excuse his behavior. Spend time with family ❤️

OP stands firm on betrayal, comment shows support with humor

Reconciliation without discussion – a lesson for OP? ✨

You’re not the a**hole, stand your ground

Standing up to family pressure after a brother’s betrayal. ♀️

Protecting your family from a weasel brother NTA

Supportive comment empathizes with betrayal from friend turned co-worker.

Demanding compensation for betrayal?

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes the best decision
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Brother’s audacity after cruel act: NTA without apology. ♀️
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Betrayal by family is a hard pill to swallow

Betrayed by brother, family wants reconciliation but it’s not worth it.

Betrayal hurts, take your time to reconcile. NTA

Protecting your child from a past betrayal? NTA
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Cutting ties with a toxic sibling, NTA for prioritizing self-care.
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Cutting out family after betrayal – NTA

A personal or work email? Betrayal or a**hole move?

Betrayal by brother. NTA. Family pressuring reconciliation. Wife supports you.

Boundaries are important, family must face consequences of betrayal.

Family conflict over job betrayal after 5 years. ESH.

Family betrayal, trust broken. NTA for not reconciling.

Is forgiveness after five years excessive?

No a-hole here, but what did your brother do?

Taking control of your relationships for your own mental wellbeing

Cutting toxic family ties

Don’t let anyone demand you get over his betrayal! ♀️

Betrayal of trust, no apology – brother doesn’t deserve forgiveness

Family pressures OP to reconcile with brother after betrayal.

Cutting ties with toxic family members is a tough but necessary choice

Betrayal at work and family pressure to reconcile.

Protect your future ️. Your family should have your back.
