When a family finds out that a brother’s sperm donation was used to conceive a baby without his consent it can bring on a range of emotions for everyone involved. That’s exactly what happened recently when a brother and his sister-in-law decided to use their brother’s sperm donation to conceive their child, unbeknownst to him. The brother was feeling angry and emotional, and even called his brother and sister-in-law selfish and crazy. The brother and sister-in-law were put off by his words, and the family is now trying to figure out how to move forward. Read on to find out what happened next.
A bizarre family feud over sperm donation choice!

A brother’s secret donation has caused a rift in the family – how should they move forward?

After years of infertility treatments, a brother and sister-in-law opt for AI and family drama ensues.

Family feud erupts when brother and SIL ask donor’s blessing to use his sperm.

Should you be mad if your brother and SIL use your sperm as a donor?

A brother and sister-in-law’s decision to use the brother’s sperm as a donor has family members divided and uncomfortable.

Family feud erupts when brother and SIL choose OP’s sperm without asking

Anger, sadness, and confusion over a family’s sperm donor decision

Families feuding over sperm donor selection – can emotions cloud judgement?

Should you judge your brother and SIL for choosing your sperm as a donor?

Family tensions arise when a brother and SIL choose a donor without their sibling’s consent.
This is an odd situation. A brother and sister-in-law asked for the sibling’s blessing to use their donated sperm for artificial insemination, but the sibling declined. Months later, the couple announced they were pregnant with the sibling’s sperm and the family was thrown into a state of shock and confusion. The sibling felt angry and called them selfish and crazy, while the brother and SIL felt insulted. The family is now in a heated debate over the issue. What do you think? Let’s explore the comments and reactions to this story.
NTA: Sperm donor violation
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NTA: Lawyer Up!

NTA: Surprised by fertility clinic’s decision

Donor’s wishes NTA
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NTA: Cutting ties

NTA, but – OP feels betrayed

Blood vs sperm
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NTA – Protecting your sperm donation

Right or wrong?

NTA: They went behind your back

NTA: Unacceptable breach of trust!
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NTA! ♀️ Brother used donor sperm without permission!

NTA: Poor judgement!

Moving away and
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Family Feud: Facing the reality of sperm donation

Boundary Broken

Sperm donation : Donor’s rights and who is “worthy” of having kids?

It’s weird to use your brother’s sperm for a donor.

Family feud breaks out

ESH: No easy answers

NTA: No contact with

Family Feud:

Family Feud: Sperm Donation

NTA: Family feud gone too far

Conflict of interest

NTA: Boundaries crossed

NTA: Respect your on donors

NTA: They’re Weird

NTA Distance ♀️?

NTA: Your sperm is off limits!

NTA No violation here

Family drama ♂️

Is it wrong to be mad at your brother and SIL for choosing your sperm as a donor?

When family feuds ♂️
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Family Feud: A unique dilemma

NTA: WTF

A complete a-hole move!

Breaking trust

NTA: Donor consequences

No A-hole Here!

Is it wrong to be angry?
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Should OP be the cool uncle?

NTA. ♀️They asked and you said no.

No A-hole Here!

NTA: You said no ♀️
