Family Drama: Pregnant Sister Asks To Move In With Her Fiancé, But I Can’t Stand Him

Family can be a blessing and a curse. In this case, it’s both. My sister’s fiancé, Dale, is not someone I want to be around – let alone live with. He has a track record of being rude, obnoxious, and freeloading. As if that wasn’t enough, he’s unable to hold down a job and has a history of getting fired or quitting. My sister is pregnant, and they need a place to stay. She’s asking me to let them stay with me, but I hesitate to say yes. I’m worried about the potential headache of having Dale in my home. Despite my concerns, my sister is angry with me for not trusting them and being unwilling to help her fiancé out. Am I The A**hole for not wanting to house Dale?

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Pregnant sister’s fiancé causes family drama

Family drama ensues as a man (Dale) with a reputation for being a rude, obnoxious slob is asked to move in by his pregnant fiancé’s brother. The brother is concerned about Dale’s history of not paying rent, getting fired from his job, and causing trouble in public. Despite attempts to avoid interactions with Dale, the brother is now faced with a difficult decision on whether or not to let him stay. Read on to find out if he should put up with his sister’s fiancé or stand his ground.

Comment section comparing the unlikable Dale to different fruits

NTA for not letting sister’s problematic fiancé in. Suggestions for clear boundaries.

Protect your home from potential tenant drama. NTA.

Fiancé with a bad track record, NTA won’t take him in

No fiancé allowed in the house, sister agrees.

Supportive comment, no need to deal with problematic fiancé

NTA! Your house, your rules. She needs a reality check

Protect yourself from unwanted tenants with tenant laws

Don’t let him guilt you! You’ll regret it.

Supportive advice to pregnant sister dealing with difficult fiancé.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for protecting your space

Sister’s fiancé a nightmare? ❌ Extend hand to her? ✅

NTA, but Dale needs to go

Stand your ground, NTA! Don’t let Dale in

Protect your home and relationship , NTA. Don’t let them stay.

Sister’s fiance may end up living with you, NTA.

Don’t invite toxicity into your home. #NTA

Protect your home from jerks ‍♀️

Protect your home! Don’t let Dale in

Supportive advice: Taking time away from fiancé may help sister

Don’t invite Dale! NTA for standing your ground.

Protect your boundaries. Keep the emotional vampire out. ❌

Protect your peace ✌️. Don’t let this toxic fiancé move in.

Don’t let Dale ruin your home Stand your ground

Setting boundaries with pregnant sister’s boyfriend is tricky

Stand your ground! Don’t let him move in

Standing up to a disliked brother-in-law-to-be.

Sister’s fiancé overstaying welcome? NTA, don’t let it happen.

Don’t let her fiancé ruin your home

Family can’t ignore red flags, NTA for setting boundaries

Commenter’s NTA verdict receives no objections from commenters.

Protect your boundaries, don’t let him in.

Commenter expresses concern for sister’s future child.

Commenter calls out sister’s fiancé with clever insult

Standing up for yourself against abusers is important ❤️

Short and sweet: commenter is NTA.

Trust your instincts and say no to your pregnant sister.

Be cautious of Dale’s sneaky moves! ️‍♀️

Don’t let guilt take over. Stand your ground ‍♀️

Setting boundaries with your sister’s fiance? NTA ⚖️

Valid concerns about pregnant sister’s fiancé moving in. NTA

Clear judgement! What’s the story behind it?

Supporting pregnant sister but not her fiancé.

Don’t let Dale weasel his way in. Set boundaries with sister.

Commenter refuses sister’s fiancé to set foot on their property.

Not the a**hole, but why? Tell us more

Supportive comment urges moving on from toxic fiancé

Letting go of toxic relationships is hard, but necessary

Sister’s fiancé is a clown, hoping she realizes it soon

Don’t sacrifice your peace of mind for your sister’s fiance

Prioritize baby or sinking ship? NTA draws the line

Commenter calls out sister’s fiancé in brutal yet funny way

Supporting pregnant sister without the fiancé.

Protect your space ‍♂️

Short and sweet – a NTA judgement with no drama

Supportive brother sets boundaries for pregnant sister’s fiancé. NTA

Sister’s fiancé is a no-go. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA stands their ground against potential pandemic squatters.

Stand your ground! He’s been a pain to others.

Boundaries set, door open. Keep calm and stand firm!

Sister’s fiancé causing family drama, NTA for saying no

You’re NTA for not letting your sister’s fiancé move in—he needs to step up.

Don’t let guilt sway you! A freeloading fiancé is trouble.

Questioning sister’s fiancé: NTA’s approach to family drama.

You don’t have to accept him as family. NTA

Don’t let Dale overstay his welcome!

No Dale, no problem! Stand firm and welcome your sister

Set boundaries with pregnant sister’s fiancé to avoid complications.

Stand your ground! Sounds like trouble waiting to happen.

Standing up to a bad fiancé- NTA brother wins!

Avoid eviction, avoid the fiancé ‍♂️

Sister’s fiancé wants to move in, but OP says no

Comment section gets spicy as users roast Dale mercilessly

Setting boundaries with a toxic partner.

Avoid being a Dale, be NTA

Supporting pregnant sister but not her fiancé for stability

Don’t invite toxicity into your home, tell him how you feel

Sister’s fiancé has a history of bad behavior, proceed cautiously