A gay family member is faced with a difficult decision when their homophobic family demands access to their vacation home. Despite a rocky past, the family insists that the home is technically theirs and that it’s against the law to deny them access. The situation escalates when the family attempts to force their way into the home, and the homeowner refuses to back down. As tensions rise, the homeowner is left questioning whether they are being cruel and heartless by denying their family access, especially when children are involved. Is the homeowner in the wrong, or are they justified in standing their ground?
My friend lives in the condo I own in Orlando

Former roommate wants access to vacation home despite agreement

A shared vacation home brings friends together for fun memories ✨

Navigating family boundaries and vacation home usage.

Homophobic family demands access to vacation home in the night

Family demands vacation home keys despite sexuality, caretaker locked out.

Standing up for my rights to my vacation home

Family feud over vacation home, ends in petty name-calling.

Mom tries to hide my ownership of vacation home, demands stay

Aunt demands free stay at my vacation home, calls me heartless

Struggling with family’s homophobia and vacation home access. AITA?

Family demands access to my vacation home despite my sexuality
A gay man is facing homophobia from his family who are demanding access to his vacation home in Orlando. Despite mending their relationship, the man’s aunt and uncle arrived at the condo demanding to be let in, claiming that it was the family vacation home. The man, who owns the property and allows friends and family to use it, refused to let them in and was met with petty name-calling and even attempted property damage. After a heated argument with his mother, who admitted to not telling the rest of the family that he owned the property, the man is now questioning whether he should allow his homophobic family to stay in the condo. While he sympathizes with the young children involved, he is hesitant to reward their homophobia with access to his property. Read on for the reactions to this difficult situation.
NTA. Family demands access to vacation home despite OP’s sexuality.

NTA. Family demands access to vacation home despite OP’s sexuality.

Commenter stands up for OP against entitled family, with humorous tone

Home invasion by family? Get a doorbell camera.

NTA refuses entitled family access to vacation home, supported by commenters.

Family demands access to vacation home; OP is NTA, commenters empathize.

NTA. Aunt and uncle responsible for their kids enjoyment, not you.

Commenter calls out mom’s lies and entitlement

Protect your space Don’t reward hate with access.

Family demands access to vacation home despite OP’s sexuality

Don’t let guilt overshadow their toxic behavior

NTA for not letting entitled family use your vacation home

Mom promised lodging, not my job to provide for entitled family.

NTA for denying access to vacation home due to bigotry

Uninvited guests and a homophobic family? Not today, Satan ♂️

Family demands access to vacation home, lies about ownership. NTA.

Ben deserves a reward for standing up for you

Setting boundaries with entitled guests

Boundaries are important NTA

Stand your ground and cut ties with toxic family members ️

Commenter sympathizes with OP, criticizes mom; emoji:

Homophobic family demands access to vacation home: OP says no

You have the final say in who stays at your vacation home

Family demands access to vacation home; OP stands their ground.

Vacation house drama: OP not the a-hole for protecting property

Stand your ground ️

Stand your ground and protect your property!

Cut ties with your mother and change the locks ASAP

Standing up for yourself and your home.

Family demands access to vacation home despite disapproval of sexuality.

Stand your ground and protect your friend and your home #NotTheAsshole

Mother called out for bad behavior

User shares experience with homophobic parents and their lies.

You’re in the clear NTA!

Family wants access to vacation home, but OP says no
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Standing up to homophobic family members, with a little help.

Supportive comment, family’s behavior is horrifying

Reject homophobic family as house guests, even if they’re relatives ♂️

Protect your vacation home from entitled family. You’re NTA!

Stand your ground ️ Your vacation home, your rules.

Family demands access to vacation home, commenter suggests calling police

NTA for protecting your boundaries and sexuality

Don’t let entitled family guilt you into sharing personal space.

Don’t let entitled parents guilt trip you into their bad planning

Supportive commenters urge taking care of Ben

Stand your ground! Your vacation home, your rules. NTA.

Commenter defends OP’s decision against family’s bigotry and aggression

Homophobic family tries to manipulate, OP stands their ground. ✨

NTA, don’t let them manipulate you with the kids

Stand your ground! Your vacation home, your rules. NTA.

Vacation home is a luxury, not an entitlement. Stand firm!

Stand your ground and keep your vacation home to yourself

Stand your ground and protect your safe space

Fighting bigotry, one comment at a time.

Stand your ground! Your house, your rules.

Mom gave them access without permission. Unfair treatment for Ben.

Stand your ground You have the right to privacy.

Uninvited family demand access to vacation home: NTA stands firm

Stand your ground! ️ Your vacation, your rules.

Stand your ground and keep toxic family at bay

Homophobic family demands access to vacation home, commenter defends OP.
