Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy post-divorce drama on our hands! Meet our dedicated dad who’s been shelling out child support for his two amazing daughters for years. But now that they’re all grown up and thriving in college, he’s ready to cut out the middleman (a.k.a. his ex-wife) and support his girls directly. Seems reasonable, right? Well, not according to Mama Bear… She’s demanding he keep those payments flowing her way! Is our devoted dad an a-hole for wanting to help his adult kids without his ex’s involvement? Let’s dive in and find out! ♂️
Divorce Drama Alert!
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Proud Papa of College Kids
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Child Support Struggles
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Dad’s Still There for Them ❤️
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Kids Are Adults Now!
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Plot Twist: Dad’s Been Overpaying!
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Mama Bear Turns Grizzly
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Dad’s Still Got Their Backs
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Something Smells Fishy…
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Dad’s Vow to His Girls
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Internet Weighs In: Is Dad the A-Hole?
Whew, what a wild ride! Our dedicated dad has been through the wringer with this divorce and child support saga. He’s gone above and beyond for his girls, even overpaying for years! But now that he wants to support them directly, Mama Bear is on the warpath. The internet has some thoughts on this one, and they’re not holding back! ️ Some are praising Dad for his unwavering commitment, while others think he might be overstepping. ♀️ One thing’s for sure: this situation is a hot mess! So, what’s the verdict? Is Dad the a-hole, or is he just trying to do right by his kids? Let’s see what the masses have to say!
Ex-wife wants spousal support, not child support. NTA.
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NTA for stopping child support for adult kids.

Ex-wife pockets child support for adult kids. NTA

Mom’s money ran out, kids stopped being her ATM

No communication with ex needed, NTA for stopping support

Celebrating a dad who stopped paying for adult kids.

Is the ex-wife justified in asking for additional support?

Should divorced dad pay for adult kids living with mom?

Defining emancipation in divorce decrees is important for clarity

Living arrangements affect child support distribution

Empathetic comment encourages divorced dads to support struggling ex-spouses

Following the law and agreement, NTA for stopping payment.

Ex-wife ungrateful for child support, NTA for stopping payments.

Dad stops child support for ADULT kids- NTA.

Ex-wife had bad lawyer, you’re NTA for stopping support.

Divorced dad stops paying ‘child’ support for adult kids, NTA.

Confusion over tuition burden for younger child in divorce case.
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Divorced dad stops ‘child’ support for adult kids. NTA!

NTA. Ex needs to get over it

Cutting off child support for adult kids – NTA

Divorced dad stops paying ‘child’ support for adult kids. NTA

Divorced dad stops paying child support, amicably handles situation with ex-wife.

Financial responsibility ends with agreed child support time. NTA

NTA. Supporting adult kids through college directly. No ex complaints.

Divorced dad stops child support for adult kids! NTA victory!

Dad stands up against entitled adult children, refusing to pay.

NTA, but avoid involving kids in financial disputes

Divorced dad refuses to pay adult kids, not the a**hole

NTA. Ex may be using child support for her lifestyle

NTA for stopping child support, maybe she spent it on herself

NTA. Personal story shows why you’re an amazing dad

Divorced dad prioritizes relationship with kids over ex’s greed

Ex-wife upset dad stopped child support for adult kids. NTA.

Request for clarification on divorce decree and state law.
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NTA. Your ex doesn’t deserve more money.

Divorced dad takes control of supporting adult daughters. NTA.

NTA dad stands up for himself and sets boundaries

Father stops paying child support for adult kids. NTA.

Divorced dad praised for stopping support for adult kids
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Ex-wife’s greediness backfires, divorced dad puts kids first

Dad stops ‘child’ support for adult kids. NTA, but…

NTA. Don’t fund her empty pockets. Stop the payments.

Compassionate dad pays support until college graduation

Ex-wife needs to find a job, not rely on you. NTA

Ex-wife accused of misusing child support money. NTA.

Ex-wife agrees that stopping child support for adult kids is NTA

Dad stops paying ‘child’ support for adult kids. NTA, wife disagrees

NTA for stopping ‘child’ support if ex misused funds

Ex-wife seeking alimony for adult kids? NTA for stopping payments!

NTA, but directly helping daughters is better than enabling ex-wife.

Supporting adult children directly is fair. NTA

Pay child support directly to child with stipulation. NTA

Father stops child support for adult kids, praised for good decision

Divorced dad stops paying child support for adult kids. NTA

Divorced dad stops child support for adult kids, NTA and generous

NTA for stopping child support for adult kids and ex-wife

NTA for stopping child support for adult kids.

Directly dealing with adult kids, NTA. Ask her to leave.

Divorced dad admits to being a NTA and a dumba**

Sarcastic NTA comment suggests financial education for adult kids

Divorced dad stops child support for adult kids, pays directly. NTA.

NTA stops paying ‘child’ support for adult kids.

Divorced dad rightfully stops paying ‘child’ support for adult kids

Cutting ties with the ex: NTA

Cutting off entitled ex-spouse from child support: NTA

NTA. Dad stopped child support but still supported adult child’s needs

NTA dad stops paying child support for adult kids

Child support misused, dad stopped payments. NTA. Great parenting.

Ex-wife treated him as a cash cow. NTA for stopping.

NTA dad stops child support for adult daughters ♂️

Ex bitter about dad stopping ‘child’ support for adult kids. NTA
