After a childhood friend’s insensitive remarks, one woman reconsidered her role as bridesmaid.

A childhood friend’s insensitive remarks may have caused one woman to reject being a bridesmaid, with the wedding just 3 weeks away.

A childhood friend’s insensitive remarks made one woman question her bridesmaid role. “Jack” and she have been together for 3 and a half years.

A childhood friend’s insensitive remarks puts one woman’s bridesmaid role in jeopardy

A childhood friend’s wealth exposes painful dynamics for one woman.

Struggles in childhood fueled a woman’s decision to reject a bridesmaid invitation.

A childhood friend’s remarks pushed one woman to reevaluate her self-worth

Mary is feeling insecure after her childhood friend Jack’s comments, leading her to doubt her worthiness to be a bridesmaid.

Friend’s insensitive remarks pushed one woman to reject the bridesmaid role

Friend’s insensitive remarks made one woman reconsider being a bridesmaid

A lunch gone wrong when an insensitive comment leaves one woman questioning her role as bridesmaid.

Gary’s insensitive remarks about her single life left one woman feeling uneasy and questioning her role as a bridesmaid.

One woman was pushed to reject her childhood friend’s request to be a bridesmaid after an insensitive remark

A lunch gone wrong – what to do when a friend’s remarks take an unexpected turn

The bride-to-be called her friend to ask why she made insensitive remarks

She tried to deny it, but could Gary’s insensitive remarks be the reason why she’s not a bridesmaid?

A childhood friend’s insensitive remarks led one woman to reject being a bridesmaid.

Mary’s childhood friend’s insensitive remarks left her feeling conflicted and petty.

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A childhood friend’s insensitive remarks pushed one woman to make an impulsive decision
A woman has been close friends with Mary since childhood. When Mary asked her to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding, the woman hesitated due to Mary’s past insensitive remarks about her relationship with her boyfriend, Jack. At lunch with Mary and her fiancé, the woman was surprised to find out that Mary had set up a double date for the both of them with Gary, a groomsman at the wedding. She was shocked by Mary’s bluntness and made an impulsive decision to reject being a bridesmaid . Mary’s fiancé has been texting the woman asking her to ‘suck it up’ for the wedding, leaving her feeling petty and conflicted. In this section, we will explore the comments and reactions of Redditors on this situation.
Don’t let toxic friends bring you down!

Friend rejects bridesmaid and insults OP! What’s going on here?

NTA: Mary’s jealous of OP!

NTA Friends don’t approve when you think you can do better.

NTA || Mary isn’t a friend!

NTA: Let her go!

NTA: Special Circumstance!
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Bye bye ‘frenemy’

Friendship + wedding = conflict?

Jealousy among friends?

Friend or foe?

NTA: Mary doesn’t respect ♀️

No a**hole here

Get revenge in style!

NTA – Friendship Over

NTA! Run from this ‘friend’

Friend or bully?

NTA: Is the friendship worth it?

Friendship over?

Friend’s jealous remarks?

NTA, ♀️ no more friend!

NTA: setting boundaries with a friend!

NTA: Cut ’em off!

NTA: ♀️❤️️

Too to be a bridesmaid!

NTA: Mary’s jealous

NTA: ♀️ Replace bridesmaid

NTA

Stand your ground
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NTA – Time to

Friendships should build you up!

NTA: ♀️ an asshat!

Screw Mary and her awful attitude!

NTA: Mary is not

No ⛔️ for Mary!

NTA: Stop being her friend
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Friendship fail

♀️ NTA: Friend’s Insensitivity

Cutting off a friend

Bye, bye

NTA: Friend’s insensitivity
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NTA – Not supportive of the relationship

NTA! ♀️

Don’t be her bridesmaid

NTA: Mary in a kennel?

NTA! ♀️ Cut off toxic people

NTA: Think twice!

♀️ Friendship on the rocks?
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Cut ties with Mary

NTA: why keep a friend?

♀️ Cut ties with toxic people ♀️

NTA: She’s not a friend.

♀️Friend crosses the line!

NTA: Bye, Mary!

Friend’s hurtful remarks

NTA: Mary wants your man?

A confusing situation

Not a true friend!

Is Mary really a friend?

NTA: jealousy or insensitivity?

NTA – Mary’s an a**hole!

No a**hole here ♀️

Friends don’t treat each other like this!

Cutting ties with a childhood friend
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Friendship gone wrong

Stand up for yourself!

Friendship betrayed

Distance yourself

NTA: Throwing a lavish party!
