Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama brewing that’s sure to get your blood pumping! Meet Super Grandma, the 50-year-old wonder woman who’s always there for her daughter and adorable grandkids. ♀️ But wait, what’s this? Grandma’s got a bum foot and needs surgery ASAP! Will she put her own needs first for once, or will she sacrifice her well-being for the sake of her daughter’s job? Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story!
Family Drama Alert!

Super Close Grandma to the Rescue! ♀️

♀️ Always There for the Fam, No Matter What!

Uh Oh, Grandma’s Gotta Get Surgery!

Torn Achilles Tendon Throws a Wrench in the Plans!

No Walking for 3 Weeks Post-Surgery!

⏰ Daughter’s Early Work Schedule Causes Conflict!

Daughter Can’t Afford Unpaid Leave!

Friends & Hubby Say Put Yourself First! ♀️

Feeling Like a Bad Mom & Nana!

⏳ Perfect Timing for Grandma’s Recovery! ❄️

♀️ AITAH for Going Ahead with My Surgery?

Relief: The Internet Says Grandma’s Not the A-Hole!

Don’t Set Yourself on Fire to Keep Others Warm!

Thank You, Internet Strangers!

Family Drama Explosion: Will Grandma’s Surgery Sink Daughter’s Career?
Hold onto your hats, folks! This story’s got more twists and turns than a pretzel factory! Super Grandma’s torn Achilles has thrown a wrench in the family’s well-oiled machine. With surgery looming and a 3-week recovery on the horizon, who will get the kiddos to school? Daughter’s job is on the line, and Grandma’s feeling like a total failure. But wait, what’s this? The internet has spoken, and they’re telling Grandma to put herself first for once! ♀️ Will she heed their advice, or will she continue to set herself on fire to keep her family warm? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this heart-wrenching dilemma!
NTA- Get the surgery. Daughter can make arrangements.

Harsh comment advises against sacrificing job for surgery

User advises OP to prioritize own surgery, NTA sentiment.

Helpful advice on surgery recovery and tips for caretaking

Orthopedic nurse urges OP to prioritize health over daughter’s job ✅

Tough love: surgery can’t wait, daughter needs to adjust

Helping out with grandkids doesn’t mean sacrificing health. NTA

NTA. Daughter needed backup plan for childcare. Take care of yourself

Neighbor’s experience shows importance of timely surgery. NTA.

Resourceful solution for mom’s job and kids’ breakfast

Plan ahead for crucial surgery: daughter’s job at stake ⌛️

NTA. Putting yourself first is crucial. Your daughter needs to learn independence.

User suggests finding a ‘friend’ to help, sarcastically.

Choosing job over surgery = a lifetime of not walking ♀️
NTA, take care of your health

NTA. Your daughter needs to figure out how to handle this

Put your oxygen mask on first. YNTA, but you will be if you don’t get surgery. Let your daughter help.

NTA. Daughter should have a plan B & C for help

Put yourself first, seek help when needed. NTA

NTA for necessary surgery, but family should be supportive

Put yourself first! Don’t feel guilty for taking care of yourself

FMLA protects daughter’s job; grandparent could help with kids. NTA

Encouraging comment to get surgery, NTA, no replies.

User advises surgery recovery should be top priority, NTA

Prioritizing health over job as a grandmother – NTA

Don’t let anyone guilt-trip you into sacrificing your health

Supportive comment encouraging self-care and family support ❤

Put your health first! NTA for prioritizing surgery over grandchildren.

Don’t delay the surgery, the risks outweigh the benefits. ✅

Take care of yourself first. Daughter can find alternative measures. ❤

Putting yourself at risk to help others isn’t always noble

Your health comes first. NTA. Hoping for a successful surgery!

Mom’s surgery is crucial but daughter is ungrateful and entitled

Surgery leaves daughter’s job hanging, consider nanny or school program.

Daughter needs to grow up and find a backup plan

Put your health first. NTA. Daughter needs to understand ⚕️

Mom’s crucial surgery vs. daughter’s job: a tough choice ⚠️

Put your health first! Daughter’s selfishness may cost job

NTA, but enabling your daughter’s entitlement is the real issue

Medical needs trump all. Get your surgery, mama!

Self-care is important. NTA. Good moms and grandmas prioritize health.

Friends and husband can help while she recovers from surgery

Former single mom supports surgery, calls out emotional manipulation.

Daughter prioritizes work over mom’s surgery. Commenter calls out selfishness.

Solutions for working mom’s dilemma

Single mom offers affordable solution for daughter’s dilemma.

Hands-free crutch iWalk 3.0 may help maintain muscle tone.

Empowering response to self-doubt and pressure to prioritize work.

Urgent surgery, no debate. NTA comment gets straight to it.

Prioritizing self-care: Supportive reply to mom’s dilemma

Mom needs surgery and daughter needs support. NTA.

Tough love or lack of empathy? Single mom shamed for surgery

Put your health first! NTA for prioritizing your surgery
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Single mother offers practical advice and support for surgery. NTA

NTA, but the US’s approach to childcare is frustrating

Supportive comment highlights daughter’s responsibility to find alternative options.

NTA. Urgent surgery, but what about backup plan for kids?

Free childcare, now NTA may lose job over mom’s surgery

Investing in your health is more important than a job

Putting your health first is not being selfish.

Overworked mother needs to prioritize herself for once.

Encouraging comment for surgery, putting yourself first

Supportive comment about mother’s surgery and Lebanese saying.

Suggestion of using a knee scooter for recovery. Not the a-hole.

No support system? Finding help seems tough

Prioritizing self-care: NTA puts herself first for crucial surgery

Get the surgery ASAP, don’t risk becoming immobile. NTA.

Supportive comment tells grandma to prioritize surgery over daughter’s job.

User defends OP and offers helpful suggestions for daughter’s care.

Arranging help for your child is a reasonable solution

Supportive comment urges surgery for caregiver’s health.

Supportive comment validates OP’s decision for surgery.

Supportive comment encourages finding solutions for mom’s surgery and family.

Surgery dilemma: YTA if you don’t, risk injury if you do ♀️

NTA commenter defends the importance of surgery over vacation

Creative childcare solutions suggested for surgery conflict.

Urgency of surgery stressed, daughter’s role debated

NTA. Practical advice for non-weight bearing recovery with knee roller.

Supportive comment: Daughter needs to be more independent

Compassionate NTA comment supports necessary surgery for daughter’s ankle.

NTA suggests alternative solution for surgery timing.

Surgery is crucial, NTA for prioritizing your health.
