Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of family drama, homophobia, and wedding traditions gone awry. Meet our lovely bride-to-be, a 27-year-old bisexual woman who’s head over heels for her fiancee. But there’s a catch: her dear old dad isn’t exactly thrilled about her same-sex relationship. As the wedding planning unfolds, tensions rise when our protagonist decides to ask a father figure friend to walk her down the aisle instead of her disapproving dad. ♀️ Cue the explosive family confrontation! Will our bride stand her ground, or will she cave to her father’s demands? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story!
Coming Out and Dad’s Disapproval

Dad’s Homophobic Behavior Towards Fiancee ♀️

Subtle Jabs and Refusal to See Fiancee as Family

Dad’s Casual Homophobia and Uncertain Wedding Attendance

Wanting to Carry Out Classic Wedding Tradition

Assuming Dad Wouldn’t Want to Walk Me Down the Aisle ♀️

Mentor Turned Father Figure ❤️

Meeting My Mentor and His Supportive Nature

Mentor’s Family Dynamic and Honored to Give Me Away

Dad’s Fury Upon Learning the News

Dad’s Ultimatum: Ask Him or He Won’t Attend

Confronting Dad About His Potential Response

Not Considering Asking Dad and Feeling Justified

AITA for Not Asking My Homophobic Dad to Walk Me Down the Aisle? ♀️

Bride’s Bold Move: Snubbing Homophobic Dad for Aisle Walk!
Well, well, well! It seems our bride has found herself in quite the predicament. She’s stuck between a rock (her unsupportive, casually homophobic dad) and a hard place (her desire to have a father figure walk her down the aisle). In a bold move, she decides to ask her mentor-turned-father-figure to do the honors, leaving dear old dad out in the cold. As expected, dad is absolutely LIVID when he finds out, throwing a tantrum and threatening to boycott the wedding altogether. Talk about drama! Now, our bride is left wondering: did she make an a-hole move by not even considering asking her dad, despite his less-than-stellar attitude towards her relationship? The internet has some thoughts, and they’re not holding back! ️ Let’s see what the masses have to say about this family feud. Grab your popcorn, folks, because this comment section is about to get wild!
Father’s homophobia causes him to miss daughter’s wedding

Father’s homophobia costs him privilege to give daughter away
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Father’s casual homophobia costs him chance to give daughter away ♂️

Daughter defends herself and denies her father the privilege ♀️

Self-centered dad loses chance to give daughter away. NTA

Father’s homophobia leads to no role in daughter’s wedding

Wedding day is about you and your SO. NTA.

NTA. Honest conversation with dad and logical decision for nuptials

Supportive comment defending OP’s decision to exclude homophobic father from wedding

Daughter defends herself against dad’s homophobia. NTA.
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Congrats! Glad you’re not the a-hole in this.

Heartbreaking yet relatable experience of being rejected by a parent

NTA x infinity +1! Cut that toxic mf out of your life

Father’s homophobia costs him chance to give daughter away

Daughter stands up to dad’s ‘casual homophobia’ on wedding day

Bio-dad’s actions have consequences, don’t reward bad behaviour

NTA justifiably choosing to not invite homophobic father to wedding

Choosing not to have dad walk down aisle, no regrets.

Wedding day without dad, but without drama as well
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NTA. Dad’s ‘hissy fit’ leads to consequences for his actions

Daughter rightfully rejects patriarchal ‘authority’ and sexism.
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Openly talking to dad about his behavior before cutting him off

Dad’s homophobia costs him chance to give daughter away

Cheers to love and support, not casual homophobia ❤️

Parental authority? More like outdated bigotry. NTA all the way!

Supportive comment congratulating the poster and calling out the father’s behavior

Alternative dad of honour suggestion wins internet

Mature poster gets NTA judgement with a hint of sass

Sassy response to dad’s homophobia at daughter’s wedding.

“Homophobic dad gets what he deserves”

Homophobic dad banned from daughter’s wedding, NTA wins.

Dad’s absence at the wedding – no regrets! Congrats bride

Excluding dad from the wedding – fair or too extreme?

Supportive comment section agrees NTA for not allowing homophobic father.

Don’t want to be seen as an a**hole? Don’t be one

Daughter claps back at dad’s homophobia. Wedding bells win

Dad’s homophobia costs him chance to give daughter away. NTA.
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Father skips wedding and blames daughter for being the victim ♂️

Father’s homophobia and narcissism costs him chance to give away daughter

No dad, no problem! Enjoy your special day

Celebrate love with those who love you. NTA

NTA stands firm against homophobic dad’s interference in wedding

NTA: Homophobic dad loses chance to give daughter away

Taking control of her wedding, NTA receives congratulatory wishes

Karma hits dad’s ‘casual homophobia’ and he doesn’t like it

Father’s homophobia costs him giving daughter away. Mentor to rescue!

Father’s homophobia leads to missing daughter’s wedding

Father’s homophobia causes rift, teacher friend steps in as father figure ❤️

Daughter’s dad won’t give her away at wedding because she’s gay. NTA wins!

Daughter stands up to dad’s homophobia, chooses not to invite him

Daughter chooses love over blood, says NTA comment ❤️

Dad’s homophobia causes rift, but bride-to-be enjoys happy day

NTA on undermining authority of parents with adult children.

Daughter stands up to dad’s homophobia, calls him a*****e. Congrats!
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Traditional norms don’t define your wedding. NTA

Savage comment shuts down dad’s homophobia like a boss

NTA’s dad ruined her wedding moment with casual homophobia

Congratulations on your wedding! NTA and well done.

Fiancé’s dad’s casual homophobia costs him his role ♂️
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Father’s homophobia causes him to lose chance to walk daughter down aisle

Choose love and support over casual homophobia

Dad’s homophobia costs him chance to give daughter away

Congrats on your wedding! Don’t give in to his toxicity

Daughter hilariously shuts down dad’s homophobia. NTA
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NTA! Don’t let anyone shame you for standing up to homophobia.

Dad’s casual homophobia costs him giving daughter away

Wedding drama with a dad making excuses

Daughter stands up for herself and her choices.

Choose who you share your special day with. You’re NTA

Father’s homophobia costs him the chance to walk daughter down aisle

Family entitlement backfires as daughter stands up for herself

Daughter’s NTA for not letting homophobic dad walk her down aisle
