Coworker excludes me from his wedding, AITA for telling others?

A coworker excluded me from his wedding due to a “spacing issue.” I kept it to myself, but when my other coworkers asked why I didn’t attend, I told them the truth. Now the bridegroom is upset with me for telling others. Am I wrong to be upset and share my feelings with my coworkers? Read the full story to weigh in and let me know if you think I’m the a**hole.

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Excluded from coworker’s wedding, AITA for telling others?

When Bob excluded me from his wedding, I was hurt and upset. I felt excluded from something that everyone else on the team was invited to. I tried to keep my feelings to myself, but when I found out that Bob had lied about my absence to my coworkers, I couldn’t take it anymore. I told them the truth, and now Bob is angry with me. But am I the asshole for telling others about what happened? It’s understandable that Bob wanted to keep his wedding small, but it still hurts to be excluded. As I return to work and face my coworkers, I can’t help but wonder if I should have just kept quiet. But at the same time, I feel like I had a right to share my feelings. What do you think, Reddit?

Bob lied about why OP couldn’t attend his wedding, NTA.

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Bob can’t exclude you and expect you to lie, NTA ‍♂️

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Beware of Bob . Don’t let his actions affect you

Excluding one coworker from a small team is an AH move

Spill the tea! ☕️ NTA for revealing Bob’s wedding exclusion.

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NTA for speaking the truth, but there might be more to the story

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Don’t lie to save someone’s face, NTA

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Honesty is the best policy NTA, your coworker lied.

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