Have you ever been in a situation where someone insists on identifying you as something you’re not? A Reddit user from England is facing this predicament with her American roommate who believes that identifying as Irish is a sign of respect for their Irish ancestors.
The English user, who has Irish ancestry, argues that she is not Irish and does not want to misrepresent her cultural identity. The situation has caused a rift between the two roommates, with the American roommate even introducing her English friend as Irish to others.
But is the English user being disrespectful to her ancestors by not identifying as Irish? Read on to find out more and share your opinion.
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British Redditor faces identity crisis over ancestral heritage
A British Redditor is torn between identifying as English or Irish despite having Irish great great grandparents. A debate has erupted between the Redditor and an American staying with them, who identifies as Irish despite having no connection to Ireland.
The Redditor argues that they have never been to Ireland, do not know Irish culture and it is disrespectful to identify as Irish. The American houseguest insists that it is appropriate to identify as Irish to respect one’s ancestors. The Redditor is now being introduced to others as an Irish friend and is unsure where to draw the line with ancestral heritage.
What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.
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Irish person agrees, Americans call roommate an idiot

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Stand up for yourself! Shut down meddlesome busybodies.

American’s rude comment receives zero support.

English Redditor faces identity crisis, Scottish Redditor feels the same ♂️

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Irish Redditor expresses disdain for Americans claiming Irish heritage ♂️

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