Weddings are always surrounded by excitement, but what happens when a bride-to-be has to choose between her dream bachelorette party and her 13-year-old niece’s wishes? This 29-year-old woman is facing a dilemma as her sister insists on making her Vegas-themed bachelorette party ‘teen-friendly’ to accommodate her niece. The bride-to-be, however, wants one night of adult fun without having to censor herself or her friends. Let’s dive into the story and see how it unfolds.
Dreaming of a Vegas Bachelorette Party

Adapting to the Pandemic

A Mini Vegas at Home

No Kids Allowed

Niece Wants In ♀️

Teen-Friendly Request

Quality Time Together

A Compromise Offered ♀️

Niece Turns Cold ❄️

Not the Same

Bride-to-be Stands Her Ground
Our bride-to-be is determined to have her dream Vegas-themed bachelorette party, even if it means upsetting her 13-year-old niece. Despite offering to spend quality time with her niece the night before, the teen remains cold and insists it’s not the same. The bride-to-be is left questioning if she’s being too harsh or if she’s justified in wanting one night of adult fun. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA, bachelorette parties aren’t typically child friendly. Teach boundaries.

NTA bride-to-be refuses to change bachelorette party theme for 13-year-old niece

Aunt is NTA for not changing bachelorette party theme. Sister should have stopped her daughter from making it an issue.
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Adults-only bachelorette party defended against 13-year-old niece. NTA

Bride-to-be defended for not changing bachelorette theme for niece.

No kids allowed! NTA comment shuts down bachelorette party debate

NTA. Commenter shares cringe-worthy experience at similar party

Sister’s fault for not stopping it. NTA for bride-to-be

NTA. Engaging response pointing out hypocrisy and immaturity
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Bride-to-be defends decision to keep bachelorette party theme

NTA, sister should have said no to niece from start

Adult party, adult guests. Niece too young, OP NTA

Bride-to-be defended by commenter, praised for MOH’s alternative plan ❤️

Let kids be kids . NTA for not changing theme.

Adult-only bachelorette party defended with NTA and humor

Don’t change your whole party for one person. NTA

Bride-to-be defends her decision to not change bachelorette party theme. NTA

Enjoy your night, NTA!

Bride-to-be defends bachelorette party, sparks debate on kid attendance

Setting boundaries with family can be tough

Bride-to-be refuses to change bachelorette theme for 13-year-old niece. NTA.

Bachelorette party with kids? NTA for keeping niece away

Bride-to-be not at fault for refusing to change party theme

Party on! Commenter defends bride-to-be’s right to choose theme

NTA. You have no obligation to change your plans for anyone

Bride-to-be defends bachelorette party theme from family criticism

Adult-only bachelorette parties are understandable. NTA.

A creative solution for a bachelorette party dilemma

NTA. A 13-year-old at a bachelorette party? Inappropriate

Bride-to-be defended for not changing bachelorette party theme. NTA

Don’t change the party theme for one underage person. NTA

Niece should know bachelorette parties aren’t kid-friendly

Danny DeVito as a stripper? The perfect bachelorette party solution.

It’s your moment, don’t let your niece ruin it! NTA

Being 13 is tough but NTA, keep involving her.

Teenagers aren’t babies, NTA for wanting adult-only time

Aunt stands her ground on bachelorette party theme. NTA

Adults-only bachelorette party, niece misinterpreted pre-wedding tradition. NTA.

A sarcastic comment about a cold 13-year-old niece.

Bridesmaid defends bride’s decision to not change bachelorette party theme

Adult-only events are understandable for teenagers. NTA wins!

Adults-only bachelorette party, niece being selfish. NTA.

Commenter empathizes with niece’s perspective on bachelorette party theme.
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Kid-friendly bachelorette party? NTA says it’s not possible

Adult party lesson learned by in-between age niece. NTA.

Junior bridesmaids are junior for a reason

Adults-only bachelorette party, NTA for not inviting underage bridesmaids

Adults only: NTA stands firm on bachelorette party theme

Niece shares similar experience, NTA for not changing theme

Adults need adult time, just like kids need kid time

Bachelorette parties are adult-only. Niece’s mom should’ve clarified. NTA

Adults only bachelorette party, 13yo niece excluded. NTA.

Niece called entitled brat, mom blamed. Life’s unfair. ♀️
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Teaching life lessons: Niece learns to accept disappointment.
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Commenter sympathizes with niece’s behavior as typical teenage angst. NTA.

13-year-old niece needs attitude adjustment to join festivities

Adults can have adult parties. Niece needs to understand ♀️

Bride-to-be receives support for refusing to change bachelorette party theme

13-year-old niece not entitled to adult bachelorette party. NTA.

NTA. Keep including your niece in everything else

Niece acting entitled? NTA bride-to-be deserves adult time

Adults-only bachelorette party? Niece needs to understand boundaries.

NTA defends bride-to-be’s refusal to change bachelorette party theme

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation
