Getting married is supposed to be a joyous occasion, but what happens when you clash with a loved one over something as simple as a hairdresser? A woman recently got engaged and is now at odds with her mom’s friend, who she says is incapable of doing her hair. Despite saying no multiple times, her mom went behind her back and asked the friend to do everyone’s hair and makeup for the wedding. Now the woman is being called a bridezilla by her family. Did she go too far, or is it her right to choose who does her hair for the big day? Find out the full story here.
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Family drama ensues after bride-to-be rejects mom’s friend’s services

Bride-to-be faces family backlash for refusing mom’s friend’s services ♀️

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Bride-to-be says no to mom’s friend for makeup and hair, family calls her bridezilla
When it comes to wedding planning, everyone has an opinion, especially family. But what happens when they cross a line and ignore your boundaries? That’s exactly what happened to this bride-to-be. Despite multiple requests to not have her mom’s friend do the hair and makeup for the wedding, the friend was hired anyway. Now, the family is calling her a bridezilla for not just accepting it. But is she in the wrong? Let’s dive into the details and see what Reddit users have to say about this contentious situation.
Don’t compromise on your wedding day look, NTA.

Bride-to-be defends right to choose hair stylist, family disagrees ♀️

Stand your ground, it’s your big day. Mom’s at fault.

Bride stands up to mom’s unprofessional request, called bridezilla. NTA.

Bride-to-be stands up to family pressure for hairdresser, gets called bridezilla
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Bride-to-be stands up for her wedding day wishes, called bridezilla

Bride-to-be stands up to family’s name-calling for refusing services

Respectfully declining services leads to bridezilla accusations

OP receives support for setting boundaries with family.
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Customer stands up to unprofessional hairdresser, who works alone.

Setting boundaries for the big day shouldn’t make you a bridezilla

Bride stands up for herself against rude mom and friend ♀️ #NTA

Setting boundaries with family during wedding planning. ♀️

Hold firm and shut it down. Bride-to-be is NTA.

Stand your ground! It’s your special day

Standing up to mom’s friend makes you NTA
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Bride-to-be stands up for herself against family pressure

Bride refuses mom’s friend’s hair services for wedding, family outraged ♀️

Bride takes control of her wedding, shuts down controlling mom

It’s your big day, don’t let anyone else ruin it

Cutting ties with family after mom’s rude behavior. ♀️

Stand your ground! Don’t let anyone push you around!

Compromise with mom’s friend for her hair, choose own stylist

Bride’s mom is being unsupportive and making her the ‘bad guy’

Stand your ground! NTA for setting boundaries with mom’s friend

Mom overstepped and now wants you to take one for the team on you gd wedding. Be a grownup and tell your friend that you hadn’t cleared it with the bride before you asked.

Bride-to-be called bridezilla for refusing MOB’s friend’s services ♀️ ♀️

Bride stands her ground on wedding day look.

Stand your ground! You deserve nice hair on your big day

Bride-to-be stands her ground on hair, comment supports NTA decision

Stand your ground against egotistical service providers and family members

Setting boundaries isn’t being a bridezilla

Mom’s friend is collateral damage, NTA for hiring someone else.

Assertiveness advice for OP in refusing mom’s friend’s services ♀️

Bride-to-be defends herself as NTA after refusing mom’s friend’s services ♀️

Bad experience with amateur makeup artist. NTA for saying no.

Sneaky solution to bride’s mom’s friend’s rejected services

Setting boundaries with family friends for wedding prep, NTA.
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Engagingly shut down unwanted wedding services with a simple ‘No’ ♀️

Bride stands up for herself, family calls her a bridezilla

Stand up for yourself and don’t let others profit ♀️

Stand your ground and say no to family bullying.

Mom’s friend Stacy wants to offer services, you said no. NTA

Stand your ground! Your hair, your wedding, your decision. ♀️

Bride stands firm, family calls her a bridezilla. NTA.
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Wedding photos are forever! Not the a**hole for refusing.

Groom reflects on his overbearing mother’s toxic behavior during wedding planning.

Get revenge on mom’s manipulation tactics with acting skills

Defending against family and mom’s friend, NTA wins.

Bride-to-be defends rejecting mom’s friend’s services, claps back at family

Stand your ground! NTA bride defends her choices.
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Bride stands up for herself, family calls her a bridezilla

Wedding control? NTA says ‘I do’ to her decisions!

Don’t apologize, you were crystal clear. Tell them off

Bride-to-be stands up to mom’s friend: NTA wins this round

Stand your ground! Don’t let your mom’s friend pressure you

Setting boundaries and saying no to family? NTA bride wins

Wedding drama! Bride stands her ground against mom’s friend.

Bride stands her ground against ‘mom’s friend’, suggests alternative.

Stand your ground and don’t let them bully you
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Mom’s friend? More like mom’s nightmare! #NTA

Bride stands up to mom’s friend – NTA reigns!

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself

Avoiding bad hair on her big day, bride stands her ground ♀️
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Breaking bridal norms: Bride-to-be stands up for herself

Stand strong, don’t let your mom’s behavior get you down

Bride stands up to mom’s friend, internet cheers her on

Stand your ground! Don’t let them make you a ‘bridezilla’ ♀️
