It’s no secret that getting engaged is something that many women are excited about. They tend to want to share the excitement with their friends and their family. While they are happy and enthusiastic about planning their wedding, sometimes, their families may be even more excited and want to help every step of the way. However, some brides feel as though their families can be a bit suffocating when it comes to planning a wedding.
Mothers of the bride can tend to get overly excited about their daughter’s wedding day. Many times, this is normal. But, when a mother steps in too much, it can ruin the entire planning experience for everyone.
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From the very beginning of planning her wedding, the bride just wanted her mother to back off and let her plan the wedding of her dreams. Instead, the bride’s mother continued to push and even create a situation where the bride was stressed about planning her wedding—walking on eggshells around her constantly. Eventually, with help from Reddit users online , she confronted her mother and put her in her place.
However, that was not enough for the mother. Instead, she continued to put her nose in the couple’s business—even calling to change their floral arrangements for their own wedding day. The bride has truly had enough.
Reddit Users Online Warned the Bride that the Mother Was Not “Done”
One Reddit user chimed in and said that the bride may need more than just a wedding planner—she may consider actual security. Based on the way her mother reacted to the “talk” they had with her, it is clear that she does not respect her daughter or her soon-to-be son.
The fact that she still called the florist afterward shows how little she respects them and does not plan on stopping her antics.
Many Suggested that the Mother Needed Therapy.
Some Reddit users suggested to this mother, and all mothers who have issues like this with their children, therapy is a good thing. Also, it’s important to always listen when your children are telling you that you are doing them wrong. If not, it can end pretty sad—like, leaving you isolated and alienated from your children.
No parent wants to be iced out from their own daughter’s wedding.
