A woman booked a hotel room for a wedding six months in advance, but her family never made reservations. Now, they want to stay with her in an upgraded corner room and bring air mattresses. She refuses, as she and her husband haven’t taken time off since their wedding and want to spend quality time together. Is she the a**hole for not sharing her room with her family who didn’t plan ahead? Read on to find out.
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Planning ahead is key, especially when it comes to booking a hotel room for a wedding weekend. But what happens when some family members don’t take the initiative and expect to stay in your room? One woman finds herself in this exact situation and is left wondering if she’s being unreasonable by refusing to share her room with her parents, sister, brother, and his girlfriend who failed to book their own accommodations. She had booked her room months in advance and warned her family to do the same, but they ignored her advice and are now scrambling to find a place to stay. While she sympathizes with their predicament, she also wants to enjoy a stress-free weekend with her husband and doesn’t want to sacrifice her own comfort and privacy to accommodate their lack of planning. What do you think? Is she in the right or should she make room for her family despite their lack of preparation?
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