A woman shares her story of reaching her breaking point with her husband’s friend, who has been living with them for six months. He has been disrespectful, not contributing to the household, smoking weed indoors, and even taking her car without permission. When she locked the door to prevent him from entering the house, her husband was unhappy and posted about it on Instagram. But was she overreacting? Read on to find out how she plans to handle the situation and what advice she received from internet strangers.
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Wife locks husband’s friend out, husband posts on Instagram. Drama ensues.

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Woman takes drastic action to protect herself and her children.

Wife’s drastic action leaves husband’s friend out in the cold

Protective wife takes action, leaves kids out of the drama.

Grateful for internet strangers’ support during tough time ❤️

Locked her husband’s friend out of the house!
A woman reaches her breaking point when her husband’s friend, who has been living with them for six months, takes her car without permission to smoke weed with a co-worker. She locks him out of the house, puts his belongings out, and changes the locks. The husband, who has a history of getting angry and scared, takes to Instagram to complain about being locked out. The woman seeks help from the military and is granted a military protection order for her and her children. Read on for the comments and reactions to this heated debate.
NTA but in an abusive relationship, get out and get help
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NTA. Woman advised to take legal action and leave abusive husband.

Woman locks husband’s friend out of house, leaving commenter in unsafe home

Commenter advises seeking support for emotional abuse situation.

NTA, but husband is a bigger problem.

Woman considers leaving husband after being taken advantage of by friend
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Woman rightfully stands up to abusive husband, sparks support.

Protective lockout or toxic relationship?

Report the car theft! But husband is the bigger issue

Woman seeks support to leave abusive husband and protect her children.

Get help and support from Women’s Resource Center

Woman plans to leave abusive husband after locking friend out.

Sparks fly as commenter questions husband’s loyalty to his wife

Husband’s friend steals car, sleeps on couch, and plays victim. NTA

Woman regrets not reporting husband’s friend to police for theft.

Spouse’s friend overstays welcome, NTA kicks him out now

Locking the door to your own home is always justified

Spousal woes and witty comebacks in a heated debate

Woman stands up to freeloading husband’s friend – NTA

Commenter advises woman to seek legal help and leave husband

Encouraging support amidst domestic turmoil ♥️

Savage comment receives no replies

A cautionary tale of helping a friend in need

Woman locks husband’s friend out of the house in retaliation
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NTA for locking husband’s friend out, but YTA for anti-vax views

Commenter advises woman to leave abusive husband, uses funny analogy

Ungrateful houseguest with no basic decency causes conflict in household

Empathetic comment encourages seeking help for emotional abuse.

Commenter suggests husband is the real problem

Commenter advises seeking legal help and a safe space

OP’s husband and his friend are both questionable

Stand up for yourself and leave with the kids

Set boundaries with husband’s friend for the sake of family ❤️

Commenter considers ending relationship after locking out husband’s friend.

Time to kick him out? One commenter says NTA

Supportive comment urging woman to leave abusive husband.

Empathize with the victim of abuse, don’t judge.

Short and blunt agreement with a touch of concern

Taking a stand against freeloaders with childish behavior ♀️

Military commenters discuss repercussions of smoking in civilian’s house

Legally evict husband’s friend, give ultimatum to husband.

Commenter advises divorcing husband after locking out friend.

Parenting skills of commenter are questionable

Commenter calls out transphobic behavior in heated debate

Debate ensues as commenter calls out OP’s anti-vax stance. ESH.

Sassy suggestion for cohabitation sparks laughter and agreement

Supportive comment acknowledges difficult situation with empathetic tone. ❤️

Accepting help is a GOOD THING. Let others support you.

Standing up to abusive partner with six kids, NTA sparks debate.

Take control of the situation and make a plan
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NTA considering an exit plan due to abusive husband and friend

Funeral director suggests seeking counseling services instead of Reddit for serious problem.

Encouraging comment sparks hope in tough situation

Supportive comment, advising caution and seeking help

Get the help you deserve with EX-POSE

Standing up for herself and her kids against husband’s priorities
