Friend Claims They’re Dating, But They’re Not! Can Ultimatums Save Their Friendship?

Imagine having a close friend who secretly claims you’re in a relationship together, while you’re completely unaware! That’s exactly what happened to a 21-year-old woman who found out her friend was posting about their ‘dates’ and calling her the love of her life on a secret account. But when she confronted her friend, things took an unexpected turn, leading to an ultimatum that could end their friendship for good. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions and see how it all unfolded!

The Crush Confession

Moving Away and Moving On?

The Breakup and Return

Distractions and ‘Dates’

The Secret Account ️‍♀️

The Shocking Discovery

Blocked and Confused ‍♀️

The Confrontation

Accusations and Ultimatums ⚠️

The Last Straw

The Fallout

Friends Taking Sides ‍♀️

Sisterly Advice

Update: Contacting Friends

The Final Decision

Ultimatum Issued: Can Their Friendship Survive?

After discovering her friend’s secret account and confronting her about the ‘relationship’ claims, our protagonist issued an ultimatum: get help, get over her infatuation, or their friendship is over. But was she too harsh? Her sister thinks she should’ve waited until she was less angry, while some friends have blocked her, seemingly siding with her friend. As for the friend, she’s been cut off from most social media and contact, leaving us to wonder if this friendship can ever be salvaged. ‍♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…

Fake posts are creepy and insane. NTA made the right call.

NTA for calling out creepy behavior and lack of self-control

Friend moves states for single friend, NTA for ending friendship.

NTA. Friend faked dating, gaslit you, and may harm future relationships.

Friend lies about dating, accuses me of taking advantage? NTA.

Friendship tested by creepy behavior and blocked friends.

NTA. Friend’s fake relationship was creepy and not your fault. Cut ties.

Friend living a secret life, NTA for exposing her lies.

Don’t let her get away with it NTA stands firm

NTA! OP’s friend crossed a line by posting pictures and acting like they were together. It’s not healthy for S to keep acting like this and OP needs to set boundaries.

Learn about finsta – a secret Instagram for embarrassing content

Demanding honesty and boundaries from a friend. NTA

Uncovering the truth leads to unexpected revelations ‍♂️

Setting boundaries, not ultimatums. NTA wins this friendship battle!

Navigating unrequited love in friendships can be tricky

Standing up to creepy behavior, NTA for being pissed off

Infatuation doesn’t equal love. Lying is creepy. NTA

Respectful rejection leads to NTA verdict

Setting boundaries with a friend who created a fake relationship

Take control of your narrative and set boundaries. NTA

Friend’s behavior is creepy and obsessive. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA. Commenter shares own traumatic experience and offers support to OP.

Friendship over after betrayal, friends who sided are delusional.

Setting boundaries with a friend who has a crush

Friendship over. NTA but ultimatums won’t fix what’s broken.

Stalker or friend? NTA’s comment sparks no reply.

Navigating unrequited feelings can be tricky, but respect is key. ❤

Cutting ties may be the best option for both parties

Friend lied on social media, NTA. Ending friendship is reasonable.

Friend violates trust, NTA calls her out, ultimatums ensue

Commenter warns of potential stalking behavior, urges caution.

Documenting a fake relationship is creepy and dangerous. Get help!

Setting boundaries with a creepy friend. NTA

No a-hole here! A peaceful comment section ️

Toxic exes and false accusations, NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA stands up for themselves and calls out double standards

Social media drama! Friend tries to ‘claim’ not-dating friend. NTA.

Avoiding a potential disaster. Wise choice.

Commenter calls out creepy behavior with shocked emoji

Friend claimed they’re dating, but they’re not! NTA offers advice

Red flag alert! Fabricating a relationship is a major no-no. #NTA

Friend confesses feelings, posts as GF, blames OP. NTA.

Calling out bad behavior in the queer community

Take charge of the situation and move on, NTA

Clear judgement! Let’s hope their friendship is saved

Friend lies about relationship, NTA sets trust boundaries.

Clear NTA comment needs no explanation

Cutting off toxic friend, but keeping tabs on her Instagram

Friendship on the line: NTA calls out delusional girl

Gender bias in judgments? NTA for setting boundaries.

Obsession or crush? NTA’s discomfort and anger are justified

Friendship in jeopardy over fake dating claim. NTA gets support.

Clear and concise, but what’s the backstory?

Agreeing with the comment, but spelling error detracts

Consider friends’ perspective, but NTA for not dating friend.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. NTA

Screenshots don’t lie! Prove them wrong

Concerned commenter questions OP’s self-respect in dating situation

Cutting ties with a creep

Friend lies twice, has issues. NTA, be careful

Setting boundaries is key for a healthy friendship. #NTA

Clear judgement! But where’s the drama? ‍♀️

Commenter finds post creepy, declares NTA.

Friend’s power play with ex is not okay. NTA.

Standing up to a crazy crush. NTA wins the day!

Setting boundaries in friendships is important for mutual respect.

Navigating possessive friendships can be tough. NTA for setting boundaries.

Red flag alert! Friend’s online shrine is creepy and dangerous. Cut off ties.

Backing off and setting boundaries is key. NTA

Friendship boundaries crossed, NTA sets them straight.

Blocking toxic people is a good start

Taking responsibility for actions and emotions. NTA wins.

Commenter suggests getting a restraining order.

Friend catfished commenter, claimed love. NTA for ending friendship

Confusion over social media slang sparks discussion in comments.