Woman Ditched by Boyfriend for Keeping Her Late Father’s Anniversary Plans

Imagine planning a special weekend to honor the 10-year anniversary of your father’s passing, only for your boyfriend to unexpectedly have his son for the weekend and demand you cancel your plans. That’s exactly what happened to one woman, who shared her heartbreaking story online. She had arranged a tubing trip, a visit with her sister, and time at a campground with close friends. Her boyfriend, whom we’ll call ‘T’, was initially fine with the plans. But when he had to look after his 10-year-old son, ‘K’, he suddenly changed his tune and demanded she cancel her plans.

A Special Weekend Planned

Boyfriend’s Approval

Unexpected Change of Plans

Beach Invitation ️

Sticking to Her Plans

The Freakout

Harsh Words

Trying to Understand

Seeking Answers ❓

Edit: Keeping Her Plans

Edit: Relationship Length

Update: Grateful for Support

Update: Boyfriend’s Stance

Update: Brutal Comments

Update: Standing Up for Herself

Update: Moving On

The Heartbreaking Fallout

After sticking to her plans and refusing to cancel her father’s anniversary weekend, the woman found herself at the center of a storm. Her boyfriend broke up with her, accused her of always running away when he had his son, and told her not to come home. Despite the hurtful words, she kept her plans and thanked the online community for their support. In an update, she revealed that her boyfriend continued to be mean and even accused her of taking too long to mourn her father. She finally stood up for herself, ended the relationship, and is now looking to move out.

Toxic ex-boyfriend using sensitive time to control and humiliate.

Dumped for not accommodating his plans, better off without him

Drama Alert: Comment throws shade at ex-boyfriend’s baby mama

Leave the mistreating, isolating boyfriend before it gets worse.

Was the breakup an excuse? NTA for keeping plans.

Dumped by boyfriend, called ‘giant trash bag’. Ouch

NTA! Glad she prioritized her father’s memory

Setting boundaries is important in step-situations. NTA for prioritizing plans.

Condolences for loss, support for OP, and criticism for boyfriend.

Encouraging comment suggests moving on and finding new possibilities

Standing up for oneself and recognizing self-worth. #NTA

Not the a**hole for keeping her late father’s plans

Supportive comment about boyfriend’s true intentions with advice for OP.

Self-absorbed ex-boyfriend ditched important plans. NTA ‍♀️

Standing ovation for this comment. #DumpTheDeadbeat

Dump him! Respect for late father is non-negotiable. #NTA

NTA, dump him. He’s bad news.

Commenter not at fault for prioritizing late father’s anniversary

Don’t apologize for setting boundaries. You deserve better.

Commenter defends OP and curses out ex-boyfriend.

Sending love and support for coping with the loss ❤️

Is the boyfriend really to blame for the breakup?

This comment is unhelpful and lacks context

NTA. Boyfriend prioritized laziness over 6-year relationship & milestone anniversary.

Boyfriend’s sudden behavior raises red flags. NTA for sure

Boyfriend ditches girlfriend on father’s death anniversary. She dodged bullet.

Family matters and grief is complex. You dodged a bullet.

NTA! Glad she didn’t compromise on honoring her father ❤

Choose your family and leave the unhealthy relationship.

NTA, prioritize your own plans and reconsider the relationship.

Dump him! You’re not the a**hole for keeping plans.

Sister trip > late father’s anniversary plans

Commenter suggests reasons for boyfriend’s behavior and advises to move on

Dodged a bullet NTA comment gets no backlash

Celebrate your freedom You deserve better than that jerk.

Is the boyfriend avoiding commitment? Move on, sis!

Boyfriend ditched girlfriend on father’s death anniversary. NTA. ‍♂️

Supportive comments, dump the ex and move on

You have every right to keep your plans

Red flag alert! Commenter warns about abusive boyfriend, advises to leave.

NTA, boyfriend’s behavior was selfish and insensitive to your feelings.

Don’t let anyone hold you back from living your life ✌️

Supportive comment tells OP to leave boyfriend and focus on memories

Heartbreaking account of emotional and physical abuse in a relationship

Splitting up is for the best

Stand your ground! NTA for keeping your plans.

Glad the commenter supports OP and calls out the BF’s behavior.

NTA for ditching a trashy boyfriend

Don’t let anyone prioritize their convenience over your emotions.

Don’t let him guilt you. You’re NTA

Dump him! NTA, take this as your ticket out.

Insensitive ex-boyfriend with resentment issues, you deserve better!

Dump him . NTA for wanting respect and boundaries.

You deserve better Lean on your support system

Empathetic response to NTA comment with sad face emoji.

Moving on with love and support ❤️

Dodged a bullet! NTA for keeping dad’s memory alive.

Leave the a**hole. Not the a**hole.

Stand your ground, don’t let him manipulate you. #NTA

Standing up for honoring late father, better off without him

NTA, but ditch the bf . Your grief is valid

NTA stands up to narcissistic boyfriend and his selfish motives.

NTA, drama king boyfriend is not worth your time.

Dodged a bullet? Commenters think so. #NTA

Curious about BF and son’s absence? This commenter asks why.

Age gap relationship red flags, but she dodged a bullet.

Not the a**hole, but why did the boyfriend ditch her?

Short and sweet: NTA, dump him.

Don’t take him back! You’re NTA for keeping plans.

NTA. Inclusive invite would have been better

Is the boyfriend really cheating or just insensitive?

NTA! Boyfriend’s anger issues caused breakup over anniversary plans

Break up with him, he’s controlling. Spend time with family!

Celebrate your independence day You dodged a bullet

Honoring a dead family member is not partying. #NTA

Communication is key . Try to understand his behavior

Take back control of your home and enjoy the beach ️

NTA. Glad to see some support in the comments!

NTA! Stick to your emotional needs and enjoy tubing!

Not the a**hole for honoring late father’s anniversary plans

Friends warn about boyfriend’s behavior, he weaponizes her feelings

Red flag alert! NTA, but get out of that abusive relationship.

Remind him he knew what you were doing and why

NTA commenter warns of red flags in boyfriend’s behavior

Ex-boyfriend’s behavior is unacceptable. NTA, move on.

Stand up for yourself and your late father. #NTA

Escape the toxicity and run towards freedom!

Standing up for oneself is never wrong. NTA wins!