Picture this: you’re about to turn 45, and your husband surprises you with a 10-day vacation to Italy . Sounds amazing, right? But what if you wanted to turn that vacation into a birthday month celebration, visiting more European cities like London, Amsterdam, and Paris? ✈️ Well, that’s exactly what our birthday girl wanted, but her husband wasn’t too keen on the idea. With a history of traveling the world with her ex, she couldn’t help but bring up how they managed to visit 56 countries together. But her husband’s reaction? Not exactly what she expected…
Birthday Month Idea
Husband’s Job and Tutoring
European Adventure Plan ️
Photography Blog and Airbnbs
Husband’s In-Person Meetings
⏰ Time Management with Ex
Silicon Valley Money
Living Across the US ️
Breakup and Ex’s New Wife
️ Therapy and Closure
Husband’s Discomfort
Snappy Husband
Birthday Month Dreams vs. Reality ♀️
Our birthday girl had her heart set on a European adventure for her 45th birthday, but her husband had other plans. With in-person meetings and a lack of ‘Silicon Valley money,’ he wasn’t able to fulfill her birthday month dreams. ♂️ When she brought up how she and her ex managed to travel to 56 countries together, her husband snapped, accusing her of turning their vacation into a competition. Was she just reminiscing about her past or comparing her husband to her ex? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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