Imagine growing up in a deeply religious family, only to discover your own path of agnosticism. Now, imagine having a mother who respects your beliefs…until she doesn’t. This is the story of a woman who found herself in a bitter conflict with her own mother after a shocking revelation. Her mother had secretly baptized her two young daughters behind her back.
A Family Rooted in Faith

The Agnostic in the Bible Belt

The One Exception: Grandma

A Secret Bible Study

The Shocking Revelation

A Child’s Fear of Hell

A Breach of Trust

The Confrontation

The Aftermath

The Ex’s Response

The Big Question

A Baptism, A Betrayal, and A Broken Trust: The Fallout
In a shocking turn of events, a mother discovers her own mother has secretly baptized her two young daughters, causing a major rift in the family. The children’s mother and father, both non-religious, had explicitly asked the grandmother not to involve the kids in religious activities. The grandmother not only ignored their wishes but also instilled a fear of hell in the young girls. This breach of trust has left the parents heartbroken and questioning whether their children should have any further contact with their grandmother. It’s a tale of faith, family, and the consequences of crossing boundaries.
NTA. Grandma breached trust, but cultural night can educate and heal

Education on religions can lead to atheism or informed choices

Grandma crosses boundaries, jeopardizing trust. NTA. What’s next?

Validation received: anger justified. Struggling with guilt, need reassurance.

Trust shattered. Grandma crosses line, risks family. NTA.

Pastor offers support and guidance after grandma secretly baptizes grandkids

Trust shattered: Grandma secretly baptizes grandkids, causing family tension

NTA, grandma crossed a line by scaring kids with hell

NTA – Grandma’s secret baptism shattered trust with her grandkids.

Christianity’s manipulation and harmful teachings shattered a family’s trust

NTA – Religion is toxic. The satanic temple is pretty dope

Boundaries shattered. Trust broken. NTA. Huge violation.

NTA, grandma’s religious beliefs clash with commenter’s Catholic faith
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NTA. Atheist mom stands up to religious grandma over secret baptism.

Respecting religious choices is crucial. Trust shattered by secret baptism.

Ex and OP agree, Grandma’s absence is a serious consequence

Supervised visits: a chance for kids to see grandma again?

Heartbreaking experience of breaking free from religious indoctrination.

Betrayed by grandma’s secret baptism, trust shattered. NTA

Heartbroken by grandma’s betrayal, hoping for a change in behavior

Engaging comment about kids finding their own religion later on
