Picture this: you’re leading a team of software developers, and things are going smoothly. That is, until one day, your top performer, Keith, comes to you with a complaint about his coworker, Ann. She’s been using the office microwave to heat her heating pad, and Keith is convinced it’s contaminating the microwave with body fluids. As the boss, what would you do? ♂️
Keith’s Complaint
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Sweat and Microwaves
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HR Steps In
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Ann’s Heating Pad Ban
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Healthcare and Sick Leave
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Ann’s Emotional Reaction
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Wife Weighs In
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Edit: Apologizing to Ann
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Seeking a Solution
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Middle Ground Needed ⚖️
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Edit2: HR’s Verdict
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All Dickheads? ♂️
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The Great Microwave Debate: Who’s Right? ♀️
In this heated office drama, Keith’s concerns about microwave contamination clash with Ann’s need for pain relief. The boss tries to accommodate both, but ends up in hot water with HR and his wife. With everyone seemingly at fault, the search for a middle ground begins. Can they find a solution that keeps everyone happy and healthy? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Microwave drama: YTA for dismissing Ann’s pain management needs. ♀️

OP dismissed Ann’s pain and got called out. YTA

Sexism and lack of empathy in office drama over heating pad.

Office feud over heating pads and microwaves leads to pain.

YTA for telling her to use medical leave, then calling her emotional.

OP is called out for dismissing Ann’s pain and healthcare system.

A female employee’s remedy for period cramps causes office drama

YTA for dismissing employee’s pain and suggesting medical care

Microwaves vs. Disability: YTA’s Incorrect Belief Causes Drama

Engaging in office drama over heating pads and microwaves

Commenter calls out sexism and suggests easy solution with wipes

Don’t be an a**hole, chronic pain is no joke

Accommodate Ann’s pain, compromise for cross-contamination concerns
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Microwave hygiene rule debate turns into YTA accusation.

Choosing Keith’s comfort over Ann’s, YTA according to commenter.

Clean the microwave after each use to avoid office drama

Don’t dismiss pain. Ask Ann to use a plate. Misogyny alert

Commenter calls out ableist language. Replies agree and add suggestions.

Sexist behavior towards female employee’s pain concerns.

Female commenter defends heating pads, suggests compromise with YTA
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Period pain is real and needs to be taken seriously

HR called out for invalidating employee’s pain.

Microwave hygiene debate sparks confusion and concern

Microwave contamination drama – YTA gets creative solution

Inconsistent boss gets called out with a YTA comment

Microwave controversy sparks heated discussion on menstrual pain and healthcare

Commenter calls out discrimination at workplace, advises legal action

Compromise is key! YTA should consider two microwaves.

Employee health or office hygiene? A dilemma

Engaging defense of using heating pads for pain relief

Commenter calls out YTA/ESH for lack of empathy and suggests compromise

Get a second microwave to avoid legal trouble
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Accusatory comment could lead to discrimination complaint.

Employee shares chronic pain struggles, boss offers no empathy

Ann’s a badass! YTA, but she handled it like a boss.

Coworker’s pain is invisible, don’t judge. YTA x1000

Don’t dismiss someone’s pain, YTA. Accommodations can be made.

YTA for playing favorites. Buy Ann a heating pad

Male coworkers dismiss woman’s pain, called out for poor handling

Empathize with women’s pain, don’t tell them to ‘suck it up’

Gender bias in workplace amenities sparks heated debate

Electric heating pads and therapy for Keith? YTA, Ann clean up.

Chronic pain sufferer calls out OP for lack of empathy

Accommodating pain vs. preference: microwaving heating pads at work

A comment calling out discrimination and ableism at the workplace

A practical solution to office microwave drama
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A simple solution to office drama

Period pains are excruciating, heating pads are a necessity

Manager shamed for not accommodating employee’s pain

Dismissal of colleague’s pain and emotional reaction sparks conflict

Employee defends use of heating pad for pain management.

Employee calls out OP for dismissing pain and enabling absurd request

Accommodate heating pad use instead of forcing medication. YTA.

Why OP is TA and Ann needs an electric heating pad

Period pain is real and heating pads help. YTA, not her.

Heating pad drama heats up in fiery YTA comment
