We all know that one person who’s terrible at returning borrowed items, but what happens when this habit leads to losing a job? One woman (21f) found herself in this exact situation when her roommate (22f) borrowed her laptop charger and failed to return it on time. Despite a long history of friendship, this incident has put their relationship to the test. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale and see if our protagonist is to blame for her roommate’s job loss.
The Borrowing Habit

Laptop Charger Agreement

The Charger Goes Missing

Taking Matters Into Her Own Hands

The Aftermath: Job Loss

Desperate Measures

The Blame Game Begins

A Call to the Boss?

Friends Take Sides

Update: Apologies and Plans

The Final Decision

Friendship and Forgiveness

Charger Drama: Who’s Really to Blame?
In a whirlwind of drama, a woman finds herself at the center of her roommate’s job loss due to a borrowed laptop charger. As the roommate blames her for not returning the charger on time, friends take sides and tensions rise. Eventually, apologies are made, and a plan is hatched to lie to the boss and switch the story around, as long as the roommate makes some much-needed changes. While some friendships remain strained, it’s clear that this incident has been a wake-up call for everyone involved. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Friend’s irresponsible behavior led to job loss. Suggestions given.

NTA, clear conditions set, friend needs to grow up

NTA for wanting your charger back, and love the username

Roommate fired over charger drama, commenter calls out absurdity.

Roommate loses job over laptop charger drama. NTA for taking it back.

Don’t be a doormat, NTA! ♀️

NTA, roommate’s forgetfulness led to job loss over laptop charger

Compassionate response to roommate’s job loss due to ADHD mess.

Roommate needs to take responsibility. Calling boss immature and unhelpful.

Don’t be held responsible for other people’s forgetfulness

Roommate loses job over laptop charger drama. NTA but confusing timeline
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Roommate’s job lost over laptop charger drama, but who’s at fault?

Roommate’s job lost over charger drama. NTA not renewing lease.

Boss won’t change mind for friend’s call, stressful times.

Roommate fired for being late, not charger drama. NTA

Commenter questions roommate’s oversleeping, receives tiredness explanation

Taking responsibility for actions is key. NTA
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Savage reply shuts down roommate’s entitlement

Roommate’s job lost over laptop charger. NTA suggests responsibility.

Don’t throw away a lifelong friendship over a laptop charger

Roommate oversleeps work by 6.5 hours, blames missing charger. NTA.

Irresponsible roommate gets what she deserves

Laptop charger drama leads to roommate losing job

Always have a backup plan

NTA – Friend’s irresponsibility led to job loss and excuses. Find new roommate.
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Your charger, not your responsibility to help disorganized friend. NTA

NTA, setting boundaries is key. Sad how easily people cut off friends

Commenter calls out OP for babying roommate. YTA confirmed.

NTA. Calling her manager won’t help and could hurt.

Commenter sympathizes with friend but suggests self-accountability strategies.

Irresponsible roommate gets what she deserves.

Comment suggests undiagnosed ADHD as root of roommate’s behavior

Good friends learn from mistakes and set boundaries for future.

Lying to her boss? YTA. Don’t enable her behavior.

Your charger, your rules. NTA for roommate’s job loss

NTA takes responsibility for possible ADHD, emphasizes personal accountability.

Lying roommate gets called out for being the a**hole

Roommate avoids responsibility, NTA wins laptop charger drama

Roommate with ADHD loses job over laptop charger drama. NTA.

Stand your ground! NTA comment shuts down charger drama

Clear judgement, but what’s the story behind the drama?

NTA learns consequences after roommate loses job over charger drama

Don’t lose your job over a charger

Lazy roommate blames OP for getting fired over laptop charger

NTA loses job over roommate’s irresponsibility and immaturity

Written up 3 times? NTA wins this laptop charger drama!

Taking responsibility , pushing it onto others is not cool

Charger lending leads to job loss. NTA wins.

Roommate drama over laptop charger ends in NTA judgement

Petty revenge suggestion sparks agreement in comment section

Roommate loses job over charger drama. NTA prevails.

Calling in a friend to cover for you at work is immature

Harsh criticism for irresponsible 22-year-old roommate

Commenter says NTA and blames roommate for job loss

Roommate overslept and lost job. Commenter thinks she’s irresponsible.

Roommate loses job over charger drama, but commenter says NTA
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Friend needs to take responsibility. NTA.

Commenter relates to situation, calls girl ‘f***ing annoying’

Being nice isn’t a flaw . Don’t let others blame you.
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Roommate fired over charger drama, commenter says NTA

Roommate’s job loss justified due to repeated irresponsibility. NTA

Honesty is the best policy, NTA.
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Lesson learned: don’t lend anything to your roommate

Being considerate is key. NTA for roommate’s job loss

Roommate blames OP for being late to work. NTA, but enabling.

Being early is always better than being late

Friend blames OP for laptop charger issue, but needs to own up. NTA

Setting boundaries with a troublesome roommate

Commenter calls out OP for ignoring judgement, ESH.
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OP gets defensive when judged YTA for asking AITA.

Roommate loses job over charger drama. NTA reminds her responsibilities.

Roommate fired over charger, commenter says she needs accountability. NTA

Friend borrows charger, breaks promise, oversleeps 6.5 hours. NTA.

Roommate needs to get her sh*t together
