Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama brewing between a father and son. This 27-year-old guy has had a rocky relationship with his dad since day one. Daddy dearest never really wanted kids and made that crystal clear. But wait, there’s more! A shocking email revelation and a surprise message years later have this son questioning everything. Is he being an a-hole to a dying man? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♀️
Family Drama Alert: Father-Son Showdown!

Daddy Dearest’s Disinterest

Step-Mom Steals the Spotlight!

The Infamous Email that Changed Everything

Dad’s Harsh Ultimatum: Success or No Inheritance!

Surprise Message from Dad after Years of Silence!

Dad’s Plea for Reconnection in 2023

Shocking Revelation: Dad’s Liver Cancer Diagnosis

Son’s Bitter Refusal: Still Salty about the Will!

Moral Dilemma: Am I an A-hole to a Dying Man?

Internet Weighs In: Is This Son a Jerk for Refusing to Reconnect with His Dying Dad?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a real family soap opera here! This poor guy has been through the wringer with his dad. From being written out of the will for having a ‘lowly’ job to years of radio silence, it’s no wonder he’s feeling a bit bitter. But now, with his dad’s cancer revelation, he’s questioning if he’s being too harsh. It’s a tough situation, for sure. ♀️ Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster! Grab your popcorn, folks, and let’s dive into the juiciest responses!
NTA for not wanting to see dying father who cut you out of will. Suggests confronting him for closure, but ultimately up to you.

Choosing to cut an abusive parent out can be freeing

Dark humor in a tough situation, no replies.

NTA OP. Disinherited over job at 19. Sell him liver
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Redemption story: A strained relationship with Dad and a chance to reconcile

Money can’t buy love and respect. NTA, do you.

Rejected by father during life and death

No obligation to see dying father who wrote you out. NTA

Despite being NTA, consider seeing him before it’s too late.

NTA but consider seeing him for closure

Reflect on what you hope to gain from seeing your dad

To see or not to see? Regret is the real question.

Clear conscious request denied. NTA, money debt settled.

It’s your choice whether to reconnect with your dying dad

Choosing whether to visit dying father who cut him out.

Mend your relationship because you want to, not just sympathy.

Survivor’s guilt: NTA for denying abusive father’s deathbed wish.

Mixed emotions towards a dying father and his will

Forgive dying dad to give peace or prioritize mental health?

Choose what’s best for you, not him. NTA.

Former foster kid shares perspective on family abandonment and making amends.
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Manipulate him for the money and don’t feel bad

Terrible father abandons son, writes him out of will. NTA.

Not the a**hole for refusing to reconnect with abusive dad. Consider saying goodbye before it’s too late.

Cutting ties with a toxic parent: NTA

A heartbreaking story of a distant father and unfulfilled relationship.

It’s okay to not see your dying dad who wrote you out of his will. NAH.

Self-centered father with a guilty conscience. Pursue with caution!

Forgive, forget, or ghost? Your choice. Last chance for closure.

Choosing to be the bigger person is hard, but worthwhile.

You owe him nothing. Closure is optional.

Take care of yourself first. NTA.

To forgive or not to forgive? The choice is yours.

Closure is YOUR choice. NTA for setting boundaries.

OP’s father was selfish and cold throughout their life. NTA.

Don’t feel guilty if you decide not to see him. NTA

Parental obligation vs personal choice in strained relationships. NAH.
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Prioritize your own well-being and avoid future regrets. NTA

Choosing to avoid a toxic parent is okay. NTA

Reconnecting with a dying parent who cut you out?

No guilt necessary, liver trawling father deserves NTA judgement.

Be selfish and choose what makes you feel best/least bad. NTA.

Deciding whether or not to see a dying parent.

NTA for not wanting to see dying dad who mistreated you.

NTA. Father’s dying wish is most likely selfish. Don’t feel obligated.

Forgiveness is not always deserved. Trust your instincts.

Stand your ground! You owe him nothing.

A sarcastic comment suggesting the father wants the son’s liver

Acceptance is key. NTA for not seeing a hypocrite father.

Put resentment aside, visit dying dad for peace of mind

Cutting off toxic family members can be liberating.

Reconnecting with estranged father for closure? NTA, but consider why.

Not caring for a dying parent – NAH or ESH?
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NTA. Reuniting now won’t fix the missed father relationship

Forgive your dying father to break the cycle of bad behavior ✨

A compassionate comment suggesting the OP should give his father a chance ❤️

Curiosity about family dynamics reveals neutrality towards situation.

Don’t let guilt consume you. NTA for standing up.

Setting boundaries with a dying parent.

Don’t hold grudges, but don’t forget the past either.
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Reconciling with dying dad: a chance to heal old wounds.

NTA: Son refuses to see dying dad who wrote him out of will! Let him die alone.

No father, no problem. Removing guilt not your responsibility

NTA, do what’s best for you. Closure or apology, your choice.

Closure is personal. NTA.

Ignoring toxic family members is sometimes the best option.

Money over family? NTA commenters agree he’s not the a**hole

Confused commenter questions relevance of will in story.
