Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy workplace drama unfolding that’s sure to get your blood boiling! Meet our protagonist, a diligent worker who’s mastered the art of finishing early and clocking out with time to spare. But wait, there’s a twist! Enter Brian, the new guy with autism who’s struggling to keep up. And then there’s Maria, the self-appointed savior who’s volunteering everyone else’s time to help Brian out. Brace yourselves for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, confrontations, and moral dilemmas that’ll leave you questioning who’s the real a**hole in this story!
The Workload Dilemma: Finish Early or Stay Late?

The Catch? Your Pay Remains the Same!

Helping Coworkers: A Rare Occurrence ♂️

Meet Brian: The Fish Out of Water

Brian’s Slow Progress: Extra Hours and Piling Work

Maria’s Good Intentions: Volunteering Others’ Time ⏰

️ The Unilateral Decision: Agreeing Without Consent

❓ The Surprise Stack of Papers: Brian’s Assumption

The Unexpected Workload: Brian’s Silent Delivery

The Stern Confrontation: Returning Brian’s Work

Brian’s Meltdown: The Promised Help ️

Maria’s Heated Confrontation: Calling Out the ‘A**hole’

The Grapevine News: Brian’s Impending Termination ⚠️

♂️ The Moral Dilemma: To Help or Not to Help?

The Ultimate Showdown: Productivity vs. Compassion!
In this gripping tale of workplace woes, our protagonist finds himself at odds with his coworkers over helping Brian, the struggling newbie with autism. Maria, the office do-gooder, takes it upon herself to volunteer everyone’s time to assist Brian, much to the chagrin of those who value their early exits. Tensions rise as Brian assumes help is guaranteed, leading to heated confrontations and a divided office. With Brian’s job on the line, our protagonist is left grappling with the moral dilemma of whether to lend a hand or stand his ground. ♂️ The internet has spoken, and the verdict is in! Let’s see what they have to say about this sticky situation…
No obligation to do someone else’s job; sets wrong standard.

Offering help without consent is not okay. NTA.

New employee with autism needs support – management falling short

Responsibility falls on the autistic man to complete his work.
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Coworker volunteers others, NTA refuses. Major AH move.

Autistic person explains perspective and need for support in workplace.

Don’t feel bad for doing your job
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Employer’s legal responsibility for accommodating disabilities discussed. NTA.

Taking responsibility for one’s own work is crucial. NTA

Blaming an autistic person for taking things literally? Not cool.

Company’s lack of accommodation and Maria’s pressure make NTA clear

Volunteering is good, but coworkers shouldn’t be forced to help.

Miscommunication due to autism – NTA but Maria is the AH

Insensitive comment, lacking empathy for disabled coworker.

Standing up for oneself and reporting workplace harassment! NTA

A sarcastic comment about a company’s outdated work system.

NTA. The commenter suggests that the autistic man should not be working there and that the coworker’s behavior was rude. Management should be informed.
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Government programs for disabled workers have been slashed, leaving burden on colleagues. NTA

Curious about workload and management issues, but no replies.

Employers should make accommodations for disabilities. NTA
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Empathetic reply to coworker and criticism of Maria.

Supporting neurodiversity at work is the way to go!

Supervisor should make accommodations for employee with HFA. NTA OP

Insensitive comment implies disability is a choice
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Coworkers refuse to help autistic man at work. Commenter defends him.

Don’t let coworkers dump work on you without asking first!

Compassionate suggestion to help colleague with autism be more efficient

Helpful suggestion without obligation. NTA for not doing more.

Autistic individual explains how functioning labels are harmful and offers advice on reasonable accommodations. Coworkers should have communicated better and not blamed OP for not helping. Apply to vocational office of rehabilitation for job placement.

Navigating social cues can be tough. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA commenter defends company’s decision and predicts consequences.

NTA but Maria is – Coworkers refuse to help autistic man
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Helpful advice for a coworker with autism’s workload

Supporting neurodiversity at work is important, but not at any cost.

Don’t let anyone guilt you into doing someone else’s job.

Efficient worker defends piece work and suggests asking for help.

Brian drops papers after overhearing conversation, rude move. NTA.

Volunteering others’ time? Dumping work? NTA stands their ground.

Coworkers refuse to help autistic man – commenter calls out hypocrisy
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OP not obligated to help, but coworkers need a reality check

NTA, but lack of empathy towards autistic coworker

Self-care comes first. No one asked for help, NTA

Dumping work on coworker’s desk without warning is rude. NTA.

NTA for refusing to do co-worker’s job.

NTA. Prioritizing your own work over others is fair

No obligation to help autistic coworker, Maria should mind her business
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Software developer empathizes with autistic man, calls out volunteer coworkers.
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Employee with autism struggling at work, coworker defends themselves.

Volunteering time? NTA politely declines and gets called out.

Coworkers refuse to help autistic man with work. NTA comment agrees.

Workload unfairly distributed, NTA for not sacrificing free time.

Coworker volunteers autistic man for extra work without telling him. NTA.

NTA – Management needs to sort out the new guy’s issues

Company should adjust expectations to match ability, NTA.

Self-responsibility praised, helping others not mandatory.

Insensitive comment sparks no replies. ♂️

Is Brian unqualified or are his coworkers unsympathetic?

Not obligated to help, but kindness goes a long way!

Efficiency punished? Not cool. NTA for refusing extra work.

Coworkers refuse to help autistic man with work, commenter thinks NTA

Protecting workplace disability rights. NTA needs reasonable accommodations.

Help without a plan is unsustainable. Don’t participate!

NTA! Coworkers refuse to help autistic man, OP stands up for him.

Importance of clear communication and finding the right job fit

Equality in the workplace: should coworkers help disabled colleagues?
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Setting boundaries at work – NTA comment stands up for self

NTA refuses to do coworker’s job, calls out toxic workplace.

Empathy or boundaries? Navigating obligations at the workplace.

NTA. Employer should provide disability accommodations. Co-workers not responsible.

Asking the important questions!

Helping colleague with autism not sustainable long-term. NTA.

Disabled workers deserve reasonable accommodation, but not at coworkers’ expense.
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UK law protects disabled workers but employer is TA

Advice on accommodations and reporting coworker, NTA comment.
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High-performing employee refuses to be guilt-tripped by coworkers. NTA

Don’t feel guilty for prioritizing your own time and resources!

Navigating the challenges of working with differently-abled colleagues
