Ever had a disagreement that spiraled out of control? Meet our heroine, a 30-year-old mom of two, who found herself in an unexpected battle with her ex-husband, James, over who should drive their son to school. Despite a peaceful divorce and a seemingly perfect arrangement, this mundane issue has sparked a fiery debate. Let’s dive into the drama…
The Divorce and The Car
James’ Gift and the Current Arrangement
The Perfect Pick-up/Drop-off System
The Unexpected Encounter
The Car Controversy Begins
The Accusations Fly ️
The Daughter Dilemma
The Favouritism Feud
The Final Straw
The Son’s Say
The Verdict: Son’s School Ride Selection
In the aftermath of the car controversy, our heroine sought the opinion of the one person who mattered most – her son. Over breakfast, she asked if he’d prefer her to drive him to school. His answer? A resounding ‘yes’… but only if his friend could come too! It seems the little man enjoys his current ride-share arrangement and has no desire for change. So, while the dust settles on this heated debate, it’s clear who the real decision-maker is. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this surprising turn of events…
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