A family moved into a new house with a pool where a neighbor’s child had drowned the previous summer. Despite receiving criticism from the neighbors, the family decided to fill the pool and let their kids play in it. However, the sounds of the children playing in the pool were traumatizing the neighbors.
The family refused to get rid of the pool, causing tension in the neighborhood. Some suggest putting in a fence, but the family already has one. Read the full story to find out what the family plans to do with the pool.
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Neighbors outraged over family letting kids swim in pool
A family is facing backlash from their neighbors for letting their kids swim in a pool where a child drowned last summer. Despite having a solid fence and locked gate around the pool, neighbors are calling the family insensitive for not getting rid of the pool or filling it up.
The family, who couldn’t otherwise afford a house with a pool, decided to move in and fill the pool now that it’s getting hot out. They were confronted by the neighbor whose child died and were told that the sounds of kids playing in the pool were traumatizing. Other neighbors have since joined in on the criticism.
However, the family is standing their ground and refusing to get rid of the pool. The situation has sparked a debate on social media about whether the family is in the wrong or if they have the right to enjoy their pool.
What do you think about the situation ? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA for using pool, but important PSA to prevent drowning
NTA – Neighbors have no right to dictate how OP uses their pool.
NTA. Leaving the pool empty is also a hazard. They should move if it’s a sore spot.
Kids drowning in lakes doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your pool ♂️
Neighbor’s child died in their pool, but NAH for using own pool. Take precautions.
Consideration and communication can go a long way to help neighbors ♂️❤️
Neighbors blame family for tragedy, but NAH. Enforce safety precautions.
NTA for enjoying your pool, but be respectful of the grieving family ♂️ ♀️
Neighbor’s tragedy should not prevent kids from swimming. Compromise instead.
Compassionate response to grieving neighbors’ unreasonable request.
Neighbor traumatized by incident wants family to remove pool. NTA.
Neighbor’s tragedy doesn’t mean you can’t use your own pool ♀️
Defending the pool use: ‘Better demolish every hospital too! ♀️’
Parent takes necessary precautions to prevent pool accidents
New homeowner advises against managing traumatized neighbors, emphasizes pool safety ♂️
Safety first! Commenter suggests pool and fencing code compliance.
Defending pool usage in tragedy; neighbor needs therapy
Empathetic comment offers perspective on trauma and boundaries. ❤️
Prepare your kids for potential confrontation about the pool incident
Neighbor blames family for tragedy, but commenter defends them. ✅
Enjoy your pool, but be considerate of your neighbors’ trauma.
NTA for letting kids swim, but neighbors should not demand pool fill up.
Respectful comment acknowledges trauma while asserting pool ownership.
Apologize empathetically to the grieving neighbor with a heartfelt letter ❤️
Swimming pool not evil, same as sinks and bathtubs. Move on
Defending the use of the pool after tragic incident
Consider buying a pool covering to avoid neighbor’s trauma ♂️
Navigating neighborly boundaries around shared pool after tragedy
No remorse for dangerous behavior ♀️
Neighbor threatens revenge on family for letting kids swim
Respectful disagreement over pool usage with sympathy for neighbor ♀️
Safety first! Proper pool fencing is a must to prevent accidents. ♀️
Enjoy your property and pool, but be cautious and protect yourself ♀️
Enjoy your new home and pool, but prioritize safety ♂️
Debate on the ethics of pool ownership and child safety.
Defend your rights, but prioritize safety. NTA
Neighbors demand pool be filled in after tragic accident. OP’s response.
Defending decision to swim in pool after neighbor’s tragedy. NTA.
Swimming in neighbor’s pool: justified or insensitive?
Tragic accident shouldn’t stop you from enjoying your pool
Respectful advice on navigating sensitive situations
Neighbor’s tragedy causes rift in community. Family advised to move.
Neighbor’s tragedy not OP’s fault, healing is their responsibility
Defending one’s right to use their own property (NTA)
Neighbor’s child died in their pool, but family isn’t the AH
Neighbors upset with family for letting kids swim in pool. NTA.
Neighbors’ behavior raises questions about previous owners’ departure
Neighbor’s child died in their pool, but NAH. Understandable upset.
Defending use of new pool, blaming kid’s parents for lack of supervision.
Pool not to blame for tragedy, but neighbor’s trauma is valid.
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Respectful boundaries should be set with grieving neighbors.
Unapologetic neighbor stands by their actions
Safety measures for pools discussed after tragic accident.
