Man’s Sister Causes Embarrassment with Neighbors, Gets Kicked Out?

Living in a friendly neighborhood is a blessing, but what happens when a family member threatens to ruin that? A man shared his story on r/amitheasshole, seeking to know if he was wrong for asking his sister to find another place to stay after she embarrassed him with his neighbors. The man’s neighbors are a friendly couple who have a small get-together every weekend. They grill out, play music, and chat, and the man has no problem with it. However, his sister complained about the neighbors and even threatened to call the police, claiming they were disturbing the peace. This led to embarrassment and anger, and the man had to explain to his neighbors that he had no issue with their get-together. But his sister refused to apologize, leading him to ask her to find another place to stay. Now, his family is upset with him, and he’s seeking to know if he was justified in his actions . So, was he an a**hole or not?

Friendly neighbor describes relationship with neighbors in 10 words

Neighbor’s small get-together causes big embarrassment for man’s sister

Friendly neighbors host weekend barbecues, even invite over sometimes

Sister crashes, complains and causes chaos

Neighbor apologizes for past behavior, confusion ensues

Neighbor mistakes man’s sister for wife, leads to awkward confrontation

Sister’s desperate move for respect backfires with neighbors

Sister’s rude behavior gets her kicked out of brother’s house.

Sibling drama leads to homelessness and family tension.

Brother conflicted over sister’s behavior causing neighbor troubles

When family drama affects friendly neighbors ‍ ‍ ‍

Living in a friendly neighbourhood can be a blessing, especially when your neighbours are kind and considerate. For one man (31M) who has lived in his current home for two years, the weekends are a time for relaxation and socializing with his neighbours. However, this changed when his sister (27f) moved in after having problems with her boyfriend. She found the weekend gatherings of the neighbours annoying and insisted that they were disturbing the peace with their loud music. After the man reassured his neighbours that he had no problem with their gatherings, he was embarrassed to find out that his sister had complained to the neighbours, pretending to be his wife. The man later told his sister to find another place to stay, which has caused a rift between him and his family. While he feels justified for not wanting his sister to cause problems with their friendly neighbours, he also feels guilty for not helping his sister. What do you think? Is he an a**hole for putting his neighbours first or is he just being a responsible neighbour? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

NTA. Apologize with a gift, good neighbors are invaluable

Sister’s toxic behavior causes rift with neighbors and family. NTA.

Commenter calls out twisted logic of homeless sister’s parents

Sister’s lie causes embarrassment; commenter supports OP being NTA.

NTA. The sister’s disrespect of OP’s home and neighbors is unacceptable ‍♂️

Humorous suggestion to a NTA comment about divorced siblings.

Setting boundaries with family is tough, but necessary.

Jealous of OP’s lovely neighbors, sister gets what she deserves

Sister overstepped boundaries, got kicked out, NTA

Protecting your home turf, NTA stands up to family drama

Concerns raised for sister’s safety in turbulent relationship.

Stand up for your home and community

Neighbor-disrespecting sister gets tough love, refuses to apologize ‍♀️

Setting boundaries with family members for peaceful living

Sibling drama takes over as sister gets kicked out

Boundaries matter, even with family

OP’s sister is not only a choosy beggar, but also a potential liar

Choosing to couch surf instead of going home, NTA.

Neighborly drama: Sister’s behavior causes family fallout ‍♂️

Sister causes unnecessary problem, should apologize to neighbors. NTA

Sister lied to dominate situation, NTA. Don’t let her back.

Sister gets the boot and commenters approve

Sister’s mouth gets her in trouble with neighbors. NTA.

Sibling rivalry over pony ownership sparks lighthearted debate

Avoiding a disaster. NTA handled the situation gracefully

Respect for respect. NTA suggests sister finds new stay.

Standing up to entitled family members

Family drama leads to embarrassment with neighbors. Not the A-hole.

Guest causes unnecessary trouble, gets rightfully kicked out.

Being kind to neighbors pays off during emergencies ‍ ‍ ‍ ️

Self-entitled sister causes trouble with neighbors, NTA kicks her out

Cheers to being NTA and winning over the neighbors

Temporary sister causing trouble? NTA for setting boundaries

Choosing peace over drama with sister and neighbors. NTA

Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. NTA agrees.

Rockin’ neighbors vs. a peaceful TV – NTA wins

Choose your neighbors over a few nights with a drama-filled sibling

Neighborly noise leads to overreaction and wasted resources. ‍♂️

Neighborly dispute resolved with a not-the-a**hole verdict

Sister causing trouble? NTA for setting boundaries ‍♂️

Sibling causes problems with neighbors, gets kicked out. NtA.

Standing up for your neighbors is not being an a**hole

Jealous of amazing neighbors, but wouldn’t take that sister. NTA

Set boundaries with difficult family members for a peaceful home

Sister gets kicked out, needs to respect rules.

Sibling rudeness causes embarrassment and eviction ‍♂️

Family enables sister’s bad behavior, now facing consequences.

Good neighbors are hard to come by. Glad they forgave you.

Choosing noisy neighbors over homelessness? NTA for setting boundaries.

Entitled sister causes chaos with neighbors, gets rightfully kicked out ‍♀️

Neighbor’s loud noise was annoying, but lying was wrong. NTA.

Kicking out sister for bad behavior towards neighbors. NTA.

The comment section starts off with a skeptical tone

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