Many parents love when theyir kid’s birthdays roll around because it’s a great time to spoil them rotten and throw a party where the kids have fun, and the parents get to go drink in the backyard. When throwing a kid’s birthday party, it can be hard to decipher who to invite and who not to invite. And, sometimes, it can even cause some drama.
A lot of planning goes into kid’s birthdays.
Some parents throw a small get-together in the backyard of their home, while others rent out large party places and invite everyone they know. It really depends on the family and what they want to do.
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One thing is for sure, though.
Parents know that when throwing a party, they always have invitations to send out. Whether it’s an e-vite over text message or actual, physical invites, giving invitations makes it an actual party. And, who doesn’t love a cute kid’s invite?!?
When kids are having a birthday party, there are tons of “unspoken rules.”
One of those rules happens to have to do with who the child is inviting. Many parents believe that when you are throwing a child’s birthday party and you are inviting some kid’s from their class at school, you shouldn’t leave other kids out.
Recently, one teacher opened up on TikTok about this exact topic.
In the viral video, a teacher called a parent of a child in her class after her daughter had given a few invitations to some kids at school, but, not the entire class. The teacher said that if the girl was going to invite some kids in class, she should have invited the entire class.
The mom, however, disagreed.
The mom said that it was absolutely wrong to say she had to invite the whole class, which has 27 kids in it. The mom claimed that it was a birthday party, “she’s not a soup kitchen” able to feed and entertain all 27 students in her daughter’s class.
The teacher’s point is that it can make other kids feel left out.
The teacher was coming from a place that, if a parent is going to have a child hang out invites at school in the classroom, that every child should be getting one. If they don’t plan on inviting the whole class, giving the invites out in school is the wrong move.
People online had a lot of opinions about this matter.
Another teacher chimed in and said that you don’t have to invite the entire class, but, if you’re not going to then handing out invitations in the classroom is wrong. You shouldn’t do it in front of the other kids if they’re not invited.
Others agreed with this sentiment.
Others said if you don’t plan on inviting the entire class, stop passing them out in the classroom. There’s literally no reason to purposely make other kids feel bad about themselves and wonder why they are not invited.
However, other people had different takes on this.
One person said that people are “too sensitive.” If you’re inviting only a handful of kids, it shouldn’t matter if you hand them out in person. If you only leave out 2-3 kids of the whole class, then yeah, that’s wrong.
There were many online who totally disagreed altogether.
One person compared this mentality of needing to invite everyone in the class to giving out participation trophies. They agreed that kids need to learn to not be included in everything and be okay with being left out.
Others said that the commenters were also wrong.
Others commented saying that those who say “passing them out in class” is wrong and rude, they need to stop tip-toeing around kids. They said “kids these days need to learn that they don’t need to be involved.”
Where do you stand on this debate?
