Sometimes in our relationships and marriages, things can go south rather quickly.
When we suspect our partners of infidelity, it can be a very slippery slope of drama and arguments. While the idea of our SO cheating is hard enough, trying to find the proof is even harder.
Not only does she suspect that her husband had an affair with someone, she also thinks that her husband fathered a child with the woman.
The woman, apparently, believes that her husband fathered her best friend's child and now is asking him and her friend to do a paternity test to get down to the truth.
"So one of my best friends had a kid 3 years ago. She said it was a one night stand and later the guy expressed no interest in being a dad so she raised her son herself. No one has ever seen this guy, not even me," she wrote.
"The issue is this: this kid looks EXTREMELY like my husband like to an insane degree. The hair color, eyes, face everything. He’s even been out with my friend and her son and people have mistaken him to be the dad before," she said.
"Over the past year it’s really eaten at me. I see the resemblance growing more and more. It doesn’t help that my friend refuses to show me a picture of her son’s biological father no matter how much I asked.
It kept spiraling until I had a meltdown and confronted both of them, saying that I will pack up and leave if I don’t see a paternity test," she admitted.
"Long story short, my friend got a paternity test but said our friendship is over. The test says my husband isn’t the father," she revealed.
"I feel so ashamed to lose my friend but I thought my husband would slightly understand since even he sees the obvious resemblance between him and this kid.
But he has moved out for the time being and I’m worried this is the end of our marriage," she added.
The majority of people said that the Reddit user was 100% wrong. Many said she has "deeper problems to resolve."
"You need to get therapy, OP. Regardless of whether or not your marriage survives--and if I were your spouse, I don't think it would--this is obviously a pretty serious problem," one person said.
"You let your insecurities get the better of you to an insane degree and, instead of talking it over in a normal (albeit wildly uncomfortable) conversation, you waited till you went crazy and threatened to leave them all if they didnt do exactly what you wanted," another added.
Do you think this wife is totally in the wrong, too?
